re: Female Troubles

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Yeah if a guy gave me rules up front for dating him.... I'm running.

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Ikr? I think that'd be weird if either gender came into it like that.

Some folks overthink this relationship stuff, IMO. Just fricking pay attention to your SO. Especially, if in OP's case, you've been engaged for 3 years, you should know what makes her tick. Especially when it comes to as big an insecurity as being ready to end the relationship over something. There would be plenty of tells. Enough for you to know pretty reasonably that being on a dating site would set her off.

Am I saying I think you're in the wrong by so doing? Not necessarily. Every relationship is different. My wife doesn't give a shite if I look at/talk about other girls. She'll ask me if I think a random gal is hot. We watch porn together. I know where my limits are with her and I don't do shite that will potentially antagonize her or arouse any fears/suspicions. Basic shite that a couple should do for each other.