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re: Could you date a girl who was a slut in college/earlier in life?
Posted on 4/10/13 at 1:31 am to WestCoastAg
Posted on 4/10/13 at 1:31 am to WestCoastAg
Lots of photo ops in that building. Don't have the statues outside like at Staples, but it's always a good atmosphere in there. Y'all will have a blast 
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Posted on 4/10/13 at 1:31 am to GenesChin
If I knew she was a slut back in the da I probably wouldn't
Posted on 4/10/13 at 1:32 am to TbirdSpur2010
All right men. I am going to bed. I hope you all have sweet dreams. 
Posted on 4/10/13 at 1:34 am to Bellabama
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sweet dreams
No hope of that now
I'm out, too. Night, y'all!
Posted on 4/10/13 at 1:37 am to Bellabama
I'm working by myself tonight, (needless to say) it's a long arse night.
Posted on 4/10/13 at 1:37 am to TbirdSpur2010
quote:yea no doubt. i just cant wait to actually purchase the tickets and surprise her because shes never been to a game
Y'all will have a blast
ETA: night bird, bella
This post was edited on 4/10/13 at 1:38 am
Posted on 4/10/13 at 1:42 am to Bellabama
You too Bella
Posted on 4/10/13 at 1:43 am to TbirdSpur2010
Night Tbird
Posted on 4/10/13 at 5:24 am to GenesChin
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Could you marry a woman that was a huge slut before she knew you?
Correction. All women were at one time or another huge sluts. The difference is whether or not you know about her past.
Posted on 4/10/13 at 6:12 am to GenesChin
If she was faithful to me, and I valued her, what exactly is the problem?
Posted on 4/10/13 at 6:19 am to Bellabama
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From the girl's perspective, I prefer dating picky guys. Nothing like going to a party and realizing your date has slept with everything that moved.
Sexiest girl I ever slept with was because I unknowingly belittled one of her former lovers, and it made her feel insecure. It is amazing how much of women's sexual attraction is based on trivial things.
Posted on 4/10/13 at 7:28 am to GenesChin
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Could you marry a woman that was a huge slut before she knew you?
yea, doesn't bother me that much.
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Could you marry a woman who a number of your good friends had already slept with?
Nope. This does actually bother me quite a bit for some reason.
Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:03 am to oklahogjr
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Could you marry a woman who a number of your good friends had already slept with?
Absolutely not.
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Could you marry a woman that was a huge slut before she knew you?
That's tough, and depends on a lot of factors. How slutty? Like has she just slept with a handful of randoms, or has she slept with like 30 guys? Is she a cheater or just like sex?
I kinda went through this issue with my ex gf. She had a serious bf for 5 years starting in HS and ending about 6 weeks before we met. In the 6 weeks between the 2 relationships, she slept with like 6 or 7 guys. Also, in the tail end of that 5 year relationship, she cheated on him with 2 different people, including one that was a legit "affair" that went on for 6 months. Her excuse was a)she did it because there were no feelings btwn the bf and their relationship was practically ended anyway and b)she was young and immature at the time.
Sooooo even though you can say "well, now she's with YOU, who cares about her past?", and that's true..even if we'd been happily married for 20 years, there's always going to be that teeny tiny little seed in the back of your mind questioning what she's doing. I don't think that's any way to go through a marriage.
This post was edited on 4/10/13 at 8:05 am
Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:28 am to TeLeFaWx
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Sexiest girl I ever slept with was because I unknowingly belittled one of her former lovers, and it made her feel insecure. It is amazing how much of women's sexual attraction is based on trivial things.
Yeah, same can be said for men. You two sound like winners.
Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:37 am to Mr.Sinister
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All women were at one time or another huge sluts
No different than guys sowing their wild oats, IMO.
People like sex--whether or not you can handle knowing whom your SO has slept with is a matter of personal maturity, IMO.
Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:38 am to Bellabama
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Yeah, same can be said for men. You two sound like winners.
Hurtful.
Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:38 am to TbirdSpur2010
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No different than guys sowing their wild oats, IMO.
People like sex--whether or not you can handle knowing whom your SO has slept with is a matter of personal maturity, IMO.
I love you, soul mate/best friend.
Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:39 am to TeLeFaWx
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I love you, soul mate/best friend.
My n i g g a
Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:46 am to TbirdSpur2010
I don't think there should be a double standard. But then, I think people generally stop asking for sex counts once they've left college.
Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:48 am to TbirdSpur2010
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No different than guys sowing their wild oats, IMO.
Would not dispute that fact. Point I was getting at was girls go through a slutty phase, men more or less never leave theirs.
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People like sex--whether or not you can handle knowing whom your SO has slept with is a matter of personal maturity, IMO.
I agree most men can't handle the double standards they set, whether it be the "no fat chicks" stereotype or the "want a lady outside but ho in bed" menatlity.
IMHO if you can have a few questionable decisions in your past, why can't your woman have made a few misstakes?
It's something about this board that brings out the holier than thou mentality in people.
I'm gonna agree with bella, asking a (sex)number from your mate seems very high-schoolish to me, but then again I'm probably considered ancient to most of the posters here.
This post was edited on 4/10/13 at 8:52 am
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