re: What constitutes cheating?

If you wouldn't do it in front of your SO....


I'm naturally a little "flirty" when I talk to women. Nothing sexual, I just use the typical "Southern Charm", always have. It doesn't bother my wife.

Now I wouldn't go past talking with any woman in front of my wife (except a hug between friends). So more than talking, to me, can be seen as cheating. If I wouldn't want my wife seeing me doing it, it's cheating.

But my wife and I have both been cheated on before in past relationships, so it skews our view on the subject a little.

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What constitutes cheating?

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If you're so non-dedicated to your partner that the thought comes up to do anything like that with another, you're already cheating.

Seriously. People need to put on their grown-up pants and act like freakin' adults, instead of trying to find loopholes that let them bang whatever member of the opposite sex happens to be nearby at that time (or same sex if that's your preference).

Cheating is engaging in romantic or sexual liaisons with another person while committed to another person. If you think telling your partner about something you did will upset them, then ding - you're cheating.