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Posted on 4/28/13 at 11:05 am to Magic965
Honestly about six months ago I broke up with the girl I thought I was going to marry
We had been together two and a half years
I probably went about it the wrong way but it worked:
First I called her the c-word
Then I went out and fricked a girl
Drank a ton of scotch
Was over it surprisingly quickly
Realized us breaking up was one of the best things ever bc I had so much freedom...this was now long distance and she was really jealous and once I could go out without blowing up my phone it was amazing
Makes me never even want a girlfriend again looking back at it...bachelor for life
We had been together two and a half years
I probably went about it the wrong way but it worked:
First I called her the c-word
Then I went out and fricked a girl
Drank a ton of scotch
Was over it surprisingly quickly
Realized us breaking up was one of the best things ever bc I had so much freedom...this was now long distance and she was really jealous and once I could go out without blowing up my phone it was amazing
Makes me never even want a girlfriend again looking back at it...bachelor for life
Posted on 4/28/13 at 11:05 am to BluegrassBelle
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Then you should feel relieved that you found out early that she wasn't the one.
This 100%. I got heartbroken after being with her from 2 years. It sucked for a while but you will move on.
Posted on 4/28/13 at 11:18 am to mwlewis
I was with my ex for 5 years before we got to the point that it was clear our lives weren't moving forward in the same direction. And even doing the breaking up, it wasn't easy. I don't regret anything but I wish I had known sooner.
Posted on 4/28/13 at 11:20 am to BluegrassBelle
I dated this girl for about 7 months. She ended up breaking up with me bc she didn't want a relationship anymore. I was pretty wrecked about it for a month or two.
Now a year+ later I'm so happy she did. She's gained 70lbs and flunked out of school. Doesn't have to worry about being in a relationship anymore
Now a year+ later I'm so happy she did. She's gained 70lbs and flunked out of school. Doesn't have to worry about being in a relationship anymore

Posted on 4/28/13 at 11:21 am to BluegrassBelle
I met a girl 2 nights ago and Ive spent the past 2 nights with her and not even going to lie, Im crazy about this girl. It sucks because we are both graduating next weekend 

Posted on 4/28/13 at 11:29 am to mwlewis
Where is she from? Long distance is hard but it's worth it if you can make it work.
Is this the first girl you've really taken to since the ex? May want to tread carefully there too.
Is this the first girl you've really taken to since the ex? May want to tread carefully there too.
Posted on 4/28/13 at 11:31 am to BluegrassBelle
Yeah the first girl Ive actually liked and I am treading carefully.
Posted on 4/28/13 at 11:32 am to Patton
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I met a girl 2 nights ago and Ive spent the past 2 nights with her and not even going to lie, Im crazy about this girl. It sucks because we are both graduating next weekend
My husband and I knew we would be getting married within a week of dating each other. 4 months later we were engaged. 10 years and 2 girls later, we are still going strong.
Posted on 4/28/13 at 11:33 am to UMTigerRebel
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My husband and I knew we would be getting married within a week of dating each other. 4 months later we were engaged. 10 years and 2 girls later, we are still going strong.
That is awesome!

Posted on 4/28/13 at 11:35 am to UMTigerRebel
That's great and so rare. 

Posted on 4/28/13 at 11:40 am to BluegrassBelle
Thanks. I realize how fortunate I was in finding "The One." 

This post was edited on 4/28/13 at 12:26 pm
Posted on 4/28/13 at 11:59 am to mwlewis
well you could knock her up the first time you sleep with her just to make sure she doesn't move
Posted on 4/28/13 at 12:13 pm to Magic965
Drink and smoke lots of pot
Posted on 4/28/13 at 12:14 pm to GTHTSUN
If you love something, let it go. If it comes back, it's yours forever. If it doesn't, hunt it down and kill it.
Posted on 4/28/13 at 12:20 pm to Kentucker
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If you love something, let it go. If it comes back, it's yours forever. If it doesn't, stalk it and it will come around. Girls love that sorta shite.
fify
(mine is so much more romantic)
Posted on 4/28/13 at 12:24 pm to Magic965
Going through the same thing right now. Not gonna lie. I'm struggling. It's hard because I've always been such a positive upbeat guy. Never been one to stay down or get upset. This has hit me hard.
She was my best friend. More so than any guy or anybody has been for me. She knew more about me and I knew more about her than anyone. It sucks because the only person I feel like I could talk to and feel better is her. Not girlfriend her. But best friend her.
It'll work out though. Just gotta stay busy. And keep your head on other things.
She was my best friend. More so than any guy or anybody has been for me. She knew more about me and I knew more about her than anyone. It sucks because the only person I feel like I could talk to and feel better is her. Not girlfriend her. But best friend her.
It'll work out though. Just gotta stay busy. And keep your head on other things.
Posted on 4/28/13 at 12:33 pm to Kentucker
I was about to call you a fairy, than I read the last part and let out a hardy chuckle
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