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Why do so many young girls date bad guys?
Posted on 8/3/13 at 11:20 am
Posted on 8/3/13 at 11:20 am
girls say they can never find a good guy even though there are plenty, but continue to go after guys who treat them like shite?
it's a never ending story. many women finally wake up around 25 years old and realize they can't change a person and finally settle for any guy with a little money because of "comfort."
it's a never ending story. many women finally wake up around 25 years old and realize they can't change a person and finally settle for any guy with a little money because of "comfort."
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Posted on 8/3/13 at 11:30 am to diddydirtyAubie
Most girls I know go through this stage, including myself, and yes, most eventually grow up (minus the eternally stupid ones) and realize they can't change anyone else, and move on.
Posted on 8/3/13 at 11:31 am to diddydirtyAubie
goes back to how they were raised
Posted on 8/3/13 at 11:33 am to diddydirtyAubie
With "good guys" there tends to be the smothering type that gets really clingy and that can be a turn off. Not all, but definitely some.
I've dated my fair share of assholes but it's usually been a case of not seeing the signs until you're into the relationship. And like you said, thinking you can change a person. Sometimes you just have to learn through experience that you can't.
The happy medium is finding someone who is a good guy, but isn't spineless and is willing to put you in your place if you need it. Too much of either "bad" or "good" can be a bad thing.
I've dated my fair share of assholes but it's usually been a case of not seeing the signs until you're into the relationship. And like you said, thinking you can change a person. Sometimes you just have to learn through experience that you can't.
The happy medium is finding someone who is a good guy, but isn't spineless and is willing to put you in your place if you need it. Too much of either "bad" or "good" can be a bad thing.
Posted on 8/3/13 at 11:33 am to hawgfaninc
quote:this mainly.
goes back to how they were raised
Posted on 8/3/13 at 11:39 am to BluegrassBelle
Guys that are too "good" are, for the most part, boring
Posted on 8/3/13 at 11:45 am to diddydirtyAubie
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girls say they can never find a good guy even though there are plenty, but continue to go after guys who treat them like shite?
They love us because we provide excitement and a challenge. I have found that a lot of the time lots of women to the little bitch male friends that are in it for the long con. Bitches be crazy and leave out a LOT of details.
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it's a never ending story. many women finally wake up around 25 years old and realize they can't change a person and finally settle for any guy with a little money because of "comfort."
There is truth to this. They go through a phase at the end of college where they either marry who they think they should marry, or freak out and go on a whore rampage right out of college because a lot of their friends get married. The smart ones find themselves around 25 or 26 and instead of trying to settle down with a man they think society and social groups think they should be with in a pictureesque world and they start to sit down and be reflective of what they actually like in a counterpoint. It is what it is. Just don't be a guy in it that got friend zoned in college and still keeps in contact constantly thinking one day it will work out. Those pathetic males need to turn in their man cards.
Posted on 8/3/13 at 11:47 am to BluegrassBelle
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The happy medium is finding someone who is a good guy, but isn't spineless and is willing to put you in your place if you need it.
That's a formula for some good sex right there.
Posted on 8/3/13 at 11:48 am to diddydirtyAubie
I thought my wife was drawn to my bad-boy persona but it was just my huge penis the whole time 
Posted on 8/3/13 at 11:48 am to UMRealist
I think this is true for females who haven't matured or haven't had the life experience to teach them differently. Most I know grow out of this phase and don't consider "good" guys to be boring, anymore. I believe it's just a maturity issue.
Posted on 8/3/13 at 11:54 am to sorantable
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I thought my wife was drawn to my bad-boy persona but it was just my huge penis the whole time
I'm glad at least one of you guys can see it.
Posted on 8/3/13 at 11:55 am to Arkla Missy
I agree
Posted on 8/3/13 at 11:56 am to BluegrassBelle
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isn't spineless and is willing to put you in your place if you need it. Too much of either "bad" or "good" can be a bad thing.
Read: handcuffs, just as long as their padded.
Posted on 8/3/13 at 11:58 am to InVolNerable
Posted on 8/3/13 at 12:51 pm to Arkla Missy
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I think this is true for females who haven't matured or haven't had the life experience to teach them differently. Most I know grow out of this phase and don't consider "good" guys to be boring, anymore. I believe it's just a maturity issue.
Exactly. There is something incredibly sexy about a bad boy, and when they're young girls think they can understand him, and change him, and he'll magically reform because he loves them. And some guys do change - but not because of a girl they start out treating like shite. For someone to change, they have to do it for themselves. That's the only way it works.
Most girls grow up and realize that it's far more important to have a good guy, someone that will treat them well and build a life with them. That doesn't mean we don't still have a soft spot for a bad boy - we just know that they're not good for us and leave them alone. That's maturity, and a sense of self-worth.
Posted on 8/3/13 at 1:10 pm to semotruman
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Most girls grow up and realize that it's far more important to have a good guy, someone that will treat them well and build a life with them. That doesn't mean we don't still have a soft spot for a bad boy - we just know that they're not good for us and leave them alone. That's maturity, and a sense of self-worth.
Soft, wet and hopefully tight.
Posted on 8/3/13 at 1:24 pm to TeLeFaWx
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hopefully tight.
If it's got no rubber left on the tires, always remember the a-hole is always tight.
Posted on 8/3/13 at 1:30 pm to diddydirtyAubie
Women are crazy. Don't try to understand them. Just accept it
Posted on 8/3/13 at 1:35 pm to deltaland
Except after a Chipotle date.
Posted on 8/3/13 at 2:17 pm to semotruman
and what exactly is a bad boy? what kind of traits do you find sexy in a bad boy?
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