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re: Why do so many young girls date bad guys?

Posted on 8/3/13 at 2:42 pm to
Posted by Wishnitwas1998
where TN, MS, and AL meet
Member since Oct 2010
61730 posts
Posted on 8/3/13 at 2:42 pm to
quote:

always remember the a-hole is always tight.


Well, this can be stretched out to you know
Posted by Crompdaddy8
Jimmy Rustler
Member since Nov 2009
10569 posts
Posted on 8/3/13 at 2:53 pm to
quote:

Why do so many young girls date bad guys?


Because a-hole guys are usually better looking and more confident than nice guys. If you're good looking you have some room to act like an a-hole. Ugly guys have no choice but to be nice. If you're fat, ugly, and mean, girls will treat you like a subhuman garbage.
This post was edited on 8/3/13 at 2:55 pm
Posted by Ptolemy's
StarkVegas, Missifrickingssippi
Member since Jun 2013
976 posts
Posted on 8/3/13 at 3:16 pm to
Daddy issues.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
58892 posts
Posted on 8/3/13 at 3:54 pm to
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Read: handcuffs, just as long as their padded.


Mink handcuffs are something every man should have.
Posted by reggierayreb
Member since Nov 2012
18139 posts
Posted on 8/3/13 at 4:02 pm to
I treated my wife badly when we first met and hooked up... We dated on and off for a long time... Then she put her foot down and said she was moving to another city and that it would be over for good if my arse didn't change for the better and fall in line, so I did... With a quickness... Smartest decision I ever made... What was the question again ?



This post was edited on 8/3/13 at 4:04 pm
Posted by PepaSpray
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Member since Aug 2012
11080 posts
Posted on 8/3/13 at 5:58 pm to
I wonder this shite too. It isn't just younger girls.

It must be that women want a project to complete, but they seem to prefer the "impossible"
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 8/3/13 at 6:20 pm to
I will never forget the first girl I dated in college. I was in the prime of my "good guy" life, and I treated her with respect and dignity, and even went so far as to buy her a nice dress and jewelry that she loved. Needless to say I really liked this girl and was determined to treat her right. And then she broke it off a month later because "there was no spark." I have never since treated a girl half as well (including my wife) and all my relationships have lasted much longer.

Go fricking figure.

This girl did find me a few years after we dated and apologized to me. Apparently, one of the bad boys she had hooked up with had been abusive to her. Play with fire..
Posted by diddydirtyAubie
Bozeman
Member since Dec 2010
39829 posts
Posted on 8/3/13 at 6:28 pm to
buying a girl a dress and jewelry in the first month.
This post was edited on 8/3/13 at 6:28 pm
Posted by mograyback
Member since Jul 2011
7102 posts
Posted on 8/3/13 at 6:47 pm to
There are some that are nice, and you can generally tell who they are in one glance. But, most are whores at heart.

Girls like bad guys bc most of them like to be submissive little sluts in bed, and bad guys bring that out in them the most.
This post was edited on 8/3/13 at 6:49 pm
Posted by InVolNerable
Member since Jan 2012
10227 posts
Posted on 8/3/13 at 7:21 pm to
The only necklace you should ever give a girl is of the pearl variety.
Posted by oR33Do
Tuscaloosa
Member since Oct 2012
13561 posts
Posted on 8/3/13 at 7:22 pm to
Ladder theory, nice guy is safe and lower on the ladder for most.

Posted by Mizzeaux
Worshington
Member since Jun 2012
13907 posts
Posted on 8/3/13 at 7:28 pm to
Assertive dudes that know what they want are generally seen as bad guys. What do you want to do in high school and college? Bang chicks. Act on it, and you're a "bad guy."

Nice guys are looking for someone to hook up with because they've seen Love Actually and Notting Hill a few too many times and they think that's what women want, so they model themselves around it.

As with anything in life, assertiveness will get you what you want because, in general, people in the world want to be led. Courtship is no different. Women of that age certainly don't want to be worshiped, hell, many of the women in the world at that age have such low self esteem being worshiped scares them.

Just be assertive, know what you want, don't be a dick or a bad guy, and the whole good/bad guy thing disappears.
This post was edited on 8/3/13 at 7:29 pm
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
58892 posts
Posted on 8/3/13 at 7:35 pm to
quote:

buying a girl a dress and jewelry in the first month.


You are doing it wrong, she needs to be buying you stuff in the beginning while she is working for you. Keep your pimp hand strong.

Posted by stoms
Coastal
Member since May 2012
1729 posts
Posted on 8/3/13 at 10:29 pm to
Girls go after guys that make them cum. Sorry dude. End of story
Posted by GATADawgs
Florida
Member since Aug 2013
211 posts
Posted on 8/4/13 at 3:54 pm to
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This post was edited on 8/4/13 at 4:51 pm
Posted by mwlewis
JeffCo
Member since Nov 2010
21509 posts
Posted on 8/4/13 at 3:57 pm to
quote:

Please, I got my first set of pearls before I turned 15. Next.


Giggity
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
104278 posts
Posted on 8/4/13 at 3:58 pm to
One hell of a softball there.
Posted by notsince98
KC, MO
Member since Oct 2012
20136 posts
Posted on 8/5/13 at 2:12 pm to
Girls always want to be "the one" that changes a bad boy. They don't realize men don't change. 80 year old men still sit around sharing dick and fart jokes just like college kids. It is quite hilarious how men don't change.
Posted by Vander
Member since Oct 2012
323 posts
Posted on 8/5/13 at 3:21 pm to
You haven't figured this out yet? It's because the "bad boys" have confidence in themselves and aren't boring. It's not at all a surprise that girls go for them when you consider that confidence in men is the most important personality trait a man can have by a large margin.

Additionally, the girls misconstrue cockiness for confidence because they are closely related and manifest similarly but are still slightly different. Confidence implies a certain amount of cockiness but the reverse is not necessarily true, as cockiness can be an example of insecurity.

tl;dr Girls don't date you because you're boring and unconfident, not because they like "bad boys" more than you.
Posted by DC RaiseHerBack
Member since Nov 2006
55445 posts
Posted on 8/5/13 at 3:25 pm to
Cuz most girls are stupid as frick...takes awhile to learn and some never do.
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