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Posted on 6/29/16 at 8:06 pm to Jimmy Dean
Posted on 6/29/16 at 8:06 pm to Jimmy Dean
Deadbeat fathers come in every color. Every single one of my black friends married outside of their race both are faithful and good parents.
frick your stereotypes. If less people thought like you, this country would be a better place.
frick your stereotypes. If less people thought like you, this country would be a better place.
This post was edited on 6/29/16 at 8:10 pm
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Posted on 6/29/16 at 10:08 pm to Evolved Simian
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Attractions are dictated by biology.
Umm no it's not. It's based on psychological cues and also based on your belief or lack of belief of a social/culture system.
This post was edited on 6/29/16 at 10:13 pm
Posted on 6/29/16 at 11:21 pm to Jimmy Dean
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Can't blame the father for wanting more for his daughter and wanting his grandkids to know their dad.
Posted on 6/30/16 at 7:13 am to Jimmy Dean
Dumbass
Posted on 6/30/16 at 7:44 am to TbirdSpur2010
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Every single one of my black friends married outside of their race both are faithful and good parents.
You only have 2 black friends?
Posted on 6/30/16 at 7:54 am to MoarKilometers
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You only have 2 black friends?
Transposed "both" and "are." My bad
Posted on 6/30/16 at 10:30 am to sms151t
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based on your belief or lack of belief of a social/culture system.
LOL. If that were even remotely true pedophilia wouldn't exist.
Physical and sexual attractions are hard wired, even if that wiring is faulty.
Posted on 6/30/16 at 10:35 am to Jimmy Dean
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you're 1 of 100... i applaud you. if more were like you this country would be a great place.
you insult a whole race, then try to compliment someone who's of that race for being different. jesus christ.
Posted on 6/30/16 at 11:00 am to Evolved Simian
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LOL. If that were even remotely true pedophilia wouldn't exist. Physical and sexual attractions are hard wired, even if that wiring is faulty.
Incorrect. You can be operant conditioned to have an attraction. Which proves it to be a psychological cue. A voice can sexually attract you, which is a psychological cue.
Pedophilia is an accepted social cue to some depending on your belief system.
Social Exchange theory is what relationships and attractions are.
This post was edited on 6/30/16 at 11:11 am
Posted on 6/30/16 at 11:27 am to dwgsfrlife7673
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He doesn't have to like me just respect I love his daughter
You expect him to respect that you love his daughter, but you don't respect that he doesn't want you with his daughter that he has known all her life? If you truly loved her and this is giving her anxiety, you should let her go. Just my 2 cents and probably not what you want to hear.
Posted on 6/30/16 at 11:50 am to jvilletiger25
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you don't respect that he doesn't want you with his daughter that he has known all her life?
Except he doesn't even know her daughter's BF and is making assumptions based on his race.
You have to be kidding me
Posted on 6/30/16 at 12:07 pm to jvilletiger25
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You expect him to respect that you love his daughter, but you don't respect that he doesn't want you with his daughter that he has known all her life? If you truly loved her and this is giving her anxiety, you should let her go. Just my 2 cents and probably not what you want to hear.
Do you really think that two people in love should spilt up, if one of their parents doesn't approve of the relationship because of stereotypes? That's almost as dumb add me not letting my kid marry someone because they're an auburn fan. Because in all reality, those two things have as much correlation to someone being a good person and partner.
Posted on 6/30/16 at 12:14 pm to CCTider
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Do you really think that two people in love should spilt up, if one of their parents doesn't approve of the relationship because of stereotypes?
Nope. But I do know that if she was 100% all in, she wouldn't be having anxiety about it. She wouldn't give a damn what anyone thought. What I said is not based on what her father feels. She's the one that kept it from her father for so long. Why is that? It's based on what the girl feels herself. If I truly love someone, I'd want what is going to make her happy whether that means being with me or not.
This post was edited on 6/30/16 at 12:16 pm
Posted on 6/30/16 at 12:16 pm to jvilletiger25
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You expect him to respect that you love his daughter, but you don't respect that he doesn't want you with his daughter that he has known all her life?
If her father doesn't want them together because his skin tone doesn't match hers, that's is a position that merits absolutely zero respect, regardless of how long the father has known her. Completely irrelevant caveat.
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If you truly loved her and this is giving her anxiety, you should let her go.
Things cause anxiety in relationships all the time. Hell, most brides (and grooms) are anxious on their freaking wedding day, for crying out loud: lol: That's precious little reason to "let her go," especially when the anxiety being caused is by someone outside of the relationship with bigoted views.
Shame on you for intimating that OP and his girl striving through adversity not of their own doing is indicative of him not truly loving her. That's some straight up bullshite right there
Posted on 6/30/16 at 12:18 pm to MoarKilometers
Tbird is white so he can only have so many black friends
Posted on 6/30/16 at 12:22 pm to jvilletiger25
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if she was 100% all in, she wouldn't be having anxiety about it.
Have you ever met a woman.....EVER?
By your logic every bride who has ever had any wedding day qualms isn't "all in" and should be "let go" 
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She's the one that kept it from her father for so long. Why is that?
Because she's pretty sure her dad's a racist a-hole?
Not hard to figure out. Posted on 6/30/16 at 12:25 pm to TbirdSpur2010
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Because she's pretty sure her dad's a racist a-hole? Not hard to figure out.
There's more to it than that. But you just keep on believing that it's all her father. And you calling her father an a-hole when you don't even know the guy is pretty bigoted yourself. Pot meet kettle
Posted on 6/30/16 at 12:39 pm to jvilletiger25
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There's more to it than that.
Ironic that you ended your post talking about me not knowing her father, but of course you know there's more to the daughter's feelings
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you calling her father an a-hole when you don't even know the guy is pretty bigoted yourself. Pot meet kettle
Bigotry: "having or revealing an obstinate belief in the superiority of one's own opinions and a prejudiced intolerance of the opinions of others"
You're goddamned right I'm intolerant of someone's opinion that anyone shouldn't be together based upon their melanin levels.
Posted on 6/30/16 at 12:40 pm to jvilletiger25
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There's more to it than that. But you just keep on believing that it's all her father. And you calling her father an a-hole when you don't even know the guy is pretty bigoted yourself. Pot meet kettle
Posted on 6/30/16 at 12:42 pm to MontyFranklyn
Apologists amaze me
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