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re: my ex left me again and its tearing me apart (Please give me some advice/insight)
Posted on 2/22/15 at 4:54 pm to TMDawg
Posted on 2/22/15 at 4:54 pm to TMDawg
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If you've really stayed with her through all that, nothing anyone says here will convince you otherwise. It's like with alcoholics and addicts, until you hit your rock bottom (and that bottom is different for everyone), it's gonna get worse. Hopefully you've hit yours already with her because if not, the next round sounds like it'll bring the pain even worse.
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Posted on 2/22/15 at 5:06 pm to MsGarrison
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This girl took my career away from me, I'm virtually on the brink of losing everything after she messed it up.
Please explain this part.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 5:16 pm to MsGarrison
Can you explain your Halloween costume from last year to us?
I bet seeing you like this got your lady wet. You are an impressive specimen.
I bet seeing you like this got your lady wet. You are an impressive specimen.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 5:17 pm to OBReb6
Holy shite. 
Posted on 2/22/15 at 5:30 pm to OBReb6
Posted on 2/22/15 at 6:03 pm to MsGarrison
How many people told you that you should dump her when you came here and whined and cried about her last year?
Everyone told you she was crazy and you were even crazier for letting her run you and you ignored all advice.
And, by the way, Toradol isn't a scheduled drug. Sure, you shouldn't steal anything from your employer but you are making it seem like she stole some heavy narcotics. Toradol is a prescription NSAID.
And you said she stole
Well, Toradol come as 10 mg tablets, so according to what you posted, she took 3 pills?
Sounds like you weren't qualified for a job in the medical field if you can't differentiate the number of pills from the milligrams.
Everyone told you she was crazy and you were even crazier for letting her run you and you ignored all advice.
And, by the way, Toradol isn't a scheduled drug. Sure, you shouldn't steal anything from your employer but you are making it seem like she stole some heavy narcotics. Toradol is a prescription NSAID.
And you said she stole
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the 60mg bottle that had 30mg used
Well, Toradol come as 10 mg tablets, so according to what you posted, she took 3 pills?
Sounds like you weren't qualified for a job in the medical field if you can't differentiate the number of pills from the milligrams.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 6:03 pm to BigOrangeBri
You should probably just consider your life as being over. You are not worth much to anyone....much less her. She is somebody else's bang box now.
Is this what you want to hear? I mean....if this is true and not a troll, there is nothing that anyone can say to you that will make a difference. You want random people you don't know to tell you how to have self respect? Geez!
Is this what you want to hear? I mean....if this is true and not a troll, there is nothing that anyone can say to you that will make a difference. You want random people you don't know to tell you how to have self respect? Geez!
Posted on 2/22/15 at 6:12 pm to MsGarrison
I read your OP and have not read any additional posts in this thread beyond your first 3 parts.
I'm not trolling and will be completely honest with you because I dated a crazy vindictive bitch once and know exactly what you're going through.
She is the one sleeping around, having an affair. She is acting all crazy accusing you of the one cheating because it keeps you all worked up trying to defend yourself and keeps your suspicions of her at a low level. You're trying to fix everything because you're blinded by your love for her, while she simply doesn't give a shite. She is making your life a living hell and playing games with you so she can go live her carefree life doing what she wants. That's why she won't give you her phone and keeps secrets from you...she has something to hide. When you ask, she turns it around on you and leaves you so you forget all about her shadiness and worry about getting her back.
It's the truth man, trust me when I say this, just leave her altogether and work on putting your life and career back on track. You'll be happier in the long run.
I'm not trolling and will be completely honest with you because I dated a crazy vindictive bitch once and know exactly what you're going through.
She is the one sleeping around, having an affair. She is acting all crazy accusing you of the one cheating because it keeps you all worked up trying to defend yourself and keeps your suspicions of her at a low level. You're trying to fix everything because you're blinded by your love for her, while she simply doesn't give a shite. She is making your life a living hell and playing games with you so she can go live her carefree life doing what she wants. That's why she won't give you her phone and keeps secrets from you...she has something to hide. When you ask, she turns it around on you and leaves you so you forget all about her shadiness and worry about getting her back.
It's the truth man, trust me when I say this, just leave her altogether and work on putting your life and career back on track. You'll be happier in the long run.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 6:14 pm to BamaChick
I know I shouldve left her but the heart wants what the heart wants.
I know toradol comes in a tablet form.
It also is comes as an injectable as well (which we inject in the right buttock). I know you may work in the medical field but so do I. I'm not a know it all but I know my job. So please don't patroniZe me. I
don't steal and if I did its nothing in that clinic that I would want to take. She was a manipulative person and she always has to have some leverage over me.
I know toradol comes in a tablet form.
It also is comes as an injectable as well (which we inject in the right buttock). I know you may work in the medical field but so do I. I'm not a know it all but I know my job. So please don't patroniZe me. I
don't steal and if I did its nothing in that clinic that I would want to take. She was a manipulative person and she always has to have some leverage over me.
This post was edited on 2/22/15 at 6:18 pm
Posted on 2/22/15 at 6:21 pm to MsGarrison
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know I shouldve left her but the heart wants what the heart wants.
Cut her totally out of your life and the heart will want another just takes time.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 6:22 pm to MsGarrison
You still have explained your costume...
Posted on 2/22/15 at 6:25 pm to MsGarrison
I always assumed MsGarrison was a girl.
Anyway, no one loved their wife more than I loved my first wife. She left me for another man and I tried for a while to win her back, I loved her that much.
Finally realized it was best for me to move on, and I did. Met and married a wonderful woman and we are about to celebrate our 17th anniversary.
It sounds like you need a complete break for a while, get your head back on straight, then move forward from there.
Anyway, no one loved their wife more than I loved my first wife. She left me for another man and I tried for a while to win her back, I loved her that much.
Finally realized it was best for me to move on, and I did. Met and married a wonderful woman and we are about to celebrate our 17th anniversary.
It sounds like you need a complete break for a while, get your head back on straight, then move forward from there.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 6:33 pm to MsGarrison
So now she stole an injectable that has no route of administration other than a needle, doesn't give users a high, and has no street or recreational value?
Sounds legit.
Sounds legit.
This post was edited on 2/22/15 at 6:35 pm
Posted on 2/22/15 at 6:34 pm to MsGarrison
I realize that there's a 98.4% chance that this is a troll thread, but, if not, my only advice to you would be to quit being such a beta count.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 6:43 pm to deltaland
Delta land thanks for the words. She def had something to hide and she deflected it by starting stuff with my ex and then by leaving me. I didn't think of it as an attempt to make me forget about her wrong doings and make me chase her. I had a long talk with some friends and along with the comments I've received from here im quitting. I tried to reach out several times and she gave me excuses saying she was busy and with family. She needed time to formulate her thoughts then said she'll contact me when she's ready. Well she had her chance. That ship is pulling away now. frick her and the horse she rode off with. Im angry again but maybe by harboring these negative thoughts I'll stick to my guns and stop caring about her and start caring about myself again
Posted on 2/22/15 at 6:54 pm to MsGarrison
I'm a business minded person and I always weigh my social/personal life in business terms. Basically just use a cost/benefit analysis.
Ask yourself...is the stress of dealing with her level of BS, losing your career, knowing she could leave any minute because she really doesn't have the same level of love for you as you do her, knowing she has likely cheated, knowing the hell she has put you through...is all of that worth keeping her? What does she bring to the table to balance or outweigh of all that? From what you've said, it's very little.
What you have is like when a business has some outdated inefficient way of producing a product, that is putting them in the red, but refuse to update equipment because it might cost some money initially and the owner "likes the old way of doing things".
Cut her loose, go through a little pain but if you endure that , you'll be happier in life and glad you did it when you reflect back on that decision. Then you can upgrade in women
Ask yourself...is the stress of dealing with her level of BS, losing your career, knowing she could leave any minute because she really doesn't have the same level of love for you as you do her, knowing she has likely cheated, knowing the hell she has put you through...is all of that worth keeping her? What does she bring to the table to balance or outweigh of all that? From what you've said, it's very little.
What you have is like when a business has some outdated inefficient way of producing a product, that is putting them in the red, but refuse to update equipment because it might cost some money initially and the owner "likes the old way of doing things".
Cut her loose, go through a little pain but if you endure that , you'll be happier in life and glad you did it when you reflect back on that decision. Then you can upgrade in women
Posted on 2/22/15 at 7:08 pm to BamaChick
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So now she stole an injectable that has no route of administration other than a needle, doesn't give users a high, and has no street or recreational value?
He said she didn't steal it to use, but solely for the purpose of getting him fired. Which makes it even crazier that he would want to be with her.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 7:33 pm to BigOrangeBri
I talked to my sister and she told me all the signs point to her being a cheater. My mom even said the same thing. They sensed she was fake. On top of that, she has called me some horrible names just recently. As you all know I'm black. She has called me a "black b*tch", I look like curious George, she insulted my family saying my mom and dad are the only decent people. She told that to my ex. To be honest my family is very well. Me and my sister have college degrees She currently has a career. We all are former military. My brother is the only bad seed. Her family.. Meh.... Then to my ex, 37, currently no job, had to have her ex(who she lied to me about) come down and buy her a car. In which it took her damn near a year to get it registered. I think back on that car and she said her "friend" only consigned cause he had good credit and she didn't need to put anything down. Her car note was $150 dollars and her parents were going to pay the first payment. All lies. She is a liar. The more I recant the more I see her lies I believed .
This post was edited on 2/22/15 at 7:50 pm
Posted on 2/22/15 at 7:43 pm to MsGarrison
I just got off the wagon..
;)
;)
Posted on 2/22/15 at 7:44 pm to MsGarrison
You're black. What is she?
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