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re: When are you too old to go on vacation with your parents?

Posted on 6/1/13 at 2:58 pm to
Posted by Latarian
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 2:58 pm to
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Why?



because it means one spouse is going on a vacation with their in-laws. F that noise (again, love my in-laws but not for a week straight)
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 2:58 pm to
If you don't have reunions and your family is scattered all over the place like mine is, a vacation is a great way to see/reconnect with the fam. Even if "vacation" simply means all the rest of the sibs show up at my parents' place.

Not that hard for my wife and I to sneak off and have some quality time together if you know what I mean
Posted by Robot Santa
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:00 pm to
Sounds like you are just uncomfortable fricking your wife down the hall from the room your parents are fricking in.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:00 pm to
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because it means one spouse is going on a vacation with their in-laws. F that noise (again, love my in-laws but not for a week straight)


I've taken long-term boyfriends on vacation with my family like that and they've loved it.

For TWO weeks no less.
Posted by Latarian
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:02 pm to
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so then why is it weird for my parents or aunts and uncles to go on the vacation but not for me, my sister, or cousins.



Wut?

I'm talking about young married couples going on vacation with their parents. are your parents a young couple?
Posted by Latarian
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:02 pm to
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Sounds like you are just uncomfortable fricking your wife down the hall from the room your parents are fricking in.



kind of the point, yes.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:02 pm to
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Sounds like you are just uncomfortable fricking your wife down the hall from the room your parents are fricking in.


This, tbh

And I have damn cool in-laws. I actually think I like spending time with them more than my wife does
Posted by WestCoastAg
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:03 pm to
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I'm talking about young married couples going on vacation with their parents.
no. i thought you were talking in general. still dont see a problem though. its just getting together with family. theres no problem with doing that every once and a while
Posted by Latarian
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:04 pm to
good luck with marriage bro.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:07 pm to
I feel like we should be wishing you good luck since you have some weird aversion to a family vacation.
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:08 pm to
been happily married 5 years in July thank you. whatever we're doing is obviously working.

Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:11 pm to
Obviously. But it's kind of sad you can't grasp that people might actually like their extended families enough to vacation with them even after they're married (like vacationing with certain people dies after marriage or something ).
This post was edited on 6/1/13 at 3:15 pm
Posted by CheeseburgerEddie
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:13 pm to
I have trouble grasping that. I like some of my extended family but I wouldn't waste a vacation week every year. I will give them one every 5 to 7 years
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:15 pm to
And that's cool, I'm not saying everyone should like it/want to do it. But it doesn't make the rest of us weirdos who do it. Which is obviously is what Lat is trying to get at.
Posted by CheeseburgerEddie
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:16 pm to
Only weird of you still stay in the same room.
Posted by Latarian
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:17 pm to
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Obviously. But it's kind of sad you can't grasp that people might actually like their extended families enough to vacation with them even after they're married (like vacationing with certain people dies after marriage or something ).



Yes, it's sad that I brought up a topic for discussion on a message board.

ETA: and you aren't even married so why are you even chiming in?
This post was edited on 6/1/13 at 3:18 pm
Posted by hawgfaninc
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:17 pm to
quote:

uncomfortable fricking your wife down the hall from the room your parents are fricking in

quote:

still dont see a problem though

either:
A. your weird as frick
or
B. sorry you and your family don't like having sex
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:18 pm to
The place we usually go is a mom and pop deal on the beach that's all apartments and efficiencies. When I bring someone with me we stay in separate apartment.
Posted by Bellabama
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:19 pm to
My mom and I are best friends. She is incredibly fun, and by far my favorite travel companion. I go on vacations with her as much as I can because there will be a time that she isn't here anymore, and I will miss going on vacations with her.

I just think it's normal to go on vacations with people you get along with. If it happens to be your parents, all the power to you. As it is, all of our family friends still go on vacations with their parents as well.

My ex boyfriend's parents rent a house in Venice every summer and they assign each of the children a block of time to visit with their families.
This post was edited on 6/1/13 at 3:20 pm
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 6/1/13 at 3:19 pm to
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ETA: and you aren't even married so why are you even chiming in?


Because people I go with, as I said, are married. Like my parents, aunt/uncle, etc. I've been in long-term (i.e. 4-5 year) relationships where my SO has gone.

Why are you bitching about someone chiming in on a message board when it's a message board?
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