re: I dont know if i should laugh or cry

Of course you never really know what another person is going to do, but it's gotta be rare for a guy to go tpos overnight. His recruiter would be talking to the kid, his parents/guardian, teammates, and coaches, right? Somewhere in all that has got to be a clue that leads to more digging. Maybe you take a few kids like that if you think you can keep them on the straight and narrow, but there's obviously more than a few.