re: Serious question..if your S/O did this what would your response be?

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Carolina_Girl

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The situation is fricked and a I feel for ya girl.

Here's the deal. Yes he is a dumbass 1. For putting you in this situation and 2. For believing you would actually buy that shite.

Now his story don't hold weight at all and you yourself have already shot holes through it. I understand you must really like this turd because you are actually trying to rationalize this garbage story and blatant disrespect to you as a credible story.
I have been in this situation before and obviously so have you with the little backstory you have given. You know what your gut is telling you to do and you are fighting it and wondering what we all think to try and give it some backup.
Trust me on this. Trust your gut always (not your heart) or it will prove you wrong every time.

He is laying groundwork for a fantastical story. Obviously something has went sideways with this side girl and she has threatened to come to you and lay it in the open. The most obvious tie that can be proven is the 126 money transfer and this weak arse story is what he has come up with on the fly to try and explain this shite away to you. I'm willing to bet sometime and the next couple days or weeks the bomb from her is going to land at your feet. Do yourself a favor and get out ahead of his bullshite so it doesn't hit you so hard. He has already shown his hand do not allow him to get all the smoke and mirrors in place.

The only thing he can take from you that you cant recover from is your time. Do not waste any more on him.

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news. I hope you can recover from this relatively unscathed.