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Why do heartbreaking losses stick with us more than great wins?

Posted on 3/16/20 at 9:20 pm
Posted by BadBrad29
Member since Aug 2019
598 posts
Posted on 3/16/20 at 9:20 pm
We all know as sports fans for some reasons the pain of losses stick with us longer than the joy of victory. Why do yall think that is?
Posted by TigerLunatik
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jan 2005
93703 posts
Posted on 3/16/20 at 9:23 pm to
Most people hate losing more than they like winning.
Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
42568 posts
Posted on 3/16/20 at 9:24 pm to
40% drop in the stock market
Posted by idlewatcher
County Jail
Member since Jan 2012
79186 posts
Posted on 3/16/20 at 9:25 pm to
I think pain always sticks with us and affects us more than joy of winning.

Schools like Alabama probably don’t even care all that much that they win so often as the W’s probably all bleed together. Schools like yours and ours remember exactly where we were, how specific plays went down etc because it’s a rare occurrence

My .02 anyway
Posted by AHM21
Member since Feb 2008
24520 posts
Posted on 3/16/20 at 9:27 pm to
Kick Six in east Alabama was awful. It ended so fast. You walk outside having no clue what just happened and the neighbors are shooting guns off.

Also, I was in BDS for the Cam-Back by the Auburn band. Barn band playing reverse Rammer Jammer will always rank near the bottom of losing moments in Bryant Denny.

Not many regular season wins stick out as much as those two losses.
Posted by CGSC Lobotomy
Member since Sep 2011
80261 posts
Posted on 3/16/20 at 9:55 pm to
"What could have been".

It's because we are inherently greedy.
Posted by Montezuma
Member since Apr 2013
3629 posts
Posted on 3/17/20 at 12:00 am to
I get over losses very quickly. Must be that lifetime of being a MN sports fan.

Posted by OBReb6
Memphissippi
Member since Jul 2010
37825 posts
Posted on 3/17/20 at 12:09 am to
Well for some of us, the former outweighs the latter by like 90%

My life is a blur of heartbreaking losses
Posted by BossBailey345
Member since Nov 2019
2282 posts
Posted on 3/17/20 at 6:44 am to
With anything...the negative always outweighs the positive...
Posted by McMillan
Member since Jul 2018
5917 posts
Posted on 3/17/20 at 7:00 am to
The chokes outweigh the victories.
I have seen 5 championship seasons in my lifetime, but 1985, Flea kicker, 2002 Super Bowl, and the notable Blues gag jobs are what keep me up at night.
Posted by LewDawg
Member since May 2009
75242 posts
Posted on 3/17/20 at 7:01 am to
Because it’s been 40 years
Posted by auburn32
Auburn
Member since Dec 2009
2168 posts
Posted on 3/17/20 at 7:08 am to
BCS NC 2013 and the 2019 Final Four will be with me forever :(.
Posted by Zanzibaw
BR
Member since Jun 2016
2947 posts
Posted on 3/17/20 at 7:12 am to
It's because people expect to win. Losing is more shocking even when you're the underdog.
Posted by Rex Feral
Athens
Member since Jan 2014
11351 posts
Posted on 3/17/20 at 7:13 am to
1982 Sugar Bowl
2008 CWS
2018 Title Game
Posted by BamaRoo
Shitlingthorpe, UK
Member since Jul 2009
3372 posts
Posted on 3/17/20 at 7:28 am to
With a win, you clear the table---a loss
and you leave something on it you can't get
back.
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Tittleman's Crest
Member since Feb 2009
52713 posts
Posted on 3/17/20 at 9:14 am to
quote:

Why do heartbreaking losses stick with us more than great wins?



They don't for me.

2012 @ LSU for example is more firmly planted into my memory than the 2010 came back game.
Posted by jcljag
Mobile
Member since Dec 2007
713 posts
Posted on 3/17/20 at 9:27 am to
One word. Expectations.
Posted by labamafan
Prairieville
Member since Jan 2007
24264 posts
Posted on 3/17/20 at 9:42 am to
quote:

It's because people expect to win. Losing is more shocking even when you're the underdog.


See I’m just the opposite. I am objective about what I see. I knew Bama couldn’t beat Clemson two years ago and knew it would take a Herculean effort to beat LSU this past year.
Posted by Arksulli
Fayetteville
Member since Aug 2014
25200 posts
Posted on 3/17/20 at 9:49 am to
quote:

Well for some of us, the former outweighs the latter by like 90%

My life is a blur of heartbreaking losses


Arkansas, Ole Miss, and Missouri should start a support group. It is not just that we lose, it is that we have a noted tendency to lose in such a way as to destroy your will to live.
Posted by MC123
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
2029 posts
Posted on 3/17/20 at 11:33 am to
Refgate @Auburn 2006 is an abomination that I will never get over.
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