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re: I want to make an apology

Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:37 am to
Posted by LanierSpots
Sarasota, Florida
Member since Sep 2010
66635 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:37 am to
Like I posted over there, I'm not one to judge people for their mistakes. I have made plenty of my own through the years. We all have. I hope this works out for the best for all of you and hope you can resolve it somehow. Everything is forgivable at some point. You just have to wrap your head around it.

We all make bad decisions, yours was a bad decision. It is a bad decision that a lot of people make. Hopefully for you and your children and your spouse, you guys will work it out

Hang in there
Posted by CorchJay
Member since Nov 2018
19849 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:42 am to
Randy I will definitely pray for your family. I have seen this situation over and over. Some relationships can make it and some can’t.

I understand you wanted to be truthful with your wife but if you ended the affair unless you thought there was going to be fallout from the other person I may have held that a failure and secret because of all the people that could be hurt.

As far as trying to make it work with your wife since she knows is to take the blame, admit your failures, and not try to blame the other lady or your wife in any way. Let her come to her own conclusions about her friend.

If the worst happens and I pray it doesn’t you can still be a great father even divorced.

It’s none of our business but not sure why you would lose your job unless you are her manager or boss.

We are all flawed Randy. That’s why we need salvation from our sinful nature. Even fully whole living the best Christian lives possible sin each day. Keep your head up and if you are a believer that part will be fine. You’re gonna have a few tough months ahead of you so be patient and kind.

I hope the best for you my friend. I will pray that everything works out the best possible way.
Posted by jangalang
Member since Dec 2014
45396 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:01 am to
Take your lumps and move on.

Thats all we can do.
Posted by SupperClubDrunkBus
At Large
Member since Jun 2023
2046 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:29 am to
quote:

Take your lumps and move on….Thats all we can do.



Posted by FearlessFreep
Baja Alabama
Member since Nov 2009
18477 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 10:36 am to
Randy,

I don't know you from Adam, but the very fact that you've come on here and bared your soul to to me and the other misbegotten miscreants on this board makes me want to believe that you are a good man.

Hanging above this computer in my office is a saying my father always said that acts as a comfort in times of trouble as well as a caution in times of joy: "This Too Shall Pass".

I saw it everyday as I was suffering through a series of mistakes I made, as well as a sea of other sorrows with which I had no control. I see it everyday now that I've come through the darkness and feel blessed beyond measure.

My only advice to you is this: forgive yourself. It's the very first step to healing.

God bless.
Posted by 88TIger
Member since Nov 2012
2725 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 1:20 pm to
Like others have said, we all make mistakes for some reason or another and at the time justified it. Now it is time to move forward. You took a step in that direction and now will deal with the consequences. Just know that you can make it through the other side of this. Whether you stay together or go apart. You can still be the best Dad to the kids. Just have to keep your chin up and deal with the blows that are to come. Good Luck and prayers to you and your family for the best outcome.
Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
43796 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 2:08 pm to
Randy, I mean this with no disrespect. Most of us on here look at posting as entertainment. I have always thought you took stuff way to seriously and react emotionally. Nothing wrong with that. It's a personality trait. You need to log off of this site and seek a professional mental heath provider. Nothing wrong with that either. Some things are personal and shouldn't be put on a public forum.
Posted by jangalang
Member since Dec 2014
45396 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 2:42 pm to
quote:

and react emotionally.


You literally said Bo is “ ruining our diploma”


And you took guidance from one drive against Georgia State.


STFU
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
21270 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 2:53 pm to
I have prayed for you and your family. I will continue to do so. In 1John 1:9 we are told that if we confess our sins, God will forgive our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Forgiveness from your family may take time but counseling can help. The pastor of your church may be able to suggest a therapist who can help repair your marriage. Not sure why your job would be in jeopardy but you may be able to find a new one at a comparable salary. May God bless you and your family.
Posted by blzr
Saratoga
Member since Mar 2011
30513 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 3:10 pm to
Congrats on being a piece of dog shite Randy
Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
43796 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 3:11 pm to
Bo Nix sucks arse. That is fact. But that discussion is not really important when it comes to another posters family. Randy needs professional counseling
Posted by jangalang
Member since Dec 2014
45396 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 4:05 pm to
quote:

Bo Nix sucks arse

Your bottom of the barrel posts suck arse.

Randy will be fine without your stupid takes.
Posted by TheJones
Member since Nov 2009
34104 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 4:21 pm to
quote:

jangalang

quote:

Bo


Posted by BrockersFG
Member since Sep 2022
270 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 4:25 pm to
Who gives better head?
Posted by jangalang
Member since Dec 2014
45396 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 4:33 pm to
Bye Jones.



“Bo is ruining our diploma!” is lecturing on being emotional.


This is next level asshattery and you’re going to miss out.
Posted by BrockersFG
Member since Sep 2022
270 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 4:35 pm to
You’re autistic, right?
Posted by jangalang
Member since Dec 2014
45396 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 4:36 pm to
It’s all in the sig bro. Stop asking stupid questions.



Flashback to AUCE saying Holden/Finley/ and Ashford were ALL better than Bo.


And this dipshit wants to give advice on emotionally reacting


Newsflash: AUCE actually has autism. I bet you didn’t mean to step into that one.




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This post was edited on 7/3/23 at 5:03 pm
Posted by BrockersFG
Member since Sep 2022
270 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 5:08 pm to
quote:

It’s all in the sig bro. Stop asking stupid questions.



Just wanted some clarification before I called you the dumbest count on the rant

quote:

Flashback to AUCE saying Holden/Finley/ and Ashford were ALL better than Bo.


No one gives a shite

quote:

Newsflash: AUCE actually has autism. I bet you didn’t mean to step into that one.


Does he really?
Posted by SingleMalt1973
Member since Feb 2022
19434 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 5:15 pm to
The AU Board where we have a 3 page minimum before…….

Posted by jangalang
Member since Dec 2014
45396 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 5:23 pm to
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No one gives a shite

Well I obviously do. He is the one lecturing. That dude is literally retarded and worst than Randy by a metric fricking mile.

Randy is the type to say our OL sucks every other day.


AUCE is the type to sell his vehicles for gas money after jumping up and down on the side of the road just because he ran out of gas.
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