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re: Sometimes life sucks
Posted on 2/21/26 at 12:09 am to CorchJay
Posted on 2/21/26 at 12:09 am to CorchJay
I don't think you are overthinking things. Life is not always a smooth progression. Things come along in chunks sometimes. We all have things that happen that just hit us hard and make us question the meaning of our existence. For me, it was the death of my significant other in 2006. He was only 36. He went to bed and died of heart failure in his sleep. The days following his death were hard. I tried to comfort his mother, got hit on by his brother at the funeral home, and kept picking up the phone to call him only to remember that he wouldn't answer. I wanted him back but felt guilty for that when I thought about the wonderful life he now has in heaven. It was 12 years before I could even consider a new relationship.
Sorry to be so long winded but you have people on this board who have been praying for you and will continue to do so. You do not go through difficult times alone. At every step you take, your Heavenly Father is there and nothing ever happens that is not filtered through His fingers of love.
Sorry to be so long winded but you have people on this board who have been praying for you and will continue to do so. You do not go through difficult times alone. At every step you take, your Heavenly Father is there and nothing ever happens that is not filtered through His fingers of love.
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Posted on 2/21/26 at 2:00 am to LRB1967
Thank you LRB. The prayers will definitely work.
I have the strength to make it through this difficult time. I will say I am not at all a believer in karma but I do think you reap what you sow.
I lived a lot of my young adulthood as a sinner, not a bad person but not a good person either. I wasn’t evil but I hurt a lot of people emotionally.
What’s crazy is I have been crazy in love with my wife since we started talking. The one person I never wanted to hurt, had patience, suffered my own emotional abuse from her, and now I’m all washed up and we are officially in divorce proceedings. I will be moving out of the house in the next few weeks. I don’t want to frick up my step son’s heads overturning their lives. Remember one of them has an IQ of 52 and doesn’t understand “adult” type stuff he’s kind of trapped with a 10 year olds mind. Luckily so far everything has been very amicable. Starting over at 54 doesn’t seem fun. She’s 43 so she has some time to recover. Not saying I don’t but maybe a townhouse is in my future and not the “forever” home I was looking to build in the not so distant future. I’m not really materialistic other than when I do purchase stuff I like high quality things. I’m not emotionally attached to objects so that helps with losing things like shared things from the house. I couldn’t care less who gets a painting or pot or pan.
Again everyone thanks for hearing me out. I know we are semi anonymous on here and it helps to express what I’m going through without judgement or someone that’s “knows” me. I can just ramble.
Last thing anyone know any rich women?? lol
I have the strength to make it through this difficult time. I will say I am not at all a believer in karma but I do think you reap what you sow.
I lived a lot of my young adulthood as a sinner, not a bad person but not a good person either. I wasn’t evil but I hurt a lot of people emotionally.
What’s crazy is I have been crazy in love with my wife since we started talking. The one person I never wanted to hurt, had patience, suffered my own emotional abuse from her, and now I’m all washed up and we are officially in divorce proceedings. I will be moving out of the house in the next few weeks. I don’t want to frick up my step son’s heads overturning their lives. Remember one of them has an IQ of 52 and doesn’t understand “adult” type stuff he’s kind of trapped with a 10 year olds mind. Luckily so far everything has been very amicable. Starting over at 54 doesn’t seem fun. She’s 43 so she has some time to recover. Not saying I don’t but maybe a townhouse is in my future and not the “forever” home I was looking to build in the not so distant future. I’m not really materialistic other than when I do purchase stuff I like high quality things. I’m not emotionally attached to objects so that helps with losing things like shared things from the house. I couldn’t care less who gets a painting or pot or pan.
Again everyone thanks for hearing me out. I know we are semi anonymous on here and it helps to express what I’m going through without judgement or someone that’s “knows” me. I can just ramble.
Last thing anyone know any rich women?? lol
Posted on 2/21/26 at 8:01 am to CorchJay
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Last thing anyone know any rich women?? lol
Def not in my household..
I’m struggling too.. not financially, but the grind of it. Our child is in the preschool years so with my wife’s job, it made more sense for her to cut back hours and stay home the days I work instead of paying for daycare.
Which in turn, has caused me to work all the time to provide for our family. I’m grateful to have the opportunity, but it sucks when you aren’t saving as much as you plan due to the cost of living these days.
What hobbies are you into to get your mind off of it and some enjoyment?
We all are in a different battle of this war, but we will stick together and support each other through our Auburn Brotherhood
Posted on 2/21/26 at 8:10 am to CorchJay
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Last thing anyone know any rich women?? lol
She probably didn't cheat on you but this is why men dont buy women fake tits.
Or take them to nude beaches. You never let them compare sizes at a meat factory.
Posted on 2/21/26 at 8:43 am to jangalang
lol. No, no cheating.
I have bought 2 sets of tidys. First set had one rupture while at the beach. So had to get a replacement. So I’m about $12k in boobs lol.
She’s borderline personality disorder and Bipolar II. If you know anything about BPD then you know what hell can be like. But I definitely don’t want this as my opportunity to trash her. It is my choice to end it.
I have bought 2 sets of tidys. First set had one rupture while at the beach. So had to get a replacement. So I’m about $12k in boobs lol.
She’s borderline personality disorder and Bipolar II. If you know anything about BPD then you know what hell can be like. But I definitely don’t want this as my opportunity to trash her. It is my choice to end it.
Posted on 2/21/26 at 8:57 am to Fearless_and_True
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Which in turn, has caused me to work all the time to provide for our family
I think a lot of us have been in that spot with little ones. Especially if you aren’t settled completely into your career. I had my first when I was 22. I was making $7.69/hr, for a gift from my work they bumped me to 10.57/hr. So I worked 2-3 jobs.
Posted on 2/21/26 at 10:31 am to CorchJay
You know when the kids head off to school and start their on journey, there is a huge void. I’m not good at just hanging with buddies other than my dog which helps a lot.
Trying to get into golf and spend my free time learning that game but definitely a big void right now.
Trying to get into golf and spend my free time learning that game but definitely a big void right now.
Posted on 2/21/26 at 10:41 am to attalla
Only sport I absolutely have sucked at is golf. All others I just used my athleticism and was successful. Golf is a different beast.
I like fishing. Don’t do it enough. I like shooting guns. Don’t do that enough either. I don’t drink so hanging out having drinks aren’t my thing. And last time I went out I was the oldest critter in the bar and was like nope not for me.
I like fishing. Don’t do it enough. I like shooting guns. Don’t do that enough either. I don’t drink so hanging out having drinks aren’t my thing. And last time I went out I was the oldest critter in the bar and was like nope not for me.
Posted on 2/21/26 at 11:29 am to CorchJay
Man how have I missed this thread.... Sorry to hear about this Corch. Tough shite man. You will work through it. Your son seems a lot like mine. He is 25, about to be 26 and is basically trapped in a 10 year olds mind. Great kid and no physical issues but thinks and acts like a 10 year old.
I have one pair under my belt. Was a great decision after my wife had our kids. Its been 20 years and they still look great. More of a lift than inserts.
Man hang in there and try to change up your routine a little as things progress. Get out of that sweaty gym and get on a boat or something different. If your down this way, you know how to contact me for sure. Any of you, anytime
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I have bought 2 sets of tidys.
I have one pair under my belt. Was a great decision after my wife had our kids. Its been 20 years and they still look great. More of a lift than inserts.
Man hang in there and try to change up your routine a little as things progress. Get out of that sweaty gym and get on a boat or something different. If your down this way, you know how to contact me for sure. Any of you, anytime
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