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re: How much did some of you pay out of pocket for having a kid

Posted on 3/14/20 at 4:52 pm to
Posted by Broncothor
Member since Jul 2014
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Posted on 3/14/20 at 4:52 pm to
To the OP, the cost of having a kid is the inexpensive part. The cost of raising a kid is where the $$ comes. To my friend Fibonaccisquared, you know I love you but ObamaCare is whacked. Giving insurance to people at below the cost of what their rate would be on the free market, and making the insurable pay high deductibles and premiums is just a hidden way of taxing some and giving to others. Insurance costs are based on pooled risk. Obamacare increased that risk substantially. To remain profitable, we all suffer.
Posted by fibonaccisquared
The mystical waters of the Hooch
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Posted on 3/14/20 at 5:25 pm to
Edit: Just looked back and realized I combined 2 thoughts in one sentence. Makes more sense as to why you questioned it.

1) healthcare tied to employment specifically happened many years earlier under FDR (part of a response to the wage cap in order for employers to attract talent) - however at this time, medical care didn't remotely resemble what we think of today. Additionally, the IRS made medical benefits provided through employers tax free, meaning employees had less coming out of their paycheck

2) The Nixon Kaiser connection was sort of the beginning of insurance being treated as a mechanism that could truly be a profit center. That was sort of the beginning of Insurance being "completely fricked". Not that it was great shakes prior to that, but it really was the turning point for where the industry has gone.

I think both are problematic, but difficult to get all that across with a 4 year old jumping up and down on your head.
This post was edited on 3/14/20 at 5:52 pm
Posted by fibonaccisquared
The mystical waters of the Hooch
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Posted on 3/14/20 at 5:30 pm to
quote:

To my friend Fibonaccisquared, you know I love you but ObamaCare is whacked. Giving insurance to people at below the cost of what their rate would be on the free market, and making the insurable pay high deductibles and premiums is just a hidden way of taxing some and giving to others. Insurance costs are based on pooled risk. Obamacare increased that risk substantially. To remain profitable, we all suffer.


Again... Read my comment again. In no way am I defending the outcome of what the ACA became. Some of those things were due to ill thought out plans, some of them were consequences of too many hands in the cookie jar. My comment is about blaming Obama for "all insurance problems" as though the shite hasn't been broken for over 40 years.
Posted by Griffindawg
Member since Oct 2013
6122 posts
Posted on 3/14/20 at 5:33 pm to
Bout 5 fricking grand if I remember correctly. That was in 2014.
Posted by meansonny
ATL
Member since Sep 2012
25553 posts
Posted on 3/14/20 at 5:34 pm to
quote:

Ok


No response as to why we have an employer based health insurance system?

Nixon gave employer based health insurance tax deductions in the 40s?
Posted by fibonaccisquared
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Posted on 3/14/20 at 5:52 pm to
Read edit above.
Posted by fibonaccisquared
The mystical waters of the Hooch
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Posted on 3/14/20 at 6:05 pm to
(I dunno who downvoted you fyi.. I just clicked upvote to check and make sure it wasn't me...)
Posted by lewis and herschel
Member since Nov 2009
11363 posts
Posted on 3/14/20 at 6:19 pm to
I am as pro capitalism as they come but I feel the escalating costs will push insurance beyond feasibility and we will end up with government run healthcare with the for profit motive removed to lessen the cost for it.

We all have to have it and some of know our pre existing condition while others are still waiting to find theirs out.


Posted by meansonny
ATL
Member since Sep 2012
25553 posts
Posted on 3/14/20 at 6:30 pm to
quote:

(I dunno who downvoted you fyi.. I just clicked upvote to check and make sure it wasn't me...)


No worries. I dont pay attention to them. Cheers

Edit to add:
Not sure what you mean by "profit center". Businesses never last without profits. It is why socialists who hate profits crack me up (they prefer bankruptcy, I guess). We've gotten far off the OP. You can educate me on Kaiser later. Cheers
This post was edited on 3/14/20 at 6:46 pm
Posted by meansonny
ATL
Member since Sep 2012
25553 posts
Posted on 3/14/20 at 6:42 pm to
quote:

I am as pro capitalism as they come but I feel the escalating costs will push insurance beyond feasibility and we will end up with government run healthcare with the for profit motive removed to lessen the cost for it.


You dont understand the government very well.

Health insurance companies strive for a 3-4% profit with the risk that they lose money.

My local county tax collector takes 2% just to hand the money from me to my local school district with no risk of loss.

Government is never more efficient. Government losses just get passed on through more taxation. That never hurts anybody, right?

This post was edited on 3/14/20 at 6:48 pm
Posted by S1C EM
Athens, GA
Member since Nov 2007
11585 posts
Posted on 3/14/20 at 6:50 pm to
$250.00. Included all prenatal visits for the nine months, too.

Not a joke.
This post was edited on 3/14/20 at 6:54 pm
Posted by IT_Dawg
Georgia
Member since Oct 2012
21730 posts
Posted on 3/14/20 at 6:51 pm to
quote:

How much did some of you pay out of pocket for having a kid


Honestly, it’s the $750,000 that gets them from birth to college that you should be worried about. Also, a potential wedding that will drop another $40-$50k
Posted by superdawg
Chattanooga
Member since Oct 2013
1355 posts
Posted on 3/14/20 at 7:53 pm to
just understate your yearly income and get someone else to pay for it all

Posted by BigDaddyDawg
Washington D.C.
Member since Sep 2017
1328 posts
Posted on 3/14/20 at 11:46 pm to
If it makes the OP feel any better our first child cost 55k out of pocket before we ever made it to the hospital. Invetro is not covered by insurance.

The beautiful part was the pregnancy stimulated my wife’s organs and we got a second kiddo for “free” when we thought we couldn’t have another.
Posted by BoogerSykes
Buckeye, AZ
Member since Sep 2012
1413 posts
Posted on 3/15/20 at 4:50 pm to
I have really good insurance with my company. I literally only paid for my son to get his weiner circumcised, because insurance won't cover that these days. Everything else was covered. Not to mention I also had 6 months off paid paternity leave.
Posted by Sheftie
Member since Jul 2019
526 posts
Posted on 3/15/20 at 5:46 pm to
quote:

 6 months off paid paternity leave.


Do you live an alternative lifestyle?

Ive never heard of that in my entire life
Posted by fibonaccisquared
The mystical waters of the Hooch
Member since Dec 2011
16898 posts
Posted on 3/15/20 at 9:26 pm to
I have it was well. Lots of companies with high concentration of employees in California are having to do so in order to compete for human capital.
Posted by Rex Feral
Athens
Member since Jan 2014
11262 posts
Posted on 3/16/20 at 7:08 am to
I got a bill for $18,000 from Athens Regional. I thought it was what I owe and freaked out. Turns out it was before health insurance was applied. I think I wound up paying around $2,000.
Posted by AmsterdamNYCDawg
NYC
Member since Nov 2015
132 posts
Posted on 3/16/20 at 7:47 am to
Just had our first on 03/05/2020 @ 823am at piedmont in buckhead. no complications I don't think or remember but we did use Petosin (sp?) to help speed up contractions.

I have BCBS of IL as a PPO+
initial itemized list came in at 25k and insurance already claimed 15k. this isn't a bill they say so I'll keep waiting.

my insurance allowed me to do a "quote" type thing that told me what to expect to pay at the hospital and delivery type which came out to $2.5k. I'm expecting to pay somewhere between $2.5k and maybe $4k depending.

i was super fricking paranoid about Wuhan virus and the hospital so looks like youre dodging a bullet there. good luck w/ the delivery!

last thing, I was in no way prepared for what I felt during the labor. like i hate to see my wife cry but god damn it was amazingly beautiful to see my baby girl get born (from behind wife's head).
Posted by WoodstockDawg
Woodstock, GA
Member since Oct 2012
85 posts
Posted on 3/16/20 at 2:29 pm to
My granddaughter was born there a year ago. It was smooth sailing all the way and I think their drive-out cost was just under $2k. That includes non-hospital services prior to. She works for the city of Marietta and has good insurance.

She was born at Athens Regional and cost me over $10k back in the day, and we were fully insured, but there were a lot of complications.

Good luck, Sheftie.
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