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Do you look down on an unmarried couple having a baby?

Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:05 pm
Posted by Slippery Slope
Hail Satan
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Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:05 pm
I don't.

shite happens.


Posted by heartbreakTiger
grinding for my grinders
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Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:07 pm to
i give a girl one pass for a child. If she has more than one than i look down on her if she isn't married.

Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
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Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:09 pm to
You trying to tell us something Slope?

And as long as they provide for the kid then it's whatever.
Posted by UMTigerRebel
Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:11 pm to
It depends. My cousin doesn't look too classy since she has three kids by three different men, and two of the three resulted in marriage (she's just living with the third), but I still love her.
Posted by AllBamaDoesIsWin
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:14 pm to
Not exactly. If they get married after they find out the woman if pregnant, it's fine, but if they don't get married and just have the baby, they're doing it wrong.
Posted by CatFan81
Decatur, GA
Member since May 2009
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Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:16 pm to
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but if they don't get married and just have the baby, they're doing it wrong.


Why should people get married just because they have a child? That's a horrible reason to get married and more than likely will end in divorce.
Posted by Slippery Slope
Hail Satan
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Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:20 pm to
Allbamadoesiswin is an idiot douche.
Posted by UMTigerRebel
Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:20 pm to
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Why should people get married just because they have a child? That's a horrible reason to get married and more than likely will end in divorce.

Exactly. See my comment above.
Posted by heartbreakTiger
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Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:22 pm to
crap i agree with cat, no one should get married just because of having a kid.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:23 pm to
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Not exactly. If they get married after they find out the woman if pregnant, it's fine, but if they don't get married and just have the baby, they're doing it wrong.


So you'd rather a kid grow up in a loveless marriage just because his Momma got knocked up? That just screams successful two-parent family situation.
Posted by WestCoastAg
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Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:27 pm to
Someone forgot to pull out
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
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Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:33 pm to
Getting married because woman is with child is more times than not a disaster.
Posted by genro
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Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:37 pm to
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Why should people get married just because they have a child?
A two parent household is the best thing for a child. If two people have a baby, they should commit to each other for 18 years. Regardless of their personal feelings for each other. For the child's sake.
Posted by heartbreakTiger
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Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:43 pm to
until all the kid sees is fighting and thinks that is a normal relationship

if the couple was going to get married anyways before the kid then fine, but I don't think its best if their is no connection other than the child. Unless you have some couple that can act and play the family role but then have their fun behind everyones back but how often does that happen?
Posted by Kentucker
Cincinnati, KY
Member since Apr 2013
19351 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:45 pm to
I only look down on people who have a child without the ability to provide for it. 53% of children born in the U. S. begin life on welfare. It's an American tragedy.
Posted by genro
Member since Nov 2011
61788 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:45 pm to
Give the kid up for adoption

2 parent household ftw
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:47 pm to
No.
Posted by CatFan81
Decatur, GA
Member since May 2009
47188 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:47 pm to
Because there aren't already millions of unwanted children in the foster system already...
Posted by RTR America
Memphis, TN
Member since Aug 2012
39600 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:47 pm to
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I only look down on people who have a child without the ability to provide for it.


This. It is one of the biggest issues we have right now and no one seems to want to address it.
Posted by heartbreakTiger
grinding for my grinders
Member since Jan 2008
138974 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 12:49 pm to
assuming that the kid is white and healthy, it would be scooped up quickly
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