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Posted on 6/30/16 at 2:15 pm to jvilletiger25
Posted on 6/30/16 at 2:15 pm to jvilletiger25
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You don't agree with anyone's opinion that is not your own. That is the very definition of bigotry. In fact, you think anyone's opinion that doesn't mirror yours is ridiculous.
Across the board? No.
On this matter? Of course. Literally just said that. I'm also bigoted when it comes to matters such as murder and sex slavery. The word "bigot" is a descriptor, not a trap word.
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Yet, here you are white knighting for the OP when you have zero idea of his own character.
What does his character have to do with his skin color? That wasn't the concern here. Quit deflecting. You're remarkably poor at it.
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Posted on 6/30/16 at 2:30 pm to CrimsonTideMD
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We can read what he has written. We can observe that he's seeking advice on a difficult situation. Those things speak to his character. They're not the end-all be-all, but theyre an introduction and a glimpse of his character.
So you're gullible enough to believe whatever you read on the internet?
Posted on 6/30/16 at 2:34 pm to TbirdSpur2010
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What does his character have to do with his skin color?
Not a thing. Why are you jumping to that conclusion?
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Quit deflecting
Who's the one deflecting? You bring up skin color when I'm talking about someone's character.
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I'm also bigoted when it comes to matters such as murder and sex slavery
So you believe there aren't times when taking someone's life isn't justified? I damn sure do, but I respect that you don't.
Posted on 6/30/16 at 2:38 pm to jvilletiger25
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So you're gullible enough to believe whatever you read on the internet?
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They're not the end-all be-all, but theyre an introduction and a glimpse of his character
You're really struggling to wrap your brain around an entire message, poor fella.
I said those things SPEAK to his character, and also clarified theyre not defining, and also that they're just a sample.
But youre myopic AF, clinging to whatever details suit you, ignoring those that don't, and propping up strawmen left and right in between the two.
You said, specifically, "you have zero idea of his own character." And thats flat out wrong. We don't know everything, but his effort alone provides something.
Posted on 6/30/16 at 2:46 pm to CrimsonTideMD
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You said, specifically, "you have zero idea of his own character." And thats flat out wrong. We don't know everything, but his effort alone provides something.
I guess you are gullible enough. What effort? Because he came on here looking for sympathy? You don't know this guy personally anymore than you do myself, so quit making assumptions.Posted on 6/30/16 at 2:46 pm to jvilletiger25
If he'd written something to the effect of "my gf is nervous about what her dad will think about me because I am in a street gang" or "struggle severely with heroin" or "have zero direction or drive in my life" then we'd be warranted in discussing what in his character might be a red flag to dear old dad.
But you're grasping at whatever straws you can to rationalize being against IR marriage by trying to deflect. Pretty crazy.
But you're grasping at whatever straws you can to rationalize being against IR marriage by trying to deflect. Pretty crazy.
Posted on 6/30/16 at 2:51 pm to jvilletiger25
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Not a thing. Why are you jumping to that conclusion?
Because you brought it up, you duplicitous bastard
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You bring up skin color when I'm talking about someone's character.
YOU brought up character, not the other way around. Jesus Christ you're obtuse
As for who's deflecting, you also questioned whether OP would be chastised for thinking he was to good to hear with a black chick. Come the hell on
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So you believe there aren't times when taking someone's life isn't justified? I damn sure do, but I respect that you don't.
Now who's jumping to conclusions? Never said what my druthers were, only that I was bigoted in them. Also never defined the circumstances of either.
Look, I'm a nerd. Don't try to wordplay with me. You'll fail even more spectacularly than you are in your racism apologetics attempts :lol:
Posted on 6/30/16 at 2:54 pm to TbirdSpur2010
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But you're grasping at whatever straws you can to rationalize being against IR marriage by trying to deflect
Once again, I didn't deflect shite. I said in my very first post whether it be right or not. And not once have I said anything against interracial marriage. But you make assumptions. My stance is with the girl's feelings. If this is hurting the girl and giving her anxiety, let her go. If it's not hurting her and she really wants to be with the guy, then she shouldn't care what her dad thinks. Dude is 22. There are billions of women out there. And I said that's my 2 cents.
Posted on 6/30/16 at 2:55 pm to jvilletiger25
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So you're gullible enough to believe whatever you read on the internet?
What are you trying to imply? What does the OP have to gain with this story? Pushing a narrative that we all already know exists?
Posted on 6/30/16 at 2:57 pm to TbirdSpur2010
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Look, I'm a nerd
What a surprise
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YOU brought up character, not the other way around
Yes I did. Then you quickly jumped into "does skin color affect character."
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Don't try to wordplay with me
I write for a living son.
Posted on 6/30/16 at 3:01 pm to GnashRebel
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This thread has gotten out of hand.
It's been interesting.
I think Bama and Ole Miss fans need to take a moment, and celebrate that it's not our posters defending bigotry.
(jvilletiger'sv worst nightmare) This post was edited on 6/30/16 at 3:02 pm
Posted on 6/30/16 at 3:01 pm to TbirdSpur2010
jvilletiger25
Posted on 6/30/16 at 3:05 pm to CCTider
Posted on 6/30/16 at 3:06 pm to jvilletiger25
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Once again, I didn't deflect shite.
Lied jvilletiger. Otra vez
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My stance is with the girl's feelings. If this is hurting the girl and giving her anxiety, let her go.
Horrid advice considering she can't help how her parent feels, or what silliness he may base his feelings upon.
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If it's not hurting her and she really wants to be with the guy, then she shouldn't care what her dad thinks.
Most folks (even estranged ones) crave parental approval, from important decisions to superfluous ones. When that's put in Jeopardy, anxiety is often involved. But it's not the harbinger of doom you make it out to be, nor is it something worth sacrificing their relationship over. She ain't marrying her dad. She wants his approval and is fretting over it based upon his prior behavior toward race. But it'll hurt her far more if (worst case scenario), she ultimately allowed another's short-sightedness to destroy her own relationship with the guy who wants to spend the rest of his life with her.
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Dude is 22. There are billions of women out there.
Irrelevant. I got married at 22 to the love of my life (who just so happened to be white), and celebrated our 5 year anniversary this past weekend. Forget the billions of other women. When you find a good one, you fight for her, period.
Posted on 6/30/16 at 3:06 pm to jvilletiger25
You took the loss and look like a racist apologist in this thread. Sorry.
Posted on 6/30/16 at 3:06 pm to jvilletiger25
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I write for a living son.
Oh shite!!! I didn't know we were matching wits with professional scribbler of words and letters!!! Abandon ship T-bird, before we get embarrassed!!!!
For real, though, some "writer" wrote this
Posted on 6/30/16 at 3:10 pm to jvilletiger25
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What a surprise
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Yes I did. Then you quickly jumped into "does skin color affect character."
Because that was not cogent to this discussion.
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I write for a living son.
That IS a surprise, because your skill is lacking.
Step your game up, please. You're embarrassing yourself.
Posted on 6/30/16 at 3:11 pm to TbirdSpur2010
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Forget the billions of other women. When you find a good one, you fight for her, period.
Well, I found a good one a little over a year ago. Her parents did not approve because I am divorced, have kids and am in my 30s. She was 19. I let her go because I loved her enough not to put her through tension. Now maybe one day down the road things will change, but I loved her enough to let her go and see if something else could make her happier. It kills me every day. That's what true love is, putting someone else above your own wants.
Posted on 6/30/16 at 3:13 pm to CrimsonTideMD
You've already embarrassed yourself
Posted on 6/30/16 at 3:16 pm to CrimsonTideMD
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For real, though, some "writer" wrote this
I don't know about you, but I'd love to read that book. I see amazing unintentional comedic potential.
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