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re: Let's Talk about Fall Weddings

Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:27 pm to
Posted by Pavoloco83
Acworth Ga. too many damn dawgs
Member since Nov 2013
15347 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:27 pm to
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I'm tailgating and getting black out drunk.


Yeah, but you corndogs will do that for Southern Mississippi. or just because its tuesday.
Posted by WG_Dawg
Member since Jun 2004
88665 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:29 pm to
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. I tell my wife all the time, I dont care who it is. I wont go if it interferes with Auburn football. frick em. They know the schedule. Plan accordingly.




I have long thought this (and stuck by it, missed many weddings of friends/family because I'd rather be at football games, no regrets) but my reckoning is coming. My wife has a sister that is currently ring shopping with her bf and they are almost surely going to get engaged soon. That is one wedding that I truly don't have a choice in and will actually be forced to go. I mean not physically bound and dragged obviously, but I shudder to think of the lifetime of repercussions if I were to skip it.

HOWEVER, I believe that the gods of football fate are smiling down upon me, because at the moment their tentative date they have in mind is 10/19/19....and we just happen to have a bye that weekend.

I did tell my wife though that if they picked the weekend of the ND game I would have some serious soul searching to do, considering it's literally never happened before and it actually a once in a lifetime deal. But forutnatley that doesn't look like it's the plan.
Posted by UnderDog68
Thomasville, Ga.
Member since Sep 2017
2645 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:29 pm to
I got married Nov. 3rd, 1990. UGA was turrible that year. Finished 4-7, IIRC. So needless to say, I didn't much give a frick about football that year, and I was also too hung over to worry about it.

Some notable SEC scores on my wedding day...

Alabama, 22....Miss. State, 0
Florida, 48....Auburn, 7
Tennessee, 41...Temple, 20

And surprisingly, that's all that was on the slate for that week in the SEC.

Posted by Vecchio Cane
Ivory Tower
Member since Jul 2016
17977 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:32 pm to
Yep, we aren't any kind of big deal to the loving couple

I got married on a FB Saturday and remember telling everyone that it really was just fine with us if they didn't attend.

Not to get all Sigmund Freud but a lot of these posters actually have issue with others having authority in their lives, not weddings
This post was edited on 6/15/18 at 12:35 pm
Posted by I Bleed Garnet
Cullman, AL
Member since Jul 2011
54846 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:38 pm to
IDK what it is... But I really like weddings.

More than tailgates.
Is that bad?
Posted by Vecchio Cane
Ivory Tower
Member since Jul 2016
17977 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:43 pm to
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IDK what it is... But I really like weddings. More than tailgates. Is that bad?


You're a fancy man. It's what I like most about you
Posted by LSUdude247
Member since Oct 2014
7496 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:45 pm to
The girlfriends sister planned her wedding on the 20th of October, and LSU has to play Mississippi State that day. Girlfriend said "just record it"....
Posted by DownSouthJukin
1x tRant Poster of the Millennium
Member since Jan 2014
29911 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:47 pm to
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Not to get all Sigmund Freud but a lot of these posters actually have issue with others having authority in their lives, not weddings




We made it easy on everyone and picked a date when Ole Miss was out of town (and we sucked anyway, so no one was going), State was off and USM was way, way out of town (their fans don't even travel to Hattiesburg).
Posted by Vecchio Cane
Ivory Tower
Member since Jul 2016
17977 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:52 pm to
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We made it easy on everyone and picked a date when Ole Miss was out of town (and we sucked anyway, so no one was going), State was off and USM was way


I married into a big Rebel family. The schedule was definitely discussed. The now Mrs. Cane told them all to stay away if they didn't want to come, both reb and dog
Posted by EKG
Houston, TX
Member since Jun 2010
44996 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:55 pm to
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IDK what it is... But I really like weddings.

More than tailgates.
Is that bad?

Hey, to each his/her own; whatever flies your flag.

I am not a fan of traditional weddings and cringe whenever I receive an invite ... or worse, when I open my mail to find the now trendy, passive aggressive, “Save the Date” (as if an invitation isn’t enough?).

That said, it’s the couple’s gig, and they can do what they please.
I politely decline (a quick response is key), send my congratulations/a gift, and don’t give it a second thought.
Posted by Vecchio Cane
Ivory Tower
Member since Jul 2016
17977 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 1:04 pm to
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I politely decline (a quick response is key), send my congratulations/a gift, and don’t give it a second thought


Exactly the correct response, imo.

If people were totally honest they would decline about 1/2 of the gifts. The stuff is just going to sit around unused, or get re-gifted. I would have happily given up gifts in exchange for fewer Thank You cards to write
Posted by Vecchio Cane
Ivory Tower
Member since Jul 2016
17977 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 1:11 pm to
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BillyJoeOzarks


Nothing else needs to be said



Posted by Jebadeb
Member since Oct 2017
5330 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 2:25 pm to
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Yeah, but you corndogs will do that for Southern Mississippi. or just because its tuesday.


Good point.

Also, don't get me wrong. I have a blast at most weddings, but I just rather they be scheduled so they don't conflict with other fun stuff.
Posted by Pavoloco83
Acworth Ga. too many damn dawgs
Member since Nov 2013
15347 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 9:36 pm to
Listen, my son got married on January 1st. It was between law school semesters, so he had a good reason. But, I told him flat out...if Auburn is in a New Years day bowl, I will NOT be there. Luckily for him and me, we would up playing like January 4th that year. However, I meant it. Might have cost me a divorce, but that is another story.
Posted by bingo
indy-freakin'-anna
Member since Sep 2008
4209 posts
Posted on 6/17/18 at 6:36 pm to
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My wedding was the night LSU played Alabama last year. Wasn’t my choice but oh well. Went to Tennessee on the honeymoon to watch LSU and UT


i always swore that i would not pay for a wedding on a football game weekend in the fall. but my daughter got married the same weekend as you last year. fall in the midwest is drop dead gorgeous. they were married on the campus where she went to law school and it all worked out.

i had a room off the the main reception rooms set up with t.v's showing all of the major games. everyone seemed to be happy with an all night open bar, nice dinner, late night drunk food, fun band plus football.

that said, i really hope my youngest, when the time comes, chooses to married during basketball season
Posted by OKTGR580
Baton Rouge to Houston, TX
Member since Apr 2018
6318 posts
Posted on 6/17/18 at 7:59 pm to
You think you got it bad. I have to go to a damn wedding the day of the Georgia LSU game. I’m a season ticket holder and we only get so many big SEC matchups at home. I’m pissed the hell off to say the least. If I can’t sell these tickets then we’re missing the wedding. Sorry bro
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