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re: is sex better when you're in love
Posted on 5/16/16 at 2:00 pm to BoomNation
Posted on 5/16/16 at 2:00 pm to BoomNation
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I believe in holding onto virginity until marriage.
Most that I know who practiced this were glad they did.
Posted on 5/16/16 at 2:01 pm to Stacked
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Ummm, gonna disagree with you here. They are plenty enough fricking fun to continue doing them.
And if I'm reading this right, you're saying you haven't had one? If that's the case, how can you say they aren't as fun as you think them to be? Maybe they're 4 times more fun than you can imagine them to be.
How did you interpret that as me not having one night stands? I'm explicitly talking about my experiences with one nights stands.
Posted on 5/16/16 at 2:03 pm to TeLeFaWx
When you said no girl you dated gave it up the first night anyway. That may not pertain to one-night stands though. Just clarifying.
Posted on 5/16/16 at 2:08 pm to BoomNation
There's something exhilarating about not knowing you're about to frick a guy you've never met before and you may never see again so you take the opportunity and do it. I've literally never had a single regrettable one-night stand. Usually people who have regrets are putting undue pressure on themselves. All of this is assuming you're being smart and using protection. Barebacking a one-night stand is risky bidness. You should do that once too.
This post was edited on 5/16/16 at 2:16 pm
Posted on 5/16/16 at 2:23 pm to BoomNation
I'm in my 30s and been divorced for almost 2 years. When I first got divorced, I had sex with a few girls. That was my first experience of just sex with no feelings involved. To me, it wasn't that good. In fact, I didn't enjoy it at all. After that I decided to wait until marriage, or at least until I'm truly in love with someone.
Posted on 5/16/16 at 2:47 pm to BoomNation
Sex and Air are a lot alike........neither one is very important until you're not getting any.
Posted on 5/16/16 at 2:48 pm to jvilletiger25
It's a mixed bag in my experience. While I've only been in love with 3 girls, including my wife, the sex with all 3 was great. I had a few one night stands or no strings attached encounters that were also great. Had a few that were just okay, and a few that were awful, or just really awkward. Even still, the wife and I have some sessions when it isn't all that great.
Posted on 5/16/16 at 4:37 pm to The Spleen
You clearly need to start using the other bathroom at your local high school.
Posted on 5/16/16 at 5:18 pm to BoomNation
I think there is a comfort factor that makes it better, yeah.
Posted on 5/16/16 at 6:08 pm to BoomNation
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im still a virgin
In your case then, I would say sex is better with a partner.
Posted on 5/16/16 at 7:28 pm to BoomNation
I can't say I notice a difference.
They're both better than the other for different reasons
They're both better than the other for different reasons
Posted on 5/16/16 at 8:22 pm to BoomNation
Would sex between two virgins who are "in love" be epic?
Sex is great when two people learn what turns each other on and what the other person likes. Sex between two people who are "in love" can still be bad at first.
Sex is great when two people learn what turns each other on and what the other person likes. Sex between two people who are "in love" can still be bad at first.
Posted on 5/16/16 at 8:42 pm to jvilletiger25
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I'm in my 30s and been divorced for almost 2 years. When I first got divorced, I had sex with a few girls. That was my first experience of just sex with no feelings involved. To me, it wasn't that good. In fact, I didn't enjoy it at all. After that I decided to wait until marriage, or at least until I'm truly in love with someone.
sounds like you were still hung up on your divorce. it may not be as great as when you are in love, but NSA sex can be alot of fun. just have to be in the right frame of mind.
Posted on 5/16/16 at 8:52 pm to Gary Busey
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Grew up their.
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Wetumpka
Clearly
Posted on 5/17/16 at 12:13 am to BoomNation
Sex is best when you're both drunk and willing to do things you wouldn't do when your inhibitions are not quite as loose.
Posted on 5/17/16 at 7:05 am to BoomNation
I've experienced all kinds. The best kind is with someone that doesn't want any strings attached. Just a good ole fashion hook up.
And the worst is where you want no strings attached. And neither does she, but her mind changes afterwards. Because then you have to break their heart and I get no joy out of it. But you have to do what you have to do
But I do get more pleasure out of making love with my significant other than I do with just any girl. But if you're single, why not live it up while you can. Know what I mean? You'll look back and regret not experimenting with different women
And the worst is where you want no strings attached. And neither does she, but her mind changes afterwards. Because then you have to break their heart and I get no joy out of it. But you have to do what you have to do
But I do get more pleasure out of making love with my significant other than I do with just any girl. But if you're single, why not live it up while you can. Know what I mean? You'll look back and regret not experimenting with different women
This post was edited on 5/17/16 at 7:07 am
Posted on 5/17/16 at 8:10 pm to BoomNation
Sex outside of marriage is like sticking your tongue to a frozen flag pole...
Part of your tongue will always be stuck to the flag pole and nothing ever tastes the same.
1 Man, 1 Woman for life.... Prevents a lot of worry, stress, doubt, guilt and shame. And prevents all std's.
Part of your tongue will always be stuck to the flag pole and nothing ever tastes the same.
1 Man, 1 Woman for life.... Prevents a lot of worry, stress, doubt, guilt and shame. And prevents all std's.
This post was edited on 5/17/16 at 8:17 pm
Posted on 5/17/16 at 8:27 pm to BoomNation
Have sex with dozens of random women and watch a lot of porn. It made me incapable of love and I'm much happier for it because I never have to deal with heartbreak.
Sex is best when high or drunk btw
Sex is best when high or drunk btw
Posted on 5/17/16 at 10:48 pm to BoomNation
You're doing it (actually not doing it) the right way. Stay the course, you'll be glad you did.
Posted on 5/18/16 at 8:13 am to No Colors
Finding a partner who has a relaxed attitude about it is better than being in love or having a lot of pressure on both parties to perform or live up to some expectations.
Very true.
Very true.
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