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re: Dealing with a gf that likes to pout.

Posted on 1/24/14 at 2:37 pm to
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 2:37 pm to
Tell her to grow up. I can't think of anything I hate more in a girl than pouting.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
117998 posts
Posted on 1/24/14 at 2:39 pm to
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Mommy issues, actually. Her dad's raised her by himself.


Explains it big time. Girls aren't pouty if their dad wasn't there for them, but they are when daddy is there and does everything for them.
Posted by Eric Nies Grind Time
Member since Sep 2012
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 2:41 pm to
Posted by Person of interest
The Hill
Member since Jan 2014
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 2:46 pm to
Hate hate pouters, you're young enough to walk there will be more.

Know how to tell if your dog or your wife loves you more? Lock them both in the trunk for two hours and see witch one is happy to see you when you open it...
Posted by NorthGwinnettTiger
Member since Jun 2006
52611 posts
Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:20 pm to
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it's that she quits talking and shuts me out. I honestly don't know how to deal with it.

Sounds like you're begging her not to shut you out, which comes across to her as something she has leverage on you with. Walk away for a couple days and let her stew on it. Quit being a puppy dog.



Posted by Drewbie
tFlagship
Member since Jun 2012
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:22 pm to
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Sounds like you're begging her not to shut you out, which comes across to her as something she has leverage on you with.
Not really. The first few times I tried to talk to her, but today I just let her go. Haven't tried to contact her sense. I'm guessing she thinks she has leverage, but I'm completely ok with her leaving me alone to do my own shite while she sulks. I don't like getting shut out, but I'm not gonna beg.
Posted by Drewbie
tFlagship
Member since Jun 2012
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:22 pm to
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Explains it big time. Girls aren't pouty if their dad wasn't there for them, but they are when daddy is there and does everything for them.
Makes sense.
Posted by Drewbie
tFlagship
Member since Jun 2012
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:23 pm to
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That's the most evil thing I've ever heard of
Thus my hatred.
Posted by Bill Parker?
Member since Jan 2013
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:25 pm to
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So my current gf is a great girl

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But she likes to pout and shut me out when she gets irritated at random things


Aw hell.

Posted by wadewilson
Member since Sep 2009
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:26 pm to
Posted by Bama Bird
Member since Dec 2011
Member since Mar 2013
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:30 pm to
Dump her. You're wasting your time. She needs to do a lot of growing up and chances are she never will. Being a great girl isn't good enough. You deserve better.
Posted by CroakaBait
Gulf Coast of the Land Mass
Member since Nov 2013
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:42 pm to
Drop her arse, I have been with someone like that and flat told her she has behavioral issues. If she's still acting like that at her age, it's usually not going to get any better.
Posted by Drewbie
tFlagship
Member since Jun 2012
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:48 pm to
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wadewilson
I've got a droid =/
Posted by Drewbie
tFlagship
Member since Jun 2012
62100 posts
Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:49 pm to
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Dump her. You're wasting your time. She needs to do a lot of growing up and chances are she never will. Being a great girl isn't good enough. You deserve better.
Depends on how she handles the silent treatment. No one has said anything for over 2 hours. She'll either crack first or it won't end well. Either way I'm not budging.
Posted by Bama Bird
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:56 pm to
You do realize it will be less than 2 weeks before something like this happens again?
Posted by heartbreakTiger
grinding for my grinders
Member since Jan 2008
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 3:57 pm to
piihb
Posted by Drewbie
tFlagship
Member since Jun 2012
62100 posts
Posted on 1/24/14 at 4:05 pm to
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You do realize it will be less than 2 weeks before something like this happens again?
We'll see.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
96839 posts
Posted on 1/24/14 at 4:27 pm to
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The difficult thing about it isn't just the fact that she pouts, it's that she quits talking and shuts me out. I honestly don't know how to deal with it.


My GF does this from time to time..it has nothing to do with you she is mad at something else.

I've found it doesn't help to pry at her to get her to talk. Don't let it bother you..tell her it'll be ok and then let her sit there and fume then she'll chill out and be fine.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
96839 posts
Posted on 1/24/14 at 4:30 pm to
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she's a fantastic girl outside of this one issue.


Just let it go then. Trust me, if this is her only issue then you're good to go.

There is no such thing as a perfect girl..every single one will have her flaws. This one is minor
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 5:24 pm to
Most women pout. Including mine

Used to bug the shite out of me, but once I figured that she was just doing it for attention/leverage, I just leave her to her own devices until she comes back around.

Gives both parties a chance to cool off or reevaluate, really.

And like delta said, if that's your only gripe with her, count your blessings
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