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Money is the only thing that matters in life
Posted on 2/15/18 at 9:28 pm
Posted on 2/15/18 at 9:28 pm
True or false? It's possible to be happy with no money I suppose, but you'll be struggling every day and you'll just be trying to convince yourself that you're happy while worrying about bills and rent.
Conversely, money doesn't necessarily make one happy, but it does prevent a lot of stress. Money buys freedom as well, like freedom to buy the whole bar a round of drinks without worrying about it.
But then you have to ask yourself, what is happiness? If it's just chemical reactions in your brain that can be brought about in myriad ways, then the struggle to make money in a quest for happiness seems trivial, no? You could get the same chemical reactions with drugs and alcohol with minimal effort.
Conversely, money doesn't necessarily make one happy, but it does prevent a lot of stress. Money buys freedom as well, like freedom to buy the whole bar a round of drinks without worrying about it.
But then you have to ask yourself, what is happiness? If it's just chemical reactions in your brain that can be brought about in myriad ways, then the struggle to make money in a quest for happiness seems trivial, no? You could get the same chemical reactions with drugs and alcohol with minimal effort.
Posted on 2/15/18 at 9:35 pm to Stonehog
Is it possible to be happy without money? Yes
Is it possible to be unhappy with Money? Yes
Happiness is a mindset. Money however makes it easier to maintain that mindset.
Is it possible to be unhappy with Money? Yes
Happiness is a mindset. Money however makes it easier to maintain that mindset.
Posted on 2/15/18 at 9:38 pm to Weagle25
True. My view is that money doesn't necessarily buy happiness, but it buys freedom, and freedom, in and of itself, can make one happy.
Posted on 2/15/18 at 9:39 pm to Stonehog
Sounds like your first statement says you need money to survive. But that's not nesicarliy true as you can work and barter for survival, it's just harder to find that opportunity to successfully do that.
The rest is just the degree of materialism for your own happiness.
The rest is just the degree of materialism for your own happiness.
This post was edited on 2/15/18 at 10:06 pm
Posted on 2/15/18 at 9:43 pm to Stonehog
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True. My view is that money doesn't necessarily buy happiness, but it buys freedom, and freedom, in and of itself, can make one happy.
I would agree with that. That statement however makes the title of your thread untrue
Posted on 2/15/18 at 9:50 pm to Weagle25
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I would agree with that. That statement however makes the title of your thread untrue
The title is a question, I could have made that more clear. BUT, if money buys freedom and freedom = happiness then I would argue that money does in fact buy happiness. I'm also conflicted about what happiness really is though. If the same happiness that you achieve by buying a nice car could be achieved by getting drunk then it seems like buying the nice car is unnecessary.
Posted on 2/15/18 at 10:17 pm to Stonehog
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if money buys freedom and freedom = happiness then I would argue that money does in fact buy happiness.
I don't agree with this.
Money buys freedom yes. However I would argue that freedom only gives you the opportunity to be happy. There are plenty of people that are free and unhappy.
Posted on 2/15/18 at 10:29 pm to Weagle25
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freedom only gives you the opportunity to be happy. There are plenty of people that are free and unhappy.
Good point. I guess happiness isn't a codified state and it can mean different things to different people. I'm really interested in what happiness is at a base level, like the chemical reactions in our brains that cause us to feel happy, and how those reactions can influence human interaction and behavior.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 5:23 am to Stonehog
Money doens't buy you happiness, you don't need money to be happy.
However, you do need money to pay bills and maintain any lifestyle you choose.
Happiness is found in contentment with where you are in life, who is in your life circle, and having purpose for each day.
However, you do need money to pay bills and maintain any lifestyle you choose.
Happiness is found in contentment with where you are in life, who is in your life circle, and having purpose for each day.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 5:46 am to Stonehog
Read some Aristotle. Happiness (or flourishing) is the central purpose of human life, the only goal in and of itself. A certain amount of money is a necessary precondition to happiness, as is a basic level of health.
So no, money isn’t the most important thing in life. But it is needed.
And to think that money buys freedom is simplistic. First question whether there is any such thing as freedom. Assuming there is, it would seem to be much more of an internal perspective than an outward condition. As Sartre would argue, existence is freedom.
So no, money isn’t the most important thing in life. But it is needed.
And to think that money buys freedom is simplistic. First question whether there is any such thing as freedom. Assuming there is, it would seem to be much more of an internal perspective than an outward condition. As Sartre would argue, existence is freedom.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 6:19 am to Stonehog
I think you're neglecting the idea that people need fulfillment. Thanks to natural selection, it's one of our most deeply engrained need.
Money/freedom in and of itself doesn't provide as much happiness if you don't feel like you've earned it. If you win the lottery or inherit a lot of money, you're missing the main benefit that you would have gotten had you earned it: a signal from society that you're providing value.
This is a slight tangent but I think this is related to a big problem with modern society. A lot of people's jobs aren't very closely connected to the results/finished product. And if it is closely connected, it's usually just a matter of a standardized/repetitive process. Difficult for someone to get much of a sense of fulfillment from that.
Money/freedom in and of itself doesn't provide as much happiness if you don't feel like you've earned it. If you win the lottery or inherit a lot of money, you're missing the main benefit that you would have gotten had you earned it: a signal from society that you're providing value.
This is a slight tangent but I think this is related to a big problem with modern society. A lot of people's jobs aren't very closely connected to the results/finished product. And if it is closely connected, it's usually just a matter of a standardized/repetitive process. Difficult for someone to get much of a sense of fulfillment from that.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 7:03 am to Stonehog
As I got older I learned that if you have 100 problems, 95 of them could be solved with money fairly easily.
That being said, I still believe the best things in life are free. But if you are broke, you will struggle at almost all aspects of life.
That being said, I still believe the best things in life are free. But if you are broke, you will struggle at almost all aspects of life.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 7:04 am to Stonehog
Your premise is that happiness is the ultimate goal of life.
Not the case for me.
Not the case for me.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 7:14 am to Stonehog
There is a balance between chasing money and finding happiness. Yes money affords freedom but at what cost? You determine how happy you are, money doesn't necessarily change that, it's truly on you.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 7:18 am to PrivatePublic
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Your premise is that happiness is the ultimate goal of life
I’m curious what your goal is
Posted on 2/16/18 at 7:55 am to Stonehog
Money can't buy happiness...but it can buy a really nice place to be sad in.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 9:22 am to Stonehog
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I'm also conflicted about what happiness really is though. If the same happiness that you achieve by buying a nice car could be achieved by getting drunk then it seems like buying the nice car is unnecessary.
It all depends on your definition of happiness.
To me, the feelings of buying a car or getting drunk, while they may feel good, are too fleeting to be considered "happiness."
Happiness, at least for me, is more longterm - a feeling of being pleased with your life and the things that are important to you. Money helps, of course, but I don't see it as the end all be all.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 9:42 am to Stonehog
False. I was happiest in my life when I had the least amount of money.
Posted on 2/16/18 at 1:34 pm to Weagle25
In the US, you need a certain amount of money to be content in life. Don't know what that number is but enough to where you don't have to live paycheck to paycheck.
After that extra money certainly does not compound/amplify that contentment, at least not permanently.
I've been broke and now I'm doing well in life. You can have good times here and there when you're broke but no one can convince me that you can be persistently content in life when you have to worry about paying rent or gas money.
After that extra money certainly does not compound/amplify that contentment, at least not permanently.
I've been broke and now I'm doing well in life. You can have good times here and there when you're broke but no one can convince me that you can be persistently content in life when you have to worry about paying rent or gas money.
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 1:48 pm to Stonehog
It's weird that nobody has come up with the correct answer yet. It isn't money.
What is best in life?
"To crush your enemies. See them driven before you. And to hear the lamentations of their women."
What is best in life?
"To crush your enemies. See them driven before you. And to hear the lamentations of their women."
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