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It's Facebook or it's me
Posted on 6/9/15 at 10:59 am
Posted on 6/9/15 at 10:59 am
Has anyone ever had this conversation with an SO? If so, how'd it go?
I hate having my pic plastered on the interwebz. I hate people walking up to me and saying, "Oh! I saw you and so-and-so were doing this-and-that,etc.!" My personal life is my personal life, and only those allowed in should be able to be a part of it.
Is this anti-social behavior, or is this normal?
I hate having my pic plastered on the interwebz. I hate people walking up to me and saying, "Oh! I saw you and so-and-so were doing this-and-that,etc.!" My personal life is my personal life, and only those allowed in should be able to be a part of it.
Is this anti-social behavior, or is this normal?
This post was edited on 6/9/15 at 11:31 am
Posted on 6/9/15 at 11:05 am to DownSouthJukin
By today's standard it is antisocial behavior, but today's standard is not natural. I agree with you.
Posted on 6/9/15 at 11:19 am to DownSouthJukin
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Has anyone ever had this conversation with an SO? If so, how'd it go?
I hate having my pic plastered on the interwebz. I hate people walking up to me and saying, "Oh! I saw you and so-and-so were doing this-and-that,etc.!" My personal life is my personal life, and only those allowed in should be able to be a part of it. Is this anti-social behavior, or is this normal?
Yes I have had this conversation but only about a few things that I considered personal. "Checking us in" at some random event is not something I get worked up over. I usually tell her beforehand not to blast something all over facebook. Hasn't been a big deal.
Posted on 6/9/15 at 12:21 pm to DownSouthJukin
I deleted my Facebook. Every time I logged on my IQ dropped. There was one particular post that made delete it right then and there.
"F*** school. MONEY > JOB > SCHOOL"
I kid you not...
"F*** school. MONEY > JOB > SCHOOL"
I kid you not...
Posted on 6/9/15 at 12:26 pm to DownSouthJukin
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Has anyone ever had this conversation with an SO
no, but I've had the "It's not you, it's me" convo.
it's not a lie if you truly believe it
Posted on 6/9/15 at 12:26 pm to DownSouthJukin
Facebook is terrible.
I deleted my account two years ago and I haven't missed it at all.
I deleted my account two years ago and I haven't missed it at all.
Posted on 6/9/15 at 12:34 pm to DownSouthJukin
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It's Facebook or it's me
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Has anyone ever had this conversation with an SO?
Are you insinuating that you've had a conversation where you force your gf to choose who should woudl rather keep, you or facebook?
No, I can honestly say I have never had that convo.
Posted on 6/9/15 at 12:51 pm to DownSouthJukin
Women are in constant competition with each other and when they want to proudly display they are with me so all the bitches get jealous, who cares?
Posted on 6/9/15 at 1:10 pm to DownSouthJukin
I don't have a FB, but I don't mind if she puts up pics of us. She has family and friends that live far away so it doesn't seem too contrived.
I do agree that I like my privacy and maybe I am anti-social in that regard. I'm not sure what constitutes that and don't really give a shite. I don't think her posting a pic every now and then when we are doing fun stuff really affects my privacy in the grand scheme of things.
I will say that I have been in a relationship where she was all the time wanting to take a pic to put on FB or something...that is definitely annoying so I think I see where you might be coming from. Mine never got that extreme though.
I do agree that I like my privacy and maybe I am anti-social in that regard. I'm not sure what constitutes that and don't really give a shite. I don't think her posting a pic every now and then when we are doing fun stuff really affects my privacy in the grand scheme of things.
I will say that I have been in a relationship where she was all the time wanting to take a pic to put on FB or something...that is definitely annoying so I think I see where you might be coming from. Mine never got that extreme though.
Posted on 6/9/15 at 1:13 pm to DownSouthJukin
I'm pretty anti-social, but I think it's a little abnormal to have your attitude.
But then I'm older and most of the pics I get tagged in revolve around my kids, and there's never any drama with FB. I only get on there to troll my conservative friends.
But then I'm older and most of the pics I get tagged in revolve around my kids, and there's never any drama with FB. I only get on there to troll my conservative friends.
Posted on 6/9/15 at 1:18 pm to DownSouthJukin
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I hate having my pic plastered on the interwebz.
So....you is fugly.
Spreadsheet updated.
Posted on 6/9/15 at 1:50 pm to DownSouthJukin
I don't want my picture and location to be broadcast to the whole world, goes back to my old "job" but I'm getting better about it I no longer hunt you down and and beat you for it
Posted on 6/9/15 at 3:34 pm to DownSouthJukin
My girlfriend is young and wants the world to know, but I'm not too concerned about it. I considered giving her a talk about it but eh, it's the way the world is now.
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