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re: Posters making Bonfire jokes
Posted on 8/4/13 at 11:25 pm to Loathor
Posted on 8/4/13 at 11:25 pm to Loathor
I seriously doubt anyone living in Charleston 150 years ago is posting here. Posters lived through the things Hugo listed- many posters have. I think a 9/11 joke might fly (I still wouldn't do it) because that was far away. But people here lost friends, family, and property in Katrina and 4/27, I think we have to be extra sensitive to events that happened involving members of this community.
Posted on 8/4/13 at 11:27 pm to Garfield
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This is good advice. You have likely missed at least one job promotion because you didn't get a Big Lebowski joke.
I think it's the fact that it's bandied about as this great paragon of hipness that turned me off. I really like Cohen Bros movies, too. Miller's Crossing is one of my all time favorites. This was my line in the sand, I guess. It'll probably happen someday, and I'll regret the time I lost in not having seen it before...
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One of the largest cfb related tragedies ever. Not something to really make fun of IMHO (and I love to make fun of my A&M brothers).
I get that tasteless jokes aren't everyone's cup of tea, but, IMO, if you can't laugh in the face of tragedy you'll spend all your time crying. But that's just me, I guess.
Posted on 8/4/13 at 11:33 pm to Loathor
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if you can't laugh in the face of tragedy you'll spend all your time crying
Let me give you a little glimpse of why this is not a subject we will EVER laugh about:
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I have just learned about Timothy Doran Kerlee, Jr. He was the twelfth student to die, when his life support was disconnected last Friday evening. Let me tell you about this amazing kid.
Tim graduated last year from Germantown High School in Germantown,Tennessee. He was an Eagle Scout, graduated third in his class, and was elected to his High School Hall of Fame. He was a student athlete, and a member of the National Honor Society. He was active in the youth group and drama club at his Methodist Church.
He was actively recruited by Texas A&M, and when he enrolled he tested out of his entire freshman year. That is how this 17 year-old could be classified as a sophomore. Tim's father said that he was thrilled to be at A&M, and especially excited about bonfire.
When the stack collapsed, his pelvis was crushed, his arm was broken, and his (organs badly damaged.)
On the front page of Friday's Dallas Morning News is a large photo of the collapsed stack taken during the early part of the rescue effort. You can see a team working at the base of the logs to save a trapped student. About five feet above the rescue team is Tim Kerlee, reclining on a pile of logs, propped up on one elbow. Unless you look carefully at the photo you will probably not notice that his legs are laying in an odd position. <P>What was happening,according to the rescue teams, was that Kerlee was directing the teams to other students trapped in the stack. He kept telling them that he was O.K., and he directed rescuers to at least five other students before he allowed them to take him down from the stack.
He was taken into emergency surgery, and when they opened him up they found his organs so badly damaged that they couldn't identify much of what they saw. They closed him up, wrapped him in a sheet to hold him together, and placed on life support. He lived long enough to see and speak to his parents. He was aware that he was dying and asked to be removed from life support. When his parents asked him why he wanted to, he asked them why he should fight for a few more days of life when he could be in Heaven with Jesus right now. Well, he got his wish.
I feel sorry that I never had a chance to know Tim Kerlee, but I praise God for kids like Tim Kerlee. If you had to pick a twelfth man you couldn't do much better.
Posted on 8/4/13 at 11:34 pm to Bama Bird
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I seriously doubt anyone living in Charleston 150 years ago is posting here.
I'm almost willing to bet that Scrooster was there...
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Posters lived through the things Hugo listed- many posters have. I think a 9/11 joke might fly (I still wouldn't do it) because that was far away. But people here lost friends, family, and property in Katrina and 4/27, I think we have to be extra sensitive to events that happened involving members of this community.
Tragedy is tragedy is tragedy. Distance shouldn't matter. If it's ok to be insensitive to someones loss because it happened thousands of miles away or years and years ago, then it should be ok if it happened to your neighbor yesterday.
Posted on 8/4/13 at 11:35 pm to InVolNerable
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Unlike streams, which should never be crossed.
Posted on 8/4/13 at 11:35 pm to WhiskerBiscuitSlayer
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#JusticeForJohnny
now thats something i can laugh about


Posted on 8/4/13 at 11:37 pm to Loathor
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Tragedy is tragedy is tragedy. Distance shouldn't matter. If it's ok to be insensitive to someones loss because it happened thousands of miles away or years and years ago, then it should be ok if it happened to your neighbor yesterday.
You aren't getting what I'm saying. I'm not saying we shouldn't joke about those things because posters live near where they happened- we shouldn't joke about those things because posters actually had those things happen to them. I mean, really. I've made my fair share of terrible jokes, but there is a definitive line. I thought it was fairly obvious where that line was- and I bet most people agree with me on that
Posted on 8/4/13 at 11:40 pm to WhiskerBiscuitSlayer
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Let me give you a little glimpse of why this is not a subject we will EVER laugh about:
Read that... then looked at your avatar... Seriously? Your tragedy is great to you, but someone else's tragedy is fodder for your message board identity? Please preach on, you bastion of all that is good and right with the world...
Posted on 8/4/13 at 11:43 pm to Bama Bird
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You aren't getting what I'm saying. I'm not saying we shouldn't joke about those things because posters live near where they happened- we shouldn't joke about those things because posters actually had those things happen to them.
Agreed.
Also, some things should just be off-limits.
Posted on 8/4/13 at 11:48 pm to Bama Bird
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You aren't getting what I'm saying. I'm not saying we shouldn't joke about those things because posters live near where they happened- we shouldn't joke about those things because posters actually had those things happen to them. I mean, really. I've made my fair share of terrible jokes, but there is a definitive line. I thought it was fairly obvious where that line was- and I bet most people agree with me on that
All I'm saying is that tragedy is relative. Something is not more offensive because it happens here, rather than way over there. If there is a line then someone is drawing it, correct?
Posted on 8/4/13 at 11:49 pm to Loathor
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I'm almost willing to bet that Scrooster was there...
I love me some scrooster but this made me

Posted on 8/4/13 at 11:56 pm to Garfield
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Also, some things should just be off-limits.
But why "some things" and not other things? To say that tragedies that occur locally are more important because they happen to people who may be posting here, but tragedies that occur somewhere else are fair game because they didn't "actually happen" to someone is the really pretty silly.
Posted on 8/4/13 at 11:57 pm to Loathor
YOU CAN'T JOKE ABOUT THE frickING BONFIRE. THAT'S ALL. GFY GTFO
ETA: made it bold because frick you, that's why
ETA: made it bold because frick you, that's why
This post was edited on 8/4/13 at 11:58 pm
Posted on 8/5/13 at 12:00 am to sorantable
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YOU CAN'T JOKE ABOUT THE frickING BONFIRE. THAT'S ALL. GFY GTFO
ETA: made it bold because frick you, that's why
I didn't, I wouldn't... probably. I just don't like preferential censorship.
Posted on 8/5/13 at 12:03 am to Loathor
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I just don't like preferential censorship.
Posted on 8/5/13 at 12:12 am to sorantable
In this thread, I'm crying? Makes sense...
I just don't like arbitrary, bullshite rules. Either all tragedy is too tragic to be made fun of (which would suck, and be boring IMO), or no tragedy is too tragic to be made fun of (preferred, but probably unrealistic...).
Honestly, I was just looking for an explanation, not a discussion on the morals of SECrant. But there didn't seem to be anything about this on the Guidelines/FAQ. Are these rules written somewhere, or do we just stumble upon them by accident?
I just don't like arbitrary, bullshite rules. Either all tragedy is too tragic to be made fun of (which would suck, and be boring IMO), or no tragedy is too tragic to be made fun of (preferred, but probably unrealistic...).
Honestly, I was just looking for an explanation, not a discussion on the morals of SECrant. But there didn't seem to be anything about this on the Guidelines/FAQ. Are these rules written somewhere, or do we just stumble upon them by accident?
Posted on 8/5/13 at 12:14 am to Loathor
They're written in your soul, man. Unless you're a ginger.
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