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Are you good at public speaking?
Posted on 8/2/16 at 11:50 am
Posted on 8/2/16 at 11:50 am
Do any of you have to do a lot of public speaking for your job? I don't see myself as a bad speaker, but I know I could be a lot better. I've been trying to use my hands more when I speak. What are some things y'all do/did to get better?
Posted on 8/2/16 at 11:54 am to AllbyMyRelf
In high school I could barely read a set of note cards for 3 minutes in front of a class. Then in college, my major forced me to do a lot of presentations. So I went from there to being able to do hour long presentations with only a few bullet points as notes.
As for my job, I have to do trade shows and presentations for customers in groups of anywhere from 5-30+ all the time.
As for my job, I have to do trade shows and presentations for customers in groups of anywhere from 5-30+ all the time.
Posted on 8/2/16 at 12:00 pm to AllbyMyRelf
Yeah. The best way to improve is do it more often. I was a camp counselor and had to talk in front of people/make fun of myself all the time. Had to do a lot of improv speeches in a HS class, that I feel helped as well.
Posted on 8/2/16 at 12:07 pm to AllbyMyRelf
I'm a bit out of practice, but used to do it all the time. I believe I was very good at it when I did it on a regular basis. Not sure if I would be now, or not.
Posted on 8/2/16 at 12:09 pm to AllbyMyRelf
I was a master debater in HS, won district persuasive speaking 2 years. Currently I give presentations to CIOs a few times a year and train large groups.
I also have to pray in front of my 3000 member congregation every few months.
I don't know if I'm good at it but I'm relaxed at it.
I also have to pray in front of my 3000 member congregation every few months.
I don't know if I'm good at it but I'm relaxed at it.
This post was edited on 8/2/16 at 12:11 pm
Posted on 8/2/16 at 12:13 pm to AllbyMyRelf
Yes. Mainly because both my parents were avid Toastmasters members and gave me and my siblings opportunities to speak publicly at early ages. My mom actually speaks semi-professionally.
I actually kind of enjoy it. The better you know your subject matter and your audience, the smoother everything goes.
Because careful with this. Too many "empty" gestures become distracting in a hurry, and can develop into a crutch for you as a speaker. Try to keep it as natural as possible.
Also, the less "on script" you try to be, the less trepidation you'll feel (at least in my experience).
I actually kind of enjoy it. The better you know your subject matter and your audience, the smoother everything goes.
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I've been trying to use my hands more when I speak.
Because careful with this. Too many "empty" gestures become distracting in a hurry, and can develop into a crutch for you as a speaker. Try to keep it as natural as possible.
Also, the less "on script" you try to be, the less trepidation you'll feel (at least in my experience).
This post was edited on 8/2/16 at 12:15 pm
Posted on 8/2/16 at 12:26 pm to AllbyMyRelf
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Do any of you have to do a lot of public speaking for your job?
I'm the American Legion Post Commander for my local Post, so it kinda is.
Some people find "using the hands" makes speaking easier, I do. But it's really just about experience, practice and organization. Have an outline of what you want to talk about so you don't get lost.
Posted on 8/2/16 at 12:29 pm to AllbyMyRelf
I don't do a lot anymore but I'm pretty good at it.
Know your subject matter 100%!!! And expect the "devil's advocate" type questions to come up.
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What are some things y'all do/did to get better?
Know your subject matter 100%!!! And expect the "devil's advocate" type questions to come up.
Posted on 8/2/16 at 12:39 pm to AllbyMyRelf
I get more nervous in front of 5-10 but in front of bigger crowds I am good.
I guess it is the football thing, I never felt nervous in front of a stadium full of people, but in a smaller group like at a workshop etc I was scared to death. I guess it is being able to remove the personal touch from it. If giving a presentation I always find a clock in the back or something in middle of the wall on back and look at it (fake eye contact)
I guess it is the football thing, I never felt nervous in front of a stadium full of people, but in a smaller group like at a workshop etc I was scared to death. I guess it is being able to remove the personal touch from it. If giving a presentation I always find a clock in the back or something in middle of the wall on back and look at it (fake eye contact)
This post was edited on 8/2/16 at 12:41 pm
Posted on 8/2/16 at 12:54 pm to AllbyMyRelf
Terrible, but people tell me I'm good.
Posted on 8/2/16 at 12:58 pm to AllbyMyRelf
No. It's one of my biggest fears.
Posted on 8/2/16 at 3:33 pm to pvilleguru
The only only time I've ever had any issue with it is if I didn't know my material. I talk in front of 10-30 people at work on a given day for meetings and such, it doesn't bother me in the slightest.
Posted on 8/2/16 at 5:39 pm to AllbyMyRelf
I have done a lot of public seminars over the past 15 years. I am always nervous when I do them until I get to rolling
I have found that with the subjects I talk about, I am better off not having a real outline. Just a starting point, bullet points and a ending. Then just going off my head
I have found that with the subjects I talk about, I am better off not having a real outline. Just a starting point, bullet points and a ending. Then just going off my head
Posted on 8/3/16 at 8:01 am to LanierSpots
Yes.
I used to get really nervous. The biggest problem is when there is someone there and they know the subject you are talking about better than you. Knowing the material you are talking about thoroughly will boost your confidence tremendously. Pick 3 or 4 people in the crowd and focus in on them seems to help some people.
Psychological Reciprocity- When you compliment someone the first time you meet them they are morally and subconsciously bound to give you credit for the very next thing you say. So tell the crowd they all look good today or something like that.
I used to get really nervous. The biggest problem is when there is someone there and they know the subject you are talking about better than you. Knowing the material you are talking about thoroughly will boost your confidence tremendously. Pick 3 or 4 people in the crowd and focus in on them seems to help some people.
Psychological Reciprocity- When you compliment someone the first time you meet them they are morally and subconsciously bound to give you credit for the very next thing you say. So tell the crowd they all look good today or something like that.
Posted on 8/3/16 at 1:18 pm to AllbyMyRelf
I did it for a living during my career. Toastmasters is a great way to get good quickly if you didn't have speech classes in school.
Essentials for being a good speaker from my experiences:
1. Know your stuff. Nothing is less interesting that a speaker who mumbles, hesitates and continually corrects himself.
2. Dress nicely. Don't compete with your subject matter by wearing anything unusual, unless it's part of the program.
3. Speak more slowly than you might in a one-on-one conversation, and more clearly. Project. You're speaking to a group in which people are used to different styles but slow and clear is universally acceptable.
4. Aids are great. A PowerPoint presentation is made far better if you use a laser pointer, for example. Again, a variety of people includes those who might have difficulty following along.
4a. More aids. Have attention keepers as part of your presentation. Vary your delivery if you see people's eyes glazing over. Even a long pause can do the trick. Have videos and audios if possible. They must be short, though, so that they don't dominate your presentation. They should compliment, not compete with, you as the main focus.
5. Don't get get bogged down in details. Have materials or websites that the audience members can go to for further info if they're interested. Short and interesting is the goal for any subject. Unfortunately, long and boring seems to be the standard.
6. Will there be a question and answer period? If so, announce it at the beginning and enforce it throughout the presentation. There are plenty of know-it-alls who will try to take over. Don't let them.
There are lots of other tips that make for an interesting presentation. Again, Toastmasters is a great place to start and continue.
It's a good feeling when you connect with your audience and impart the message you intended. Enjoy.
Essentials for being a good speaker from my experiences:
1. Know your stuff. Nothing is less interesting that a speaker who mumbles, hesitates and continually corrects himself.
2. Dress nicely. Don't compete with your subject matter by wearing anything unusual, unless it's part of the program.
3. Speak more slowly than you might in a one-on-one conversation, and more clearly. Project. You're speaking to a group in which people are used to different styles but slow and clear is universally acceptable.
4. Aids are great. A PowerPoint presentation is made far better if you use a laser pointer, for example. Again, a variety of people includes those who might have difficulty following along.
4a. More aids. Have attention keepers as part of your presentation. Vary your delivery if you see people's eyes glazing over. Even a long pause can do the trick. Have videos and audios if possible. They must be short, though, so that they don't dominate your presentation. They should compliment, not compete with, you as the main focus.
5. Don't get get bogged down in details. Have materials or websites that the audience members can go to for further info if they're interested. Short and interesting is the goal for any subject. Unfortunately, long and boring seems to be the standard.
6. Will there be a question and answer period? If so, announce it at the beginning and enforce it throughout the presentation. There are plenty of know-it-alls who will try to take over. Don't let them.
There are lots of other tips that make for an interesting presentation. Again, Toastmasters is a great place to start and continue.
It's a good feeling when you connect with your audience and impart the message you intended. Enjoy.
Posted on 8/3/16 at 3:09 pm to TbirdSpur2010
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Also, the less "on script" you try to be, the less trepidation you'll feel
I'm at my best when I am speaking off the cuff and the only "script" I have is a rough outline of topics. If you know the subject matter, you don't need to write a speech.
Posted on 8/3/16 at 3:13 pm to AllbyMyRelf
It's kinda 50/50. Best thing is to not let nerves take over it.
This post was edited on 8/3/16 at 3:16 pm

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