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re: my ex left me again and its tearing me apart (Please give me some advice/insight)

Posted on 2/22/15 at 2:56 am to
Posted by MsGarrison
Steele Town LOL
Member since Nov 2009
22009 posts
Posted on 2/22/15 at 2:56 am to
Does she even care? We planned on moving to Florida together. I feel like she sabotaged our relationship due to her insecurities and trust issues. She was so obsessed with my ex. She even made her self believe my ex had called her before all this stuff happened. But when she called the number back it was the wrong number. She then didn't apologiZe but continued to fabricate more tall tales to feed her ego
Posted by pioneerbasketball
Team Bunchie
Member since Oct 2005
132865 posts
Posted on 2/22/15 at 3:00 am to
Move on brah.

You have friends here
Posted by Reservoir dawg
Member since Oct 2013
14188 posts
Posted on 2/22/15 at 5:35 am to
Do you have any kids with her?
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
91263 posts
Posted on 2/22/15 at 6:12 pm to
I read your OP and have not read any additional posts in this thread beyond your first 3 parts.

I'm not trolling and will be completely honest with you because I dated a crazy vindictive bitch once and know exactly what you're going through.

She is the one sleeping around, having an affair. She is acting all crazy accusing you of the one cheating because it keeps you all worked up trying to defend yourself and keeps your suspicions of her at a low level. You're trying to fix everything because you're blinded by your love for her, while she simply doesn't give a shite. She is making your life a living hell and playing games with you so she can go live her carefree life doing what she wants. That's why she won't give you her phone and keeps secrets from you...she has something to hide. When you ask, she turns it around on you and leaves you so you forget all about her shadiness and worry about getting her back.

It's the truth man, trust me when I say this, just leave her altogether and work on putting your life and career back on track. You'll be happier in the long run.
Posted by Brendoni
Oklahoma City, Ok
Member since Apr 2009
21289 posts
Posted on 2/22/15 at 11:12 pm to
quote:

Does she even care?


doesn't sound like it.
Posted by Monk
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2007
3660 posts
Posted on 2/22/15 at 11:46 pm to
Sounds like a great girl. You should totally do whatever is needed to get her back. Good luck.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67311 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 8:08 am to
She didn't sabotage your life because she's insecure, or because she loves you too much or any other bull shite like that. She sabotaged your life because she's a crazy, sociopath bitch. Move on, and be happy doing so. Completely cut her out of your life. Don't take her calls, don't respond to her texts, block her and de-friend her on social media, don't respond to her emails, ect. Focus on your career and rebuilding it. Focus on improving yourself:
Pursuing hobbies
Investing in more skills
Investing in fitness
Healthy eating
Building your career

things will have the benefit of getting you on better financial footing, getting healthier, give you more opportunities to make friends or meet women, and will make you more attractive via more skills, better appearance, and increased confidence.
This post was edited on 2/23/15 at 8:10 am
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 5:10 am to
Dude this is how stds are spread, move on
Posted by JuiceTerry
Roond the Scheme
Member since Apr 2013
40868 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 9:37 pm to
What part of Florida is she moving to? Asking for a friend..
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