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What would you do with a son who doesn't want to play basketball anymore?

Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:30 pm
Posted by Cajun Tiger 4
Member since May 2018
355 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:30 pm
He is not getting the playtime he thinks he should get. He is a very good player, but is not cracking the top five. He wants to complete this season and be done with it. He just wants to workout, work, and do school. I think athletics are good for him. I am torn. I might just make him play. What the heck does a teenage boy know about what is best for him. I am worried idle time will lead to bad things.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
53254 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:31 pm to
Back in my day we had this thing called a belt. But I guess parents these days don’t know about that since I see so many sagging pants around
Posted by Powerman
Member since Jan 2004
162278 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:31 pm to
quote:

He just wants to workout, work, and do school.

Sounds like all worthy endeavors and you want to shite on him because he won't play a game?
Posted by 225Tyga
Member since Oct 2013
15922 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:31 pm to
Spray him in the face with a hose
Posted by SECSolomonGrundy
Slaughter Swamp
Member since Jun 2012
15991 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:32 pm to
quote:

I am worried idle time will lead to bad things.



Then help him find something else constructive to do with his time.

Dont force him to do something he isnt enjoying. He will have plenty of time to do that when he is an adult.
Posted by JonTigerFan11
Member since May 2016
868 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:32 pm to
Why not make him get an after school job if you’re worried about idle time
Posted by chalmetteowl
Chalmette
Member since Jan 2008
47966 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:32 pm to
quote:

. He wants to complete this season and be done with it.


Season just started did it not?
Posted by Corinthians420
Iowa
Member since Jun 2022
6968 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:32 pm to
if he isn't cracking the top 5 at his school then work is probably a more productive use of his time.
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
58326 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:32 pm to
Beat him. Then beat your ole lady. Then kick the dog.
I’m sure you will feel better after all of that
Posted by TCO
Member since Jul 2022
2545 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:33 pm to
He sounds spoiled. He won’t be on the team if he’s not a star?

What if everyone but the starting 5 followed this path?

Posted by NFLSU
Screwston, Texas
Member since Oct 2014
16708 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:33 pm to
What year is he?
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176530 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:33 pm to
put a dress on him and try out for the WNBA
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
30108 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:34 pm to
I’m sure forcing him to play will work out great.
Posted by mattz1122
Member since Oct 2007
52910 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:34 pm to
Please don’t let him quit. He might end up joining a gang and taking on bad habits like graffiti artistry and vanilla vaping.
Posted by tigernurse
Member since Dec 2005
30590 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:34 pm to
I didn't force my son to keep playing baseball, even though I love it. He wound up playing other sports and didn't even die one time.

I did tell him that I wanted him to play one sport each season, or be involved in some extra-curricular activity each semester. He choose football after baseball.

let him pick. he will respect the hell outta you for supporting him. he'd likely resent you and baseball If you forced him to keep playing.
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
36220 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:35 pm to
Working out will produce the same type of character sports do.
Just watch him closely. High school kids get easy access to steroids. It’s like candy now.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30423 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:35 pm to
Letting him quit when things aren’t going his way isn’t a good idea.
Posted by pioneerbasketball
Team Bunchie
Member since Oct 2005
132633 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:37 pm to
have him join a aau team
Posted by Demshoes
Up in here
Member since Aug 2015
10232 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:43 pm to
Force his arse. He definitely won't resent you for forcing him to do something he doesn't want to do.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
28772 posts
Posted on 11/8/23 at 7:43 pm to
What do you mean? You’re not thinking of like forcing him to play are you?
ETA: I see you are. How would that work? Sounds insane and overboard, not to mention highly ineffective. Sure there’s a chance he may get back onboard with some coercion but much bigger chance it’ll cause huge resentment and more turmoil than worth it.
This post was edited on 11/8/23 at 7:46 pm
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