re: What does it feel like to be ugly?

I'm fat and ugly, but I'm married, so at least my wife finds me attractive.

I am really smart, and surprisingly athletic so that counts for something. As far as how it's affected my life, I'd say that it's prevented me from being an arrogant prick, ever having to worry about an STD, and generally being liked by everyone that's ever met me. Hope this helps your academic pursuits in the field of psychology