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Divorced guys and gals. What ended your marriage and who made the call?
Posted on 7/17/17 at 1:18 pm
Posted on 7/17/17 at 1:18 pm
I did something stupid and got married young. The marriage lasted 2 years and there were no children involved so the damage was minimal. She told me on my birthday that she didn't love me anymore and that she wanted a divorce. After talking about it I realized that it was my fault she felt that way so I agreed and paid for the judge and paperwork.
Like I said, I was young and I needed college money so I joined the army. I left home in January and didn't get out of training until June. That is almost 6 months the girl had to spend away from her husband. So obviously Jody was taking care of my wife while I was being a good soldier and the marriage didn't survive. I don't regret my military service or losing her because of it. My real mistake was taking a wife at 19 yrs old. I am curious to hear other stories.
Like I said, I was young and I needed college money so I joined the army. I left home in January and didn't get out of training until June. That is almost 6 months the girl had to spend away from her husband. So obviously Jody was taking care of my wife while I was being a good soldier and the marriage didn't survive. I don't regret my military service or losing her because of it. My real mistake was taking a wife at 19 yrs old. I am curious to hear other stories.
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Posted on 7/17/17 at 1:26 pm to Commander Data
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After talking about it I realized that it was my fault she felt that way so I agreed and paid for the judge and paperwork
Posted on 7/17/17 at 1:31 pm to BowlJackson
Hey, I actually realized that I put her in a bad situation and I had more of a conscience back in my younger years before I figured out that people in general suck and don't deserve my sympathy.
Posted on 7/17/17 at 1:41 pm to Commander Data
My job sent me overseas pretty regularly, but the money was good. I found out that my wife (now ex) had started sleeping around. We agreed to separate and divorce, and I, being the "nice guy" I am, agreed to help her get on her feet before the divorce was final. She took advantage of this situation and avoided getting a stable job, got heavy into drugs, and I eventually had to just walk away...with her saying she would take everything from me in court.
Needless to say, she didn't.
Needless to say, she didn't.
Posted on 7/17/17 at 2:05 pm to BowlJackson
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After talking about it I realized that it was my fault she felt that way so I agreed and paid for the judge and paperwork
Posted on 7/17/17 at 2:08 pm to KajunGator
quote:that skank
found out that my wife (now ex) had started sleeping around.
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Posted on 7/17/17 at 2:12 pm to 14&Counting
Of course that is funny. I should have expected a young woman with no money or assets to pay for the divorce. Or is it hilarious that I thought the situation was really my fault for leaving her alone for 6 months just 1 yr after we got married?
Posted on 7/17/17 at 2:18 pm to Commander Data
Relax man...just fricking with you.
Posted on 7/17/17 at 2:18 pm to Commander Data
I think it's funny she cheated on you and you blame yourself, and because of that blame you paid for the divorce that she initiated.
Posted on 7/17/17 at 2:23 pm to Commander Data
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Or is it hilarious that I thought the situation was really my fault for leaving her alone for 6 months just 1 yr after we got married?
Did she have no idea that was a possibility? Did you never discuss that being something you might do?
Posted on 7/17/17 at 3:38 pm to Commander Data
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leaving her alone for 6 months
She took a vow before you and God. If she can't go 6 months without screwing another guy, she is a piece of shite whose vows meant nothing in the first place.
Posted on 7/17/17 at 3:45 pm to Commander Data
My first wife had trouble getting along with my girlfriend.
Posted on 7/17/17 at 3:56 pm to SCLibertarian
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She took a vow before you and God. If she can't go 6 months without screwing another guy, she is a piece of shite whose vows meant nothing in the first place
I get it and that was my first thought. Then I understood the loneliness and thoughts of abandonment she felt. I also maybe felt sympathetic because of all the pussy I got after basic training was over. Being in the army was like wearing a pussy magnet. Women flock to the base knowing young men away from home and family get lonely too. Live and learn. There are always two sides to every story and I have always tried to be prudent enough to realize that.
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Posted on 7/17/17 at 5:19 pm to Commander Data
I've posted my story on here below.
I came home from work, found a note on the front door "I'm tired of living for everyone else, I want to live for me". Puzzled, I opened the door and walked into a house with no furniture.
This was before the days of cell phones, so I called her parents, and they just told me she would be in touch.
I found out the next day our bank account was empty.
Turns out she had been seeing an old boyfriend, and I had no idea. I had also put her through nursing school, worked overtime to pay for it.
But, I had made a commitment to her and God, and so I told her she would have to divorce me, that I wouldn't do it. It took 1.5 years, but she finally did, and I moved on.
I came home from work, found a note on the front door "I'm tired of living for everyone else, I want to live for me". Puzzled, I opened the door and walked into a house with no furniture.
This was before the days of cell phones, so I called her parents, and they just told me she would be in touch.
I found out the next day our bank account was empty.
Turns out she had been seeing an old boyfriend, and I had no idea. I had also put her through nursing school, worked overtime to pay for it.
But, I had made a commitment to her and God, and so I told her she would have to divorce me, that I wouldn't do it. It took 1.5 years, but she finally did, and I moved on.
Posted on 7/17/17 at 6:00 pm to kywildcatfanone
Damn brother. Some women have no souls.
Posted on 7/17/17 at 6:17 pm to kywildcatfanone
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I came home from work, found a note on the front door "I'm tired of living for everyone else, I want to live for me". Puzzled, I opened the door and walked into a house with no furniture. This was before the days of cell phones, so I called her parents, and they just told me she would be in touch. I found out the next day our bank account was empty. Turns out she had been seeing an old boyfriend, and I had no idea. I had also put her through nursing school, worked overtime to pay for it. But, I had made a commitment to her and God, and so I told her she would have to divorce me, that I wouldn't do it. It took 1.5 years, but she finally did, and I moved on.
Damn son.
Just want to say that with a story like that you have every right to be a bitter person but you don't come across that way at all. Props to you.
Posted on 7/17/17 at 7:38 pm to PrivatePublic
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Just want to say that with a story like that you have every right to be a bitter person but you don't come across that way at all. Props to you
Thanks, but I had my moments during the ordeal itself. I went from 168 lbs to 119 lbs in 2 months. I can't tell you how miserable it was.
But I trusted God to use this for my best good, and 2 years later I met a wonderful woman, and we have celebrated 19 years of marriage, and are growing old together. It worked out for me.
Posted on 7/17/17 at 7:50 pm to Commander Data
I got lucky and found out she was a cheating whore before I slipped the wedding ring on her finger. All I lost were three years that I could have gone out and gotten some strange.
I saw her recently and realized I dodged a bullet. Three kids and she's the size of a VW Beetle
I saw her recently and realized I dodged a bullet. Three kids and she's the size of a VW Beetle
Posted on 7/17/17 at 7:52 pm to Commander Data
I got lucky and found out she was a cheating whore before I slipped the wedding ring on her finger. All I lost were three years that I could have gone out and gotten some strange.
I saw her recently and realized I dodged a bullet. Three kids and she's the size of a VW Beetle
I saw her recently and realized I dodged a bullet. Three kids and she's the size of a VW Beetle
Posted on 7/17/17 at 8:56 pm to Devil_doge
Shaft??????
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