re: I need help, guys

If this is off limits let me know but I thought I remembered having a discussion maybe a year ago and if I remember correctly there was a situation involving a potential job change with some period of time apart and I did not know whether that ended up having an impact on things. Point is depending on how things were broken leads in to whether they can be repaired.

When one party is talking about divorce the only real options are counseling if the other party will agree to it or litigation which will involve divorce, custody, property division, etc.

I've been involved in cases where parties reconciled after marriage counseling so it does and can work. But when all is said and done if one party is adamant about filing for divorce all you can do is seek legal counsel and try to make the best of it.