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re: how do you do deal with or have dealt with heartbreak?

Posted on 4/28/13 at 12:35 pm to
Posted by mwlewis
JeffCo
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Posted on 4/28/13 at 12:35 pm to
I was there bro and if you need someone to vent about shite to you've got my email. When me and my ex broke up I tried to find someone to just talk about shite to and a few of my friends just ignored me. I also re-evaluated some of my friendships
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 4/28/13 at 12:37 pm to
quote:

She was my best friend. More so than any guy or anybody has been for me. She knew more about me and I knew more about her than anyone. It sucks because the only person I feel like I could talk to and feel better is her. Not girlfriend her. But best friend her.


That's the toughest part, especially if you've been with someone for quite awhile and if you all have been through a lot together.
Posted by Vols&Shaft83
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Member since Dec 2012
69896 posts
Posted on 4/28/13 at 12:38 pm to
Brother, when my ex wife told me she wasn't in love with me anymore, my whole world collapsed. I was 600 miles away from my closest family, basically homeless, and devastated.

I lived out of my car and hotel rooms for 2 months, I was in debt up to my eyeballs to credit cards and the IRS, I had lost my wife, my step daughter, my home, and even my Rottweiler. My whole life was a country song.

It took awhile, but I made it through. This too shall pass.
Posted by heartbreakTiger
grinding for my grinders
Member since Jan 2008
138974 posts
Posted on 4/28/13 at 12:41 pm to
id suggest getting a dog. even if you aren't heartbroken its hard to stay mad when you come home to a dog
Posted by trickydick12
college station
Member since Sep 2012
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Posted on 4/28/13 at 12:44 pm to
When my wife got knocked up by some other dude. I fricked her sister, and most of her co workers. She quit her job and her sister and her got into a fist fight outside of my house. I then attened her cousins wedding a couple of weeks after everything and that week I spent in Pennsylvania I fricked several cousins, and 1 aunt. But hey you don't have to be a vindictive dick like me.
Posted by Patton
Principality of Sealand
Member since Apr 2011
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Posted on 4/28/13 at 12:47 pm to
None of that is true
Posted by heartbreakTiger
grinding for my grinders
Member since Jan 2008
138974 posts
Posted on 4/28/13 at 12:49 pm to
if randy said that id believe it
Posted by mwlewis
JeffCo
Member since Nov 2010
21210 posts
Posted on 4/28/13 at 12:49 pm to
quote:

When my wife got knocked up by some other dude. I fricked her sister, and most of her co workers. She quit her job and her sister and her got into a fist fight outside of my house. I then attened her cousins wedding a couple of weeks after everything and that week I spent in Pennsylvania I fricked several cousins, and 1 aunt. But hey you don't have to be a vindictive dick like me.


No you didnt.

Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
90526 posts
Posted on 4/28/13 at 12:52 pm to
Whiskey and find some strange. You're welcome
Posted by bamafan425
Jackson's Hole
Member since Jan 2009
25607 posts
Posted on 4/28/13 at 12:56 pm to
It's a combo of things too. I'm very blessed to be able to get paid to go to graduate school, but I barely know anyone here. All the other grad students are married or engaged and leaving our program in June.

I grew up with a twin brother who I was always with. Went to college together. Lived together all four years. Now he's back in Chattanooga. And were really close with all our high school friends still. So he's back there going out with all them. Living with one of them. And I'm living by myself in Starkville. First time I've ever really been homesick.

Then my two best friends live in Atlanta and we all text everyday but still not the same obviously.

Sounds depressing as shite typing this out.
Posted by trickydick12
college station
Member since Sep 2012
1671 posts
Posted on 4/28/13 at 1:02 pm to
those were some of my best soul searching moments of my life. I was still depressed however I had a giant grin on my face every time I thought about it. I went and hung out with friends and went to the beach everyday.
Posted by Magic965
MAKE A MOVE
Member since Mar 2013
128 posts
Posted on 4/28/13 at 1:03 pm to
Glad I'm not the only one. At least I'm not homeless. That sounded like rock bottom but its cool you didn't just give up.
Posted by SavageOrangeJug
Member since Oct 2005
19758 posts
Posted on 4/28/13 at 1:10 pm to
All I can say is this...

If some dude named aziz asks you to go to the bar with him....decline.
Posted by Randy1375
Member since Dec 2012
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Posted on 4/28/13 at 1:33 pm to
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Posted by harmonics
Mars Hotel
Member since Jan 2010
18615 posts
Posted on 4/28/13 at 4:29 pm to
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Not that long, just 6 months.


Me and my ex dated for 8 years. Finally moved in together, broke up six months later. True story.
Posted by Randy1375
Member since Dec 2012
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Posted on 4/28/13 at 4:37 pm to
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Posted by harmonics
Mars Hotel
Member since Jan 2010
18615 posts
Posted on 4/28/13 at 4:39 pm to
I had the fan on while running the water....... Nah I didn't. I was like, Hey! And she was like, "yeah", and I was like PLOP. Never saw her again.
Posted by tduecen
Member since Nov 2006
161244 posts
Posted on 4/28/13 at 6:11 pm to
Usually just call him a dumb arse and to go screw Coastie
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
70893 posts
Posted on 4/28/13 at 6:13 pm to
I cried a lot. Drank a lot. Smoked a lot of weed.

But thankfully like 2 weeks later I moved into a fraternity house and then it all changed.

I'm also in a 2.5 year relationship now with the girl I'll marry.

I look back on being "broken hearted" and feel dumb. I was like 19 and she was a count.

Posted by Randy1375
Member since Dec 2012
2720 posts
Posted on 4/28/13 at 6:18 pm to

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