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re: is sex better when you're in love

Posted on 5/16/16 at 2:00 pm to
Posted by GnashRebel
Member since May 2015
8183 posts
Posted on 5/16/16 at 2:00 pm to
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I believe in holding onto virginity until marriage.


Most that I know who practiced this were glad they did.
Posted by TeLeFaWx
Dallas, TX
Member since Aug 2011
29179 posts
Posted on 5/16/16 at 2:01 pm to
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Ummm, gonna disagree with you here. They are plenty enough fricking fun to continue doing them.

And if I'm reading this right, you're saying you haven't had one? If that's the case, how can you say they aren't as fun as you think them to be? Maybe they're 4 times more fun than you can imagine them to be.


How did you interpret that as me not having one night stands? I'm explicitly talking about my experiences with one nights stands.
Posted by Stacked
Member since Apr 2012
5675 posts
Posted on 5/16/16 at 2:03 pm to
When you said no girl you dated gave it up the first night anyway. That may not pertain to one-night stands though. Just clarifying.
Posted by Stacked
Member since Apr 2012
5675 posts
Posted on 5/16/16 at 2:08 pm to
There's something exhilarating about not knowing you're about to frick a guy you've never met before and you may never see again so you take the opportunity and do it. I've literally never had a single regrettable one-night stand. Usually people who have regrets are putting undue pressure on themselves. All of this is assuming you're being smart and using protection. Barebacking a one-night stand is risky bidness. You should do that once too.
This post was edited on 5/16/16 at 2:16 pm
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
17031 posts
Posted on 5/16/16 at 2:23 pm to
I'm in my 30s and been divorced for almost 2 years. When I first got divorced, I had sex with a few girls. That was my first experience of just sex with no feelings involved. To me, it wasn't that good. In fact, I didn't enjoy it at all. After that I decided to wait until marriage, or at least until I'm truly in love with someone.
Posted by 2ftJumpCutter
Member since Aug 2012
7 posts
Posted on 5/16/16 at 2:47 pm to
Sex and Air are a lot alike........neither one is very important until you're not getting any.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 5/16/16 at 2:48 pm to
It's a mixed bag in my experience. While I've only been in love with 3 girls, including my wife, the sex with all 3 was great. I had a few one night stands or no strings attached encounters that were also great. Had a few that were just okay, and a few that were awful, or just really awkward. Even still, the wife and I have some sessions when it isn't all that great.
Posted by shamrock
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2015
3622 posts
Posted on 5/16/16 at 4:37 pm to
You clearly need to start using the other bathroom at your local high school.
Posted by cardboardboxer
Member since Apr 2012
34342 posts
Posted on 5/16/16 at 5:18 pm to
I think there is a comfort factor that makes it better, yeah.
Posted by Mars duMorgue
Sunset Dist/SF
Member since Aug 2015
2816 posts
Posted on 5/16/16 at 6:08 pm to
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im still a virgin

In your case then, I would say sex is better with a partner.
Posted by shotcaller1
Member since Oct 2014
7501 posts
Posted on 5/16/16 at 7:28 pm to
I can't say I notice a difference.

They're both better than the other for different reasons
Posted by dmjones
Acworth, GA
Member since Mar 2016
2303 posts
Posted on 5/16/16 at 8:22 pm to
Would sex between two virgins who are "in love" be epic?

Sex is great when two people learn what turns each other on and what the other person likes. Sex between two people who are "in love" can still be bad at first.
Posted by Uncle Gunnysack
Member since Apr 2016
5541 posts
Posted on 5/16/16 at 8:42 pm to
quote:

I'm in my 30s and been divorced for almost 2 years. When I first got divorced, I had sex with a few girls. That was my first experience of just sex with no feelings involved. To me, it wasn't that good. In fact, I didn't enjoy it at all. After that I decided to wait until marriage, or at least until I'm truly in love with someone.




sounds like you were still hung up on your divorce. it may not be as great as when you are in love, but NSA sex can be alot of fun. just have to be in the right frame of mind.
Posted by ChexMix
Taste the Deliciousness
Member since Apr 2014
25130 posts
Posted on 5/16/16 at 8:52 pm to
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Grew up their.

quote:

Wetumpka


Clearly
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
261037 posts
Posted on 5/17/16 at 12:13 am to
Sex is best when you're both drunk and willing to do things you wouldn't do when your inhibitions are not quite as loose.
Posted by SmoothOperator96
TD Premium Member
Member since Jan 2016
4044 posts
Posted on 5/17/16 at 7:05 am to
I've experienced all kinds. The best kind is with someone that doesn't want any strings attached. Just a good ole fashion hook up.
And the worst is where you want no strings attached. And neither does she, but her mind changes afterwards. Because then you have to break their heart and I get no joy out of it. But you have to do what you have to do

But I do get more pleasure out of making love with my significant other than I do with just any girl. But if you're single, why not live it up while you can. Know what I mean? You'll look back and regret not experimenting with different women
This post was edited on 5/17/16 at 7:07 am
Posted by Hoovertigah
Fayetteville
Member since Sep 2013
3049 posts
Posted on 5/17/16 at 8:10 pm to
Sex outside of marriage is like sticking your tongue to a frozen flag pole...

Part of your tongue will always be stuck to the flag pole and nothing ever tastes the same.

1 Man, 1 Woman for life.... Prevents a lot of worry, stress, doubt, guilt and shame. And prevents all std's.
This post was edited on 5/17/16 at 8:17 pm
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
90745 posts
Posted on 5/17/16 at 8:27 pm to
Have sex with dozens of random women and watch a lot of porn. It made me incapable of love and I'm much happier for it because I never have to deal with heartbreak.

Sex is best when high or drunk btw
Posted by AUjim
America
Member since Dec 2012
3663 posts
Posted on 5/17/16 at 10:48 pm to
You're doing it (actually not doing it) the right way. Stay the course, you'll be glad you did.
Posted by SoFla Tideroller
South Florida
Member since Apr 2010
30188 posts
Posted on 5/18/16 at 8:13 am to
Finding a partner who has a relaxed attitude about it is better than being in love or having a lot of pressure on both parties to perform or live up to some expectations.

Very true.
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