re: OT: Anyone ever been through a divorce here?

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Counseling will work, but it will only work if all parties involved agree there is a problem and want to resolve it.

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Correct.

I'd suggest he interview the best counselor that fits his goals and attend himself regardless of the outcome of the marriage. You cannot make counseling work if you're not ready to transform your life. I'm just alluding to the fact he probably has a hand in the current situation he isn't addressing. Becoming more self aware is extremely powerful.

Plus, it would show is wife he is determined to be a better person and he will be leaving her arse behind shortly if she doesn't right the ship.