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re: My fiancé just told me she needed a break.
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:36 am to asphinctersayswhat
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:36 am to asphinctersayswhat
I am guessing you sad "what" and she figured out you were a butt.
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 1:01 pm to asphinctersayswhat
Buy/rent house across the street from your ex then go find a woman who looks like her and frick on the front porch every night.
just move on if it's meant to be it'll happen
just move on if it's meant to be it'll happenPosted on 1/7/18 at 1:48 pm to Agforlife
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Buy/rent house across the street from your ex then go find a woman who looks like her and frick on the front porch every night.
You are trying too hard
Just bang her sister, then bang her mom. She winds up in therapy and you get away clean.
Posted on 1/7/18 at 3:56 pm to asphinctersayswhat
In my experience that means she’s fricking someone else.
Posted on 1/7/18 at 4:02 pm to plazadweller
I don't think it's fair to say if she's wanting to do that either way -- but in their 40's (I assume they both are) I legitimately, honestly think it's an indepedence thing. ''I want to do things my way'', that could involve going out and seeing other people, but I don't think it's automatic.
If she's younger than him, well, it's most likely her passive aggressive way of saying she doesn't want to be with him.
Breaks are almost always bad.
If she's younger than him, well, it's most likely her passive aggressive way of saying she doesn't want to be with him.
Breaks are almost always bad.
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By far the most idiotic concept ever created. Introduced to the masses by friends when Ross and Rachel went on a "Break." Since then, when girls are too stupid, bitchy or confused to just break up with someone, the decide to "take a break." The terms definitions can vary to allow each partner to see other people during this time, or they can set the rules so that neither of you can see others. The later enables them to suck what is left of your soul out before they break up with you and latch onto someone else. The literal translation of "I think we should go on a break" when translated to actual english is " I'm a bitch and I would like to waste some more of your time by half staying together."
Posted on 1/7/18 at 4:12 pm to asphinctersayswhat
Go out and find another one
Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:09 pm to asphinctersayswhat
She's either sick of you or found someone else, just let it go
Posted on 1/7/18 at 7:29 pm to RogerTheShrubber
She will want you back, they always do. If I were you I would just go frick something and have a good time doing it. I've been where you are at about the same age. Kids involved also. The hardest thing to do was not to take her back. It ended up being one of the best decisions I ever made. Good luck.
Posted on 1/7/18 at 7:52 pm to rich4pres
Find out if there's another guy... if there is not all hope is lost
Posted on 1/7/18 at 7:57 pm to asphinctersayswhat
Been there myself. I agree with the others that you need to go do your own thing. Don’t mope and be miserable, as hard as it is. Stay busy to occupy your time, and it will get easier. Could be a blessing in disguise.
Posted on 1/7/18 at 8:19 pm to asphinctersayswhat
There's another rooster. Hard to take, but I'd put money on it.
Posted on 1/7/18 at 8:35 pm to footswitch
“I need a break” means I’ve got another man. F’ her. Better to find out now rather than after you are married.
Posted on 1/7/18 at 8:42 pm to runningdog
I thought I'm fricking someone else was "we should start seeing other people"
Posted on 1/8/18 at 2:44 am to asphinctersayswhat
Sorry man, move on.
My dad told me when i was going through my divorce that aint no booty like new booty.... he was right
My dad told me when i was going through my divorce that aint no booty like new booty.... he was right
Posted on 1/8/18 at 4:50 am to asphinctersayswhat
My advice would be to be selfish. Work on yourself and build yourself into someone she will regret leaving. Do it for you though.
Posted on 1/8/18 at 4:57 am to asphinctersayswhat
I was married 17 years. There will be a day where those words will make you happy, brother.
Posted on 1/8/18 at 8:01 am to asphinctersayswhat
My guess is she is still in love with someone from a prior relationship. Maybe the child’s father? Either way it doesn’t sound like she loves you enough to marry you. Give her the break she is asking for and you will find out.
Posted on 1/8/18 at 10:19 am to asphinctersayswhat
Not knowing details, I would say this is her way of easing out of the relationship.
If she needs a break from being engaged then this is probably for the best. This is better to happen now before you were married.
If she needs a break from being engaged then this is probably for the best. This is better to happen now before you were married.
Posted on 1/8/18 at 10:34 am to asphinctersayswhat
I'll give a different perspective. I needed a small break when I was dating my wife. We had been dating over a year, and I was getting intense pressure to pop the question. Not from her really, but from our friends and family. I had to get a break and some fresh air, so to speak, to clear my head and make sure it was what I wanted to do, not what everyone else wanted me to do. I couldn't do that while still being in the relationship. I didn't put it as a break though, I just told her I needed a little space for a bit.
She gave me the space, though I could tell it broke her heart, and the "break" only lasted a few weeks. We've been happily married now for 15 years.
So give her the space, and take that time to enjoy your own time. She may come back, she may not. If she does, make sure it's for the right reasons. If not, it's better it happened before you married her.
She gave me the space, though I could tell it broke her heart, and the "break" only lasted a few weeks. We've been happily married now for 15 years.
So give her the space, and take that time to enjoy your own time. She may come back, she may not. If she does, make sure it's for the right reasons. If not, it's better it happened before you married her.
Posted on 1/8/18 at 12:40 pm to The Spleen
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I'll give a different perspective. I needed a small break when I was dating my wife.
We had the same experience, not with the proposal for marriage but I seriously just needed to take a step back. She was smothering me so much that it was starting to become very negative for our relationship in general.
However, I think there is a small difference in that:
We're men, and we're accustomed to telling people exactly what the frick's going on. We both returned with our respective SO's but we also knew exactly what we wanted and what we needed to make sure we were pulling the trigger for the right thing.
I think women in general, when they want breaks, are just trying to 'lightly' pull out of the relationship and they give the guy hope so they don't just outright crush 'em -- without knowing that this is probably worse than outright telling them ''hey let's see other people'' as 2008 said.
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