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OT: Did you get whipped/spankings as a child?

Posted on 9/15/14 at 9:06 pm
Posted by Spunky
Member since Mar 2013
10031 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 9:06 pm
I sure as frick did, as did everyone I knew growing up. I wasn't aware of someone not disciplining their children this way until the past few years.

Has this always been the case? Or are people more PC as of late.




Posted by Crowknowsbest
Member since May 2012
25902 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 9:07 pm to
Yes. I got spanked or hit with a belt if I fricked up bad
This post was edited on 9/15/14 at 9:08 pm
Posted by Damn Good Dawg
Member since Feb 2011
47325 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 9:08 pm to
Got either a spatula, wooden spoon, old man's back hand or the belt. But not terribly often cause I was a good kid. And I was one of those who felt terrible when the old man would give a "I'm not mad I am disappointed" lecture.
Posted by gatorhata9
Dallas, TX
Member since Dec 2010
26177 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 9:09 pm to
Yes. And the answer to your other question is also yes.
Posted by td01241
Savannah
Member since Nov 2012
23229 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 9:11 pm to
Yes
Posted by davesdawgs
Georgia - Class of '75
Member since Oct 2008
20307 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 9:12 pm to
Yep, got paddled at school and whipped with a switch, belt or a dog leash at home. I was always doing something wrong.
Posted by PortlyDawg
GA
Member since Aug 2011
2400 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 9:18 pm to
I got smacked around. Am a father of two now and will never deal with my kids in that manner. Doesn't accomplish anything. Only creates fear and resentment. I really have no interest in my kids cowering in my presence.
Posted by InfantryDawg
Valhalla
Member since Oct 2013
1777 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 9:19 pm to
When I was being bad I got a good whooping. Always hated a switch though I would rather get the belt than a switch, especially cause my mom would make us get the switch we were gonna get whipped with. Damn switches were like a cat of nine tails.
Posted by athenslife101
Member since Feb 2013
18632 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 9:51 pm to
I got switched if I wasn't in bed by the time my dad was in bed but it never happened. It may sound strange but I simply didn't have the option to misbehave. It was simply a fact of life that I would do whatever I was told immediately no questions asked. I had to answer within 2 seconds and appear before my parents (running from the other side of the house) within 5-6 seconds. Not doing it was not an option. I was told not long ago that if I behaved like other kids, they would seriously have considered about putting me up for adoption.

I also had my nose covered up if I was breathing through my nose while i was sleeping as a practical joke and I got tickled till I was screaming and hyperventalating a few times.

When I got into high school, I got punched and slapped pretty badly a few times and I had stuff thrown point blank into my face twice. Still better than the verbal abuse I got at times from my mother which was honestly much much much worse.
This post was edited on 9/15/14 at 10:01 pm
Posted by FooManChoo
Member since Dec 2012
41871 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:25 pm to
I was spanked as a child. It worked well. I don't have any weird psychological issues and I don't have a propensity for violence.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17630 posts
Posted on 9/16/14 at 4:38 am to
Yes sir. Got my fair share and feel no need to do violence or any other shite that these fools claim a spanking will do.
This post was edited on 9/16/14 at 4:40 am
Posted by germandawg
Member since Sep 2012
14135 posts
Posted on 9/16/14 at 5:45 am to
I did...but not often...I preferred a good arse whipping to a long drawn out talk about how I was screwing up my future (I did) and impugning the family name (as if it weren't already pretty well trashed before I came along).

I have spanked one of my kids and realized it did nothing but made me feel better....and taught the kid that if your bigger and stronger you can force your will on those who are smaller and weaker. Spanking a child is the easiest form of discipline and in my experience the least effective...in fact done often enough it is counter to its desired goal....whip a kid often enough and he will eventually get to the point where it means nothing. Spanking is more gratifying to the parent than it is beneficial to the child.....most of you will deny that but you are lying to yourself if there is not some pleasure in swatting the fanny of a misbehaving young'un who immediately straightens their shite up...
Posted by Lilarny
Camden County GA
Member since Aug 2014
108 posts
Posted on 9/16/14 at 5:48 am to
Yup. With a belt or a big arse wooden paddle.
Posted by DawgsLife
Member since Jun 2013
59046 posts
Posted on 9/16/14 at 5:50 am to
belt
Posted by SthGADawg
Member since Nov 2007
7035 posts
Posted on 9/16/14 at 9:52 am to
i got spanked and i spank my kids...but what AP did was fricked up...never whip a 4 year old that bad...my rule is swats equal the age...4 years old...4 pops...thats it...and it goes up as they get older...and i use my hand...i got whipped with a belt several times bare butt as a kid and swore then that i wouldnt do that to my kids..nothing wrong with spanking...but that isnt spanking...its abuse...my mom has even apologized to me since i became an adult because she felt like she was wrong...dad never whipped me bare butt with a belt...my mom was vicious...
Posted by UGALife478
Leesburg, GA
Member since Jun 2013
614 posts
Posted on 9/16/14 at 12:09 pm to
I got my arse whooped alot. I have one older brother and my dad had a 2 by 4 paddle that he made. Anytime we did something real bad we had to go out into the shop and he had a talk with us and always got 5 licks. Then after the licks he made us sit on a wood crate and think about what we did for a while. I hated it, but it made me do better.

I do not have kids yet but I am planning on spanking when needed girl/boy.
Posted by Wild Thang
YAW YAW Fooball Nation
Member since Jun 2009
44181 posts
Posted on 9/16/14 at 10:35 pm to
quote:

Did you get whipped/spankings as a child?


Yes.
Posted by AirDawg
The Great State of Calm
Member since Feb 2013
2015 posts
Posted on 9/17/14 at 12:23 pm to
I sure miss that old fart. He kept me on the straight and narrow with everything that wasn't straight and narrow. For all the discipline I recieved; I received twice as much love, friendship, quality time, counsel, scripture, and education (country and otherwise). I always knew he loved me and under no circumstance would he allow me to go astray. He is my hero.
This post was edited on 7/22/15 at 8:01 am
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