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re: Is it the unpopular opinion that Tunsil is a victim?

Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:19 pm to
Posted by CNB
Columbia, SC
Member since Sep 2007
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Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:19 pm to
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Conversely, underage girls who go have a drink should not presume they are about to get drugged by the first charming guy they meet.

Uh, shouldn't they?
Posted by DWag215
Houston, TX
Member since Aug 2011
7215 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:22 pm to
No, of course not.

That would be absurd. That doesn't mean they shouldn't be careful about who they associate with, but no - girls shouldn't treat every guy they meet at a bar as a potential rapist (and thus decline a drink). That's nowhere close to reality.
This post was edited on 5/1/16 at 12:23 pm
Posted by DawgsLife
Member since Jun 2013
58902 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:23 pm to
You know what? I think (Yes, seriously, sometimes!) that in my mind...by labeling Tunsil a victim I think you are taking responsibility off him. If you can admit that he is at fault while also being a victim, then I can go along with that.

Just like the case of the underage girl drinking. She is a victim....but she is also at fault, too.

Does this make sense, or no?
This post was edited on 5/1/16 at 12:30 pm
Posted by Piscinin
the hills
Member since Nov 2015
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Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:31 pm to
Oh my god he took a video on his phone that could have been seen by potential employers
Posted by wadewilson
Member since Sep 2009
36506 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:33 pm to
He filmed himself smoking weed. You do something that stupid, you deserve whatever you get.

He still went first round. This isn't a La'el Collins situation we're talking about.
Posted by CNB
Columbia, SC
Member since Sep 2007
95878 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:34 pm to
Of course he's at fault for smoking and recording. I just don't agree that because he smoked weed he somehow "deserved" or was "asking for" this. And that he's not a victim.

If this came out well before the draft, it wouldn't have nearly cost him as much and not nearly as big of a story. Instead it happened a few minutes before the biggest night of his life in an attack to disparage his character.
Posted by CNB
Columbia, SC
Member since Sep 2007
95878 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:34 pm to
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He filmed himself smoking weed. You do something that stupid, you deserve whatever you get.


Dumb logic

Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
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Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:35 pm to
Thank you Belle.

I don't see anything in the article about blackmail though. I see someone trying to earn money from the video to news outlets.

. If they asked LT for money not to release it it doesn't say.
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
70895 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:38 pm to
So making a mistake means you are automatically unable to be a victim? Do you understand how obtuse that comes across?

I'll ask this; would it change your tune if it comes to light that he was blackmailed? Then, legally, he is a victim and legally there was a crime committed. Does it take it being that cut and dry for you to get over yourself and your sanctimonious views?
Posted by BulldogNation
Alabama
Member since Nov 2014
401 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:41 pm to
LT was a victim of in my mind, BUT he still did an illegal activity and made a video of it. How dumb is that? And why did he not delete it? I mean shite, how long has it been on his phone or wherever it was?
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
70895 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:42 pm to
Yes that makes sense. Plenty of victims make mistakes. If Iwave my house unlocked and someone comes in and steals from me, I'm still a victim. I understand there has to be a crime committed by the hacker in this scenario, and we are still waiting to hear the details on that.
Posted by Spirit Of Aggieland
Houston
Member since Aug 2011
4607 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:43 pm to
Tunsil is a victim of blackmail, but he is also a victim of his own decisions.

So he has to own up to it, and try to move forward
Posted by CNB
Columbia, SC
Member since Sep 2007
95878 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:45 pm to
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And why did he not delete it? I mean shite, how long has it been on his phone or wherever it was?


How do you know it was on his phone? How do you know he didn't tell someone to delete it and was told it was deleted, only to find out it wasn't? He could have immediately regretted it the next day for all we know.

quote:

LT was a victim of in my mind, BUT he still did an illegal activity and made a video of it.


I agree with this overall point though. He's not innocent.
Posted by 2smooth
Member since Jan 2015
2777 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:49 pm to
I think you maybe missing the point some are making. I don't think they are saying he deserved it or asking for it sans a small number. However, it is the consequences of his choices. Sometimes those consequences are good and sometimes they are bad.

In Tunsils case it was costly. Without knowing all the facts this is a difficult one to determine. I have seen a lot of speculation on both sides of this debate in here. We all simply don't know all the facts to be absolute in our opinions.

Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
70895 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:49 pm to
Agree 100%
Posted by BulldogNation
Alabama
Member since Nov 2014
401 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:51 pm to
If it was another phone, I would have found that phone and deleted it. Still crazy that he made the video. I do want to know who the hacker was and the motive.
Posted by CNB
Columbia, SC
Member since Sep 2007
95878 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:52 pm to
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I don't think they are saying he deserved it or asking for it sans a small number.


The argument I'm making is directly aimed at the ones who specifically said that he did.

I'm not saying Tunsil is free from any wrong-doing. I'm not mad that teams skipped over him and he lost money because of it. The entire point of this thread is to remind people that Tunsil, while he made a mistake, is indeed a victim here. And people just can't seem to grasp that.
Posted by 2smooth
Member since Jan 2015
2777 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:53 pm to
I agree.

Do we know for sure he was blackmailed?
Posted by DWag215
Houston, TX
Member since Aug 2011
7215 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:55 pm to
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tune if it comes to light that he was blackmailed? Then, legally, he is a victim and legally there was a crime committed. Does it take it being that cut and dry for you to get over yourself and your sanctimonious views?

It would change my tune if you stopped trying to diminish his role in all of this. He has to be held accountable. This isn't "poor Leremy" time. It's "you were a complete and total moron" time.

Simply labeling it as a "mistake" doesn't relieve him of the consequences - whether harsh and unforeseeable or not.
Posted by DWag215
Houston, TX
Member since Aug 2011
7215 posts
Posted on 5/1/16 at 12:56 pm to
I'm not saying he deserved what he got.

I'm saying he's accountable for it.
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