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Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:00 pm
Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:00 pm
The moment my parents' divorce began.
It was 3 and a half years ago. I was 26. People say it doesn't really affect "grown" kids as much as it does younger kids. That's bullshite. It just affects them differently. I didn't realize how much it affected me until just recently.
I lost all my good sense for a few months (had an affair, walked out on a perfect wife, quit a job doing what I love) and I think it's because the concept of family didn't really exist for me anymore. Somehow, I came to my senses and I'm back with my very-forgiving wife with a little girl on the way. Here on the other side of it, I can see it's only by the grace of God that I'm still here.
I can also see that the concept of family does exist. Even after the one you grew up with is broken.
What about you?
It was 3 and a half years ago. I was 26. People say it doesn't really affect "grown" kids as much as it does younger kids. That's bullshite. It just affects them differently. I didn't realize how much it affected me until just recently.
I lost all my good sense for a few months (had an affair, walked out on a perfect wife, quit a job doing what I love) and I think it's because the concept of family didn't really exist for me anymore. Somehow, I came to my senses and I'm back with my very-forgiving wife with a little girl on the way. Here on the other side of it, I can see it's only by the grace of God that I'm still here.
I can also see that the concept of family does exist. Even after the one you grew up with is broken.
What about you?
Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:05 pm to sorantable
Saying my final goodbye to my stepdaughter when my ex and I split. Wasn't my choice, broke my heart, still broken.
Thanks a lot for starting this thread, a-hole
Thanks a lot for starting this thread, a-hole

Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:09 pm to sorantable
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Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:14 pm to sorantable
My mom was a drug addict for 15 years. So all of those times she went missing.
And when my brother was killed.
And when my brother was killed.
Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:14 pm to Vols&Shaft83
quote:My dad cheated on my mom with Lady A. It didn't work out. He got to know Lady A's kids and said it was harder to tell them goodbye than it was to tell her goodbye.
Saying my final goodbye to my stepdaughter when my ex and I split. Wasn't my choice, broke my heart, still broken.
Fun fact: I cheated on my wife with Lady A's daughter. That's what's up

Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:14 pm to sorantable
That's a shame for you, but I'm glad it worked out.
For me, it was when I got home from work one night and found a note taped on the front door of the house from my wife. When I opened the door, the house was empty, so was our bank account, and I found out she had been having an affair with an old high school friend.
For me, it was when I got home from work one night and found a note taped on the front door of the house from my wife. When I opened the door, the house was empty, so was our bank account, and I found out she had been having an affair with an old high school friend.
Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:15 pm to kywildcatfanone
She deserves to rot in hell for that. I'm sorry
Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:16 pm to kywildcatfanone

Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:17 pm to sorantable
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Fun fact: I cheated on my wife with Lady A's daughter.
That's pretty fricked up
Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:19 pm to cas4t
quote:I know it sounds fricked up but we found common ground and were able to open up and deal with some of the pain from the whole experience. Then we fricked and screwed all the good parts of it up.
That's pretty fricked up

Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:19 pm to sorantable
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Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:21 pm to cas4t
That was 21 years ago. She ended up marrying the guy a few months later. I moved to another city and have been married to a wonderful lady. We will celebrate our 15th anniversary this summer. 

Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:22 pm to cas4t
When my dad passed away and I hadnt seen him in aboout 6 months(lung cancer) don't smoke cigs people.. But at the same time, it changed my life for the better and im not gonna look back and feel bad, i'm gonna look foward and realize that he would want it that way. And make his arse proud. 

Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:24 pm to kywildcatfanone
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kywildcatfanone
It's amazing the good that can come from absolutely shitty situations.
Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:24 pm to kywildcatfanone
damn that sucks. Im not sure how i would react to having my bank account drained by a bitch.
Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:25 pm to deltaland
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deltaland
frick you

Posted on 4/10/13 at 8:25 pm to sorantable
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