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Posted on 1/24/14 at 2:39 pm to Drewbie
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Mommy issues, actually. Her dad's raised her by himself.
Explains it big time. Girls aren't pouty if their dad wasn't there for them, but they are when daddy is there and does everything for them.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 2:46 pm to Drewbie
Hate hate pouters, you're young enough to walk there will be more.
Know how to tell if your dog or your wife loves you more? Lock them both in the trunk for two hours and see witch one is happy to see you when you open it...
Know how to tell if your dog or your wife loves you more? Lock them both in the trunk for two hours and see witch one is happy to see you when you open it...
Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:20 pm to Drewbie
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it's that she quits talking and shuts me out. I honestly don't know how to deal with it.
Sounds like you're begging her not to shut you out, which comes across to her as something she has leverage on you with. Walk away for a couple days and let her stew on it. Quit being a puppy dog.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:22 pm to NorthGwinnettTiger
quote:Not really. The first few times I tried to talk to her, but today I just let her go. Haven't tried to contact her sense. I'm guessing she thinks she has leverage, but I'm completely ok with her leaving me alone to do my own shite while she sulks. I don't like getting shut out, but I'm not gonna beg.
Sounds like you're begging her not to shut you out, which comes across to her as something she has leverage on you with.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:22 pm to OMLandshark
quote:Makes sense.
Explains it big time. Girls aren't pouty if their dad wasn't there for them, but they are when daddy is there and does everything for them.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:23 pm to wadewilson
quote:Thus my hatred.
That's the most evil thing I've ever heard of
Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:25 pm to Drewbie
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So my current gf is a great girl
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But she likes to pout and shut me out when she gets irritated at random things
Aw hell.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:30 pm to Drewbie
Dump her. You're wasting your time. She needs to do a lot of growing up and chances are she never will. Being a great girl isn't good enough. You deserve better.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:42 pm to Drewbie
Drop her arse, I have been with someone like that and flat told her she has behavioral issues. If she's still acting like that at her age, it's usually not going to get any better.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:48 pm to wadewilson
quote:I've got a droid =/
wadewilson
Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:49 pm to Bama Bird
quote:Depends on how she handles the silent treatment. No one has said anything for over 2 hours. She'll either crack first or it won't end well. Either way I'm not budging.
Dump her. You're wasting your time. She needs to do a lot of growing up and chances are she never will. Being a great girl isn't good enough. You deserve better.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:56 pm to Drewbie
You do realize it will be less than 2 weeks before something like this happens again?
Posted on 1/24/14 at 4:05 pm to Bama Bird
quote:We'll see.
You do realize it will be less than 2 weeks before something like this happens again?
Posted on 1/24/14 at 4:27 pm to Drewbie
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The difficult thing about it isn't just the fact that she pouts, it's that she quits talking and shuts me out. I honestly don't know how to deal with it.
My GF does this from time to time..it has nothing to do with you she is mad at something else.
I've found it doesn't help to pry at her to get her to talk. Don't let it bother you..tell her it'll be ok and then let her sit there and fume then she'll chill out and be fine.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 4:30 pm to Drewbie
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she's a fantastic girl outside of this one issue.
Just let it go then. Trust me, if this is her only issue then you're good to go.
There is no such thing as a perfect girl..every single one will have her flaws. This one is minor
Posted on 1/24/14 at 5:24 pm to Drewbie
Most women pout. Including mine
Used to bug the shite out of me, but once I figured that she was just doing it for attention/leverage, I just leave her to her own devices until she comes back around.
Gives both parties a chance to cool off or reevaluate, really.
And like delta said, if that's your only gripe with her, count your blessings

Used to bug the shite out of me, but once I figured that she was just doing it for attention/leverage, I just leave her to her own devices until she comes back around.
Gives both parties a chance to cool off or reevaluate, really.
And like delta said, if that's your only gripe with her, count your blessings

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