re: my ex left me again and its tearing me apart (Please give me some advice/insight)

Part 3

She then goes cold on me after I ask her to please tell me what is going on. She ignores me completely. She left me in the hotel. I call, text, email. Nothing. Finally two days later I said I would call her to get some answers to know what and where we stand. She then replies back that she is with her family and she would email me as that's the best she could do. She needed time to formulate her thoughts. I told her to not email but call me and handle this like adults. She never called and every time I called she sent my call to voicemail. So friday I say Im going to call at 7pm. She replies back very cruelly, "I said I would contact you when I'm ready don't try to control how I deal with this." What is she dealing with? She broke up with me over her phone and being all secretive. She even went so far to send my previous ex 35+ emails, my phone number, etc.. As if I was having an affair on her. My previous ex even called her to tell her we were not together. This girl took my career away from me, I'm virtually on the brink of losing everything after she messed it up. Then on top of that she left today for Florida. She has left my life in shambles. She doesn't even care what is going on with me and my well being after she destroyed it. What the frick is wrong with her