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re: Serious question..if your S/O did this what would your response be?
Posted on 9/27/16 at 1:42 pm to TbirdSpur2010
Posted on 9/27/16 at 1:42 pm to TbirdSpur2010
sweeet!!! bout to ask the help board for a reinstatement.
Posted on 9/27/16 at 2:06 pm to Carolina_Girl
My cheating ex would only drop a story this obviously stupid, if she was trying to get out in front of something she thought I was going to find out about. There would always be several layers of deception from several different directions. Look through the layers.
Posted on 9/27/16 at 2:25 pm to Carolina_Girl
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Then I get a txt from my "S/O" ASKING ME TO CALL THIS CHICK TO SEE IF I COULD GET HER TO PAY HIM BACK BC SHE HAS IGNORED HIS ATTEMPTS AT HAVING HER PAY HIM BACK!!!!!!!!! WHAT in the frick
I'd give him $126 and tell him you two are through. Just tell him you know the real story, and aren't interested in discussing it further. You're almost certain to find out later as long as you keep quiet.
It'll be the most liberating $126 you ever spent.
Posted on 9/27/16 at 2:43 pm to LewDawg
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I hope he's hot because he's dumb as frick
lol this
best case - he's a fricking moron, cut and run
worst case - he's shady as frick and/or cheating - cut and run
Posted on 9/27/16 at 2:45 pm to Carolina_Girl
Is this woman attractive?
Posted on 9/27/16 at 2:47 pm to GnashRebel
it's the internet
the "woman" is probably a 400 pound dude sitting on his bed trying to scam people on twitter all day
the "woman" is probably a 400 pound dude sitting on his bed trying to scam people on twitter all day
Posted on 9/27/16 at 2:50 pm to bamabenny
But my understanding is they have met. No?
Posted on 9/27/16 at 2:53 pm to Carolina_Girl
Sounds like he's just stupid to me, and he didn't mention it before because he didn't think it was a big deal (because he actually thought he was helping your friend)
Posted on 9/27/16 at 3:30 pm to Carolina_Girl
never date a man that $126 would make "desperate"
Never mind, you say things like "I would beat this bitch's arse". You've got to settle when you're trashy
Never mind, you say things like "I would beat this bitch's arse". You've got to settle when you're trashy
This post was edited on 9/27/16 at 3:40 pm
Posted on 9/27/16 at 3:38 pm to Carolina_Girl
Check around and see if any local hotel/motel has rooms for $126,tax included. That's just an odd amount to me.
Posted on 9/27/16 at 3:50 pm to BowlJackson
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he actually thought he was helping your friend)

Posted on 9/27/16 at 3:50 pm to BowlJackson
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he actually thought he was helping your friend)

Posted on 9/27/16 at 4:44 pm to Carolina_Girl
I imagine your S/O looks something like this


Posted on 9/27/16 at 5:30 pm to POCKET
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Never mind, you say things like "I would beat this bitch's arse". You've got to settle when you're trashy
Dude you have no fricking clue who I am or what I have been thru. These others do.
Go frick yourself with a wire brush.
Posted on 9/27/16 at 5:55 pm to Carolina_Girl
You don't need a man.
You don't need a man you can't trust.
You don't need a man who asks you to deal with this woman.
He is a boy. Not a man
You don't need a man you can't trust.
You don't need a man who asks you to deal with this woman.
He is a boy. Not a man
Posted on 9/27/16 at 5:56 pm to Carolina_Girl
Something about it seems shady, but if he banged her he wouldn't have come to you to get the money back. He wouldn't want you anywhere near the situation. How dumb is he?
Posted on 9/27/16 at 7:00 pm to Carolina_Girl
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Serious question..if your S/O did this what would your response be?
My wife would divorce me. And she would be right to do so. I would never think of loaning some other person, especially a chick I met on twitter, money without discussing it with her.
It looks shady because it is shady. He wanted to frick that girl. Plain and simple.
Posted on 9/27/16 at 8:13 pm to Carolina_Girl
That $126 would go a long way towards getting a dog neutered.
Posted on 9/27/16 at 9:25 pm to Rockbrc
Would have to see pics of all parties to make a final judgement but leaning towards IDGAF
Posted on 9/27/16 at 9:26 pm to Carolina_Girl
quote:Eh, I've been with my S/O for 9 years now, and I'm still not very familiar with her very close friends from her hometown (grade school/high school types...the pre-Nino years). So it isn't incredibly far fetched in my mind for him to think someone might be closer to you than they actually are. But it does call into question his gullibility and intelligence
He KNOWS all of my friends, y'all. Isn't it odd that he actually believed (I think he is using that as a flimsy excuse) she was a 'close friend' yet he has NEVER ONCE heard me mention this chick in any way, shape, form or fashion.
quote:Has he wire transferred money to a Nigerian princess recently?
Also, the excuse she gave for needing the money was something to do with taking a test and a train trip to a work seminar. This girl is supposed to be a hospice nurse.
quote:It's pretty obvious we're dealing with a dude that's slow on the uptake...so I can't fault him for not knowing all this, or researching it.
News flash...I am an ER/Trauma nurse. You NEVER take the NCLEX again unless your license has been revoked or it has been over either 5 or 6 yrs since you last practiced as a nurse. So that was bullshite. And if it was a work related seminar, why the frick take a train? And every Hospice Agency that I have ever dealt with in 15 yrs of being a nurse covers the cost of transportation to and from work related events such as a seminar. Another line of bullshite.
quote:$126 is so important to him that he brought this world of shite on himself? That's concerning no matter how you look at it
I believe, in my heart of hearts, that he was desperate to get that $ back and since he bought the 'close friend' line, thought she would listen to me not only bc of that, but bc he knew I would beat this bitch's arse like she has never been beaten before.
So you're either dealing with a gullible dumbass, or a dude thats created an elaborate story to cover his arse for something he didn't need to be doing. I'm siding with the former. That said, you can do much better. He's given you a great way to get out of this relationship. From what little I know, seems like it's time to cut your losses
Good luck

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