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Derek Mason’s Daughter—Depression

Posted on 12/4/18 at 9:49 am
Posted by VandyTops17
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Posted on 12/4/18 at 9:49 am
LINK

Never know what people and their families are going through.

Posted by DownSouthJukin
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Member since Jan 2014
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Posted on 12/4/18 at 9:53 am to
That's a good article for those who may be suffering from depression. It's worth the read for any family members who may have a loved one dealing with depression, as well.

Thanks for posting, OP.
This post was edited on 12/4/18 at 9:54 am
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 9:54 am to
quote:

That's a good article for those who may be suffering from depression. It's worth the read for any family members who may have a loved one dealing with depression, as well.

Thanks for posting, OP.


I echo these sentiments.
Posted by Dawgsontop34
Member since Jun 2014
42686 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 10:15 am to
Thanks for sharing that.
Posted by Bbobalou
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Member since Oct 2012
5107 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 10:23 am to
Mental illness is a serious issue that most kinda brush under the table. Me included.
Posted by yatesdog38
in your head rent free
Member since Sep 2013
12737 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 10:28 am to
I been through it before and it was serious. Turned out it was being caused by a side effect of a medicine I was taking regularly for another health condition. Doctor didn't believe me so prescribed me a bunch of drugs for anxiety. then that made me a walking zombie and i always couldn't remember shite. Always seek a second opinion. Doctors are human. Many often don't listen to you and just write prescriptions for everything. You can be over medicated.

Posted by Lonnie Utah
Utah!
Member since Jul 2012
24067 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 10:32 am to
Depression is no joke.

Once upon a time long, long ago, I walked right up to the edge. Thank goodness in that moment, I didn't take the next step.
Posted by randomways
North Carolina
Member since Aug 2013
12988 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 10:32 am to
"It was awful to see things said about my dad on social media. I know that comes with the job but some mean tweets were beyond what my 16-year-old mind could handle, like having a stranger tweet that he hopes a coach's daughters get raped. "

I guess I always assumed we had at least a few of these sorts of fans, because every program does, but I'd never encountered them. Part of me wants to go looking for them online now, part of me doesn't want to ever see a Vandy fan calling for a teenage girl to get raped because her dad pretty much achieved the norm at Vandy. What the frick? Did somebody decide that Franklin's tenure was the new normal and lose his fricking mind?
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
90891 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 10:35 am to
Moving a lot is tough on a young child. I had similar issues because my parents moved us 8 times from kindergarten to 4th grade due to my dad changing jobs working his way up. And they weren’t local moves, always a new town new school new people. Thankfully I’ve been in this area since 4th grade so my best years in school I was able to find my crowd and grow up close to all my current friends. But it’s deginitely hard on a child
Posted by EKG
Houston, TX
Member since Jun 2010
44041 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 10:35 am to
I’ve previously shared on this website my daily battle with mental illness.
And that’s exactly what it is: a battle.
It took me years to finally reach a place where, triangulated by my General Practitioner, my Psychiatrist, and my therapist, we began to make some headway.

The insidious nature of clinical depression, social anxiey disorder, and a litany of other mental illnesses is that a sick person who’s at rock bottom has to be proactive enough with his mental health to take the excruciatingly private steps to do something about it.
Few actually do.

Anyway, I once made a promise to myself that whenever I came across a public discussion of depression, anxiety, and/or mental health, that I would speak out.
The illness attacks the person; it’s not something anyone does to encourage nor invite.
For any of you who may be reading this who feels like a lonely, isolated freak ... don’t.
Leave the feelings of stigmatization behind and know that we’re fighting our demons together.

Sorry about that missive, folks.
But this topic is near and dear to me.
Merry Christmas!
Posted by Arksulli
Fayetteville
Member since Aug 2014
25224 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 10:45 am to
Depression is a scary medical condition. The very things that will help you feel better (talking to people, being active, doing things you enjoy) become almost impossible. Its very easy to spiral downward quickly.

My best wishes to this young lady and her family in dealing with this.
Posted by Funky Tide 8
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Member since Feb 2009
52809 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 10:47 am to
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Anyway, I once made a promise to myself that whenever I came across a public discussion of depression, anxiety, and/or mental health, that I would speak out.



I've dealt with general anxiety pretty much my whole life, but I didn't truly realize that until this year at age 30. I always just thought that it was normal.

I went through some trials and tribulations in April right as I turned 30, which really got me down. So I decided to start opening up to family and friends, for the first time really, about how I was feeling. It really helped/helps me to get it out there, and open up.
This post was edited on 12/4/18 at 11:29 am
Posted by BhamBlazeDog
Birmingham
Member since Aug 2018
3773 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 10:58 am to
Have been struggling with the same issue since I lost my little brother in high school. It's always good to know you're not fighting that battle alone. Depression is an insidious bitch that won't ever leave you alone, you just learn to cope and deal and find the best in life.
Posted by bigDgator
Dallas, TX
Member since Oct 2008
41731 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 11:00 am to
Damn that's terrible. Glad she got some help and I agree with the rest that if anyone is having any difficulties please seek help. People do care.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 11:03 am to
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EKG


You are an inspiration
Posted by EKG
Houston, TX
Member since Jun 2010
44041 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 11:20 am to
Hardly .

I’m just someone who was finally able to acknowledge the fact that, “I am not well.”
Trust me: the sleepless nights, panic attacks, crying spells, and plain and simple depression always lurk.
Opening up about it doesn’t make me better than anyone else, it’s just part of my journey.

Be your brother’s keeper; ask questions (“Are you ok?”); reach out.
Posted by roadGator
Member since Feb 2009
140740 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 11:31 am to
Are you ok?
Posted by EKG
Houston, TX
Member since Jun 2010
44041 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 11:34 am to
I am.
Thank you.
Posted by DivePlay
Member since Sep 2012
948 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 11:37 am to
I swear to god 50 years from now we will find that there is something in our food, electronics, or medication that is causing these levels of mental issues. Wish her the best.
Posted by Lonnie Utah
Utah!
Member since Jul 2012
24067 posts
Posted on 12/4/18 at 11:42 am to
quote:

I am.
Thank you.


Glad to hear it. Stay strong.
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