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Posted on 5/4/18 at 7:40 pm to
Posted by Vols&Shaft83
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Posted on 5/4/18 at 7:40 pm to
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Find out what he had that you did not. Probably not healthy to try and get back together but at least you can learn what you may need to work on in your mating game.


What kind of beta arse answer is this?
Posted by JCinBAMA
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Posted on 5/4/18 at 10:23 pm to
frick one of her good friends... they always come sniffing around it just the way women are wire.
This post was edited on 5/4/18 at 10:27 pm
Posted by Cheese Grits
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 6:33 am to
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it was either let her keep him or give him away.


You give him away to one of your friends

Still does not explain why you let her have your lawnmower.

I would meet you at the Sonic but at this point you would get all sad if you broke a nail or your hair got messed up.

Posted by Cheese Grits
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 6:45 am to
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What kind of beta arse answer is this?


Clearly you are not an alpha. It is actually a subtle strategy to stick the knife in by making besties with the new guy while excluding her. Women are like cats and crave attention and sticking their nose in when they can. You can be having drinks and talking sports with the new guy but she will think you are talking behind her back about her. If you do not think that will eat at her over time you do not know certain types of women very well. There are obvious ways to salt the earth and there are subtle ways to do so.

OP stated the dude was fat so he "lost" to lesser competition. When such a thing happens you clearly have a hole in your game and need an outside view to fix it. Failing the first time from inexperience is one thing, repeating the same mistake is another. I will cut a guy slack the first time but when they let it keep happening I blame them for their failure.
Posted by Vols&Shaft83
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 9:01 am to
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You give him away to one of your friends



Nobody would take him, he's 120LB beast. Not like trying to give away a toy poodle or jack Russell, which I'm sure you own.

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Still does not explain why you let her have your lawnmower.


Didn't have a yard or a garage, but I could have sold it. That was a mistake.

Posted by Cheese Grits
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 10:00 am to
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Not like trying to give away a toy poodle or jack Russell, which I'm sure you own.


That is what you get for thinking

My current dog is a hound rescue, before that it was a rot / dane mix rescue. I have seen pony's smaller than my last dog.

You don't have a single friend who would store a lawnmower? No wonder CatFan had bigger balls.

Posted by TimeOutdoors
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Member since Sep 2014
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 11:14 am to
You really have to work on controlling your thoughts. Just like repetition improves muscle memory having the same thoughts over and over creates mental memory. The longer it goes on the harder it is to modify. Those who control your thoughts control you.

I’m by no ways qualified to advise you on how to go about this but I’ll mention what worked for me. Create a daily routine that’s the same each weekday and stick to it. Surround yourself with good quality friends. Stay away from alcohol for a while. Stay active and just make sure that you stick to your routine even on days you struggle being motivated.

Good luck to you.
Posted by Bham Bammer
Member since Nov 2014
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 3:26 pm to
Bang her sister.
Posted by hawgfaninc
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 11:28 pm to
work on making yourself better so you can find better than her
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
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Posted on 5/6/18 at 2:33 am to
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Well considering I wasn't in a position to buy a house at the time, and nobody will let you bring a full grown Rottweiler into a rental, it was either let her keep him or give him away.



I had to do this with my cat, my new roommate was really allergic and I had no choice.

Little guy meowed in the window as I waited for my ride to come pick me up in the rain.

Thank God that relationship was good and done wayyyyy before we broke up or it'd've been way more depressing than it sounds.
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