I'm not going to rehash the crazy girl story but its well known here. Anyway, there has been a new chapter added to this most messed up time in my life.

For roughly 5 months there has been no contact. Thought was finally done with her crazy arse. I've moved on, smashed a few not so innocents. Life was good.

Then, about a month and a half ago my phone blows up from an unknown number. Finally after like 20 calls, I answer. Its her. Crazy girl.

The next day, she sends this long texts - forever text. Like I can't imaging life without you and you set my soul on fire type. Very long text of nothing but remorse for what she's done and how much she loved me. And we pick up. Instantly. A month goes by and she's rolling. Tells me I better marry her within 5 years. All that jazz.

Then, later - nothing. She disappears. Her reason? She was afraid her ex husband (remember the affair her and I had and the craziness that ensued) would turn their son against us. She also said he was giving her so much shite that she couldn't handle things mentally. So that's where it is. Zero contact. Like I don't exist. Some said it was like she couldn't handle it. She made the excuse of smothering, which is BS because she was telling me she loved me ever day. Gave back to her what she got, yet I was pressuring her. Oh well. Just another reason not to trust another fricking person.

So, yesterday, another text argument ensued basically where I gave her shite for disappearing. Her responses ranged from "I'm a bad person" to "I'm sorry. I'm a frick up." etc. etc. etc. Anyway, she's breaking more and more as her texts are becoming erratic and finally she says "Stop. I'm at the dr with my son and he's sick. This is serious." Apparently her ex let her son get sick or whatever. BS.

Not even 20 mins later, my kids and I stop at the grocery store. Her car is there. Not sure she sees us pull up but I think she does. And she goes in - ALONE. NO KID. My kids love her. Legit. So we go in and my son looks for her. I do too, because I want answers.

Don't even look for 5 mins - she's not there. We go back out and her car is gone. My son thinks she saw us, hid, and ran. I agree. I think she didn't want to face being caught in a lie. frick her.

My son is heartbroken. She made promises to him that she should never have done.

Anyway, here is the advice part: Some will remember that this chick got involved with another guy during the time of one of our many splits. During those the five times she came back - always ended with sex, etc. - while she was with him...and one time he did send me a text trying to warn me about "disrespecting their relationship." And yes, there are pics but I won't share anymore and yes I have new ones. She moved in with him during this last big split - and she admitted to using him for money and bills - hell, he signed for her car, etc. Sugar daddy.

Now, my advice question is this. I think this dude and I need to compare notes. She's obviously lying to all of us. And if it were me, I'd want to know the truth. I saw him in the store a couple of days ago and he looked like he wanted to say something but didn't. According to her, he supposedly hates me more than anything. If so, he must be a coward because he didn't say shite. So, do I fill him in? We both have obviously been used although she never asked me for money in any form. What say yall?