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re: Serious question..if your S/O did this what would your response be?
Posted on 9/27/16 at 10:40 am to GnashRebel
Posted on 9/27/16 at 10:40 am to GnashRebel
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find it odd that he would tell you about it if he was up to no good though.
I believe, in my heart of hearts, that he was desperate to get that $ back and since he bought the 'close friend' line, thought she would listen to me not only bc of that, but bc he knew I would beat this bitch's arse like she has never been beaten before.
He KNOWS all of my friends, y'all. Isn't it odd that he actually believed (I think he is using that as a flimsy excuse) she was a 'close friend' yet he has NEVER ONCE heard me mention this chick in any way, shape, form or fashion.
Also, the excuse she gave for needing the money was something to do with taking a test and a train trip to a work seminar. This girl is supposed to be a hospice nurse.
News flash...I am an ER/Trauma nurse. You NEVER take the NCLEX again unless your license has been revoked or it has been over either 5 or 6 yrs since you last practiced as a nurse. So that was bullshite. And if it was a work related seminar, why the frick take a train? And every Hospice Agency that I have ever dealt with in 15 yrs of being a nurse covers the cost of transportation to and from work related events such as a seminar. Another line of bullshite.
This post was edited on 9/27/16 at 10:46 am
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Posted on 9/27/16 at 10:41 am to Carolina_Girl
Well I think you know what you need to do. Case closed.
Posted on 9/27/16 at 10:47 am to Carolina_Girl
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And every Hospice Agency that I have ever dealt with in 15 yrs of being a nurse covers the cost of transportation to and from work related events such as a seminar. Another line of bullshite.
I've never known of any employer in any industry that didn't. It's not even a good lie.
Posted on 9/27/16 at 10:52 am to Carolina_Girl
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Isn't it odd that he actually believed (I think he is using that as a flimsy excuse) she was a 'close friend' yet he has NEVER ONCE heard me mention this chick in any way, shape, form or fashion.
Yep. Strangest part of the whole situation. Some girl online comes at me saying she's a close friend of my wife and needs money, I'm going straight to my wife to let her know. That he didn't is a huge red flag, which I think you see.
Posted on 9/27/16 at 9:26 pm to Carolina_Girl
quote:Eh, I've been with my S/O for 9 years now, and I'm still not very familiar with her very close friends from her hometown (grade school/high school types...the pre-Nino years). So it isn't incredibly far fetched in my mind for him to think someone might be closer to you than they actually are. But it does call into question his gullibility and intelligence
He KNOWS all of my friends, y'all. Isn't it odd that he actually believed (I think he is using that as a flimsy excuse) she was a 'close friend' yet he has NEVER ONCE heard me mention this chick in any way, shape, form or fashion.
quote:Has he wire transferred money to a Nigerian princess recently?
Also, the excuse she gave for needing the money was something to do with taking a test and a train trip to a work seminar. This girl is supposed to be a hospice nurse.
quote:It's pretty obvious we're dealing with a dude that's slow on the uptake...so I can't fault him for not knowing all this, or researching it.
News flash...I am an ER/Trauma nurse. You NEVER take the NCLEX again unless your license has been revoked or it has been over either 5 or 6 yrs since you last practiced as a nurse. So that was bullshite. And if it was a work related seminar, why the frick take a train? And every Hospice Agency that I have ever dealt with in 15 yrs of being a nurse covers the cost of transportation to and from work related events such as a seminar. Another line of bullshite.
quote:$126 is so important to him that he brought this world of shite on himself? That's concerning no matter how you look at it
I believe, in my heart of hearts, that he was desperate to get that $ back and since he bought the 'close friend' line, thought she would listen to me not only bc of that, but bc he knew I would beat this bitch's arse like she has never been beaten before.
So you're either dealing with a gullible dumbass, or a dude thats created an elaborate story to cover his arse for something he didn't need to be doing. I'm siding with the former. That said, you can do much better. He's given you a great way to get out of this relationship. From what little I know, seems like it's time to cut your losses
Good luck
Posted on 9/28/16 at 9:02 am to Carolina_Girl
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I believe, in my heart of hearts, that he was desperate to get that $ back and since he bought the 'close friend' line,
So, he did think she was your friend?
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He KNOWS all of my friends, y'all. Isn't it odd that he actually believed (I think he is using that as a flimsy excuse) she was a 'close friend' yet he has NEVER ONCE heard me mention this chick in any way, shape, form or fashion.
So, he knew she wasn't your friend?
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the excuse she gave for needing the money was something to do with taking a test and a train trip to a work seminar. This girl is supposed to be a hospice nurse.
News flash...I am an ER/Trauma nurse. You NEVER take the NCLEX again unless your license has been revoked or it has been over either 5 or 6 yrs since you last practiced as a nurse. So that was bullshite. And if it was a work related seminar, why the frick take a train? And every Hospice Agency that I have ever dealt with in 15 yrs of being a nurse covers the cost of transportation to and from work related events such as a seminar. Another line of bullshite.
So, he fell for her bullshite? Or did he know she was lying? Or did she not tell him any of that and he is just lying to you? I'm confused about what you're trying to say. First you think he believed she was your friend and then you say, essentially, that he couldn't possibly believe she was your friend. Then you say that she gave him a bullshite reason for needing the money, but you don't indicate whether you think he believed her.
Also, although you have been involved for 7 months, it seems unlikely that he knows ALL of your friends. There are bound to be people you consider friends but haven't seen or talked to in 7 months, or at least not while he happened to be present. I would be surprised if a couple actually knew all of each other's friends after just 7 months.
Posted on 9/28/16 at 9:18 am to Carolina_Girl
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I believe, in my heart of hearts, that he was desperate to get that $ back and since he bought the 'close friend' line, thought she would listen to me not only bc of that, but bc he knew I would beat this bitch's arse like she has never been beaten before.
He KNOWS all of my friends, y'all. Isn't it odd that he actually believed (I think he is using that as a flimsy excuse) she was a 'close friend' yet he has NEVER ONCE heard me mention this chick in any way, shape, form or fashion.
Of course, I don't know either of you, so you know the situation much better than anyone here. The facts as you've related them are not enough to draw any firm conclusion. The one fact that you have clearly indicated that seems at odds with the theory that he is cheating is the fact that he told you about it and asked you to help him get the money back.
It seems to me that, if he were cheating on you, especially with someone you barely knew, the last thing he would want to do is anything that would put you on the scent. Your theory that he did it because he was desperate to get the money back is, of course, something only you can decide, but it would be surprising if $126 was enough to make anybody that desperate.
In any event, good luck to you and I hope it works out best for you, however that turns out to be.
Posted on 10/31/16 at 4:07 pm to Carolina_Girl
Dude was freakin out over 126 bucks? Seriously?
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