re: Relationship problems (part II)

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But my past is filled with a few crazies because they were excellent in bed and it was worth trying to "fix" them for it.

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I feel this way at times with my current GF although the problem is a bit different.

We never argue, I fully trust her and she doesn't cheat and really never bitches at me. Sex is great and don't want to lose that.

The problem that worries me is the future after college. She comes from a rich family and is used to the big city and lots of shopping and nice things. I come from a family who is well off, but we are country folk and I love being in the country, growing up in small towns. I will probably end up starting a chain restaurant and also have my own catfish farm.

She is dead set on living in the city, and that doesn't appeal to me. When she comes to visit me over the summer it drives her crazy that you have to drive 25 min just to go to Wal Mart, and there is no such thing within 2 hours of a mall with places like Victoria Secret or other outlet stores.

I just hope it isn't a problem and she can adjust if we end up marrying..hopefully my business aspirations will do well enough to where making a drive to shop won't be a big deal financially and that will satisfy her. I definitely couldn't break up with her I mean she can cook, clean, loves sex and is the nicest sweetest girl I've ever dated.

But if it came down to it I couldn't leave where I live, no way. I have an excellent business idea and plan, with some investors starting to seriously consider. If I leave then I go to where I have no connections, my target group of customers changes, I can't have the farm that I want either on top of everything else.

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deltaland

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If she loves you and truly wants to be with you then she'll adjust. That said, you may have to consider making some adjustments to your plan if you legitimately want to be with her too.

I hate the mall. It would drive me a little crazy to be that far away from a major grocery or Walgreens though.

But if I'm not having to work I'd gladly do it.

Why the frick did you get back together with her? I thought we settled that one last time

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Advice?

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Break up with her. Neither one of you are each other's parents. You shouldn't given away her cat, and she certainly has no right to both get a cat without your permission and to steal your router. Call the motherfricking cops. That bitch deserves to gets raped with a broomstick in prison

OK, I leave for a while and this thread takes off. I've got one more thing to say. For now. Others have made great points that I completely support.

The OP never addressed my earlier question about whether he was the Georgia poster whose GF liked to throw things at him. And he posted one night that he'd gotten mad enough to throw something back. IF that is you ... you are in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship, and need to GTFO NOW. If you choose to stay with her, you do this in full knowledge of the fact that she's crazy and abusive, and that you are likely to end up fathering kids and having to co-parent with this crazy chick for the rest of your life. Is that what you want?

Does she have any children already? I seem to remember this may have been the case, and that you were attached to her kids.

Now, if that is a different poster, I apologize. But you should still run from the drama while you can. Your relationship isn't healthy and is only going to get worse from here. But if you stay, please continue to entertain us with stories, and let us know when your Jerry Springer episode is scheduled to be on.

On a final note, I'm frightened by how many people seem to not know how basic anatomy and pregnancy prevention works. There is a name for people like you - parents!!

You put the penis where again?

And do you just stick it in and pee? Or does your urine have to turn white first?

The I'm judging you emoticon is my least favorite

If I wasn't on my phone I'd post the gigantic just for you

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Some of you may remember my adventure giving away my gf's cat after she purposely bought one and brought it (against my will) into MY house.

Amidst the chaos, I created a match.com profile which I forgot about since we worked things out. She found it yesterday and flipped. Unplugged my router and drove off with it. She also threw a key at me saying its over and it's not even a key to my house. Not sure where she is but I've been up all night trying to call her phone with no luck. I'm having to use my data plan on my ipad to write all this. Advice?

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This sounds like quite the adventure

Did u get your router back?