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Ideal age gap for a relationship if you want it to last

Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:54 pm
Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
38533 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:54 pm
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“The heart wants what to heart wants” and “age is just a number” are well-versed clichés – and you just can’t help who you fall head over heels for.


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According to a study conducted by Emory University in Atlanta, the bigger the difference, the bigger the chance of separation.


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After analyzing 3,000 people, it found that couples with a five-year age gap are 18 percent more likely to split up than those of the same age.


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Interestingly, that figure rose to 39 percent for couples with a 10-year age gap and a shocking 95 percent for those with a 20-year age gap.


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So, just how big is too big of an age difference?


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Contrary to popular belief, researchers believe that the sweet spot lies in just a one-year gap between spouses who have a much smaller chance of separation at just three percent.


Full Story - MSN

40/2+7=27 statistically doesn't work long-term, but short-term, it might feel superb.


Posted by beerJeep
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2016
35012 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:01 pm to
Gotta get in a relationship before you can worry about keeping the relationship.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48470 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:10 pm to
Because at some point the guy who was a decent looking 40 yr old is an old fart and the woman is still pretty young and attractive.

In all seriousness, I do think people who are generally in the same phase of life probably have an easier marriage. I realize there are tons of exceptions to any sort of stat like this.
Posted by faraway
Member since Nov 2022
1980 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:13 pm to
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Because at some point the guy who was a decent looking 40 yr old is an old fart and the woman is still pretty young and attractive.
men generally age better than women. most women age like milk. are you not aware of this reality?
Posted by TheArrogantCorndog
Highland Rd
Member since Sep 2009
14814 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:19 pm to
As an immature OT poster, I feel women 7-10 years my junior are perfect
Posted by Longhorn Actual
Member since Dec 2023
919 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:22 pm to
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percent more likely


Those numbers aren't raw probabilities.

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a shocking 95 percent for those with a 20-year age gap.


...doesn't mean 95% chance of separation. It means nearly double the chance of separation than couples of the same age.

Not a great stat, but doesn't mean you're 95% doomed.
Posted by Buds4
Unfortunately, Earth
Member since Oct 2022
158 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:23 pm to
10-15% if you are young. 25% if you are older than 35.
Posted by Longhorn Actual
Member since Dec 2023
919 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:25 pm to
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Because at some point the guy who was a decent looking 40 yr old is an old fart and the woman is still pretty young and attractive.



I'm in the latter half of my 40s. My dad is in his 70s and women still say he's hot. I'm gonna take my chances.
Posted by tgrmeat
Member since Sep 2020
4332 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:28 pm to
I think no more than 7 years.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48470 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:51 pm to
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men generally age better than women. most women age like milk. are you not aware of this reality?

Sure, men age better, but I also think an attractive 36 year old woman that's married to a 51 yr old man will also be getting attention from 36 year old men.

It makes sense to me that larger age gaps would produce higher divorce rates.

Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
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Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:54 pm to
Is that first go round or second go round marriages?

Posted by Tridentds
Sugar Land
Member since Aug 2011
20368 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:55 pm to
Need a bit more information.



Just exactly how big is her ranch?


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Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
39221 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:57 pm to
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In all seriousness, I do think people who are generally in the same phase of life probably have an easier marriage. I realize there are tons of exceptions to any sort of stat like this.

I agree, but i think the man being about five years older works best. A healthy woman plummets sexually after menopause, while a healthy man keeps going strong.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The Snarlington Estate
Member since Jul 2009
48532 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:58 pm to
Also the 36 year old is going to relate better to another 36 year old than a 51 year old. Now that 36 year old guy is probably banging 23 year olds and doesn't want her anyway.
We went and saw live music the other night and the old men with the younger women just looked out of place.

*it was much more difficult for older guys to even sleep with younger chicks before little blue pills.
Posted by Strannix
District 11
Member since Dec 2012
48900 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:58 pm to
Dont marry a whore and it goes down exponentially
Posted by Tortious
ATX
Member since Nov 2010
5134 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 7:00 pm to
There is only one gap that matters

Posted by North Dallas Tiger
Geaux Tigahs
Member since Mar 2024
1987 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 7:01 pm to
I say about 10 years
Posted by Handsome Pete
Member since Apr 2019
1314 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 7:03 pm to
The woman should be half the man's age + 7 years. So says the honorable Elijah Muhammed - and if it's good enough for the Nation of Islam, it's good enough for me.
Posted by junkfunky
Member since Jan 2011
33886 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 7:06 pm to
CAD, can I get your wife's number before y'all get divorced?
Posted by Lolathon234
Texas
Member since Oct 2022
210 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 7:41 pm to
Have to love made up statistics. They should have made it something more believable because given ~50% of all marriages end in seperation/divorce, that number being 3% is completely absurd. It's blatant things like this that make people start to realize the news isn't for reporting, it's real purpose is to push an agenda and mandate or modify public policy. And that leads to apathy and a loss of trust
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