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re: I guess it's Mizzou's week coming up. Unflattering OTL out

Posted on 1/24/14 at 7:50 pm to
Posted by semotruman
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 7:50 pm to
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Any player in particular you think ESPN is trying to flip?

No, no one specific.Supposedly 3 Texas commits are now interested in Missouri though. I just think the timing is not coincidental.

Posted by kilo
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 7:57 pm to
I would like to sponsor cheese grits for access to the Mizzou board.

Quality poster.
Posted by Cheese Grits
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 7:59 pm to
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Supposedly 3 Texas commits are now interested in Missouri though.


Interesting, did not know that. Thanks for the update.

BTW, the commentary between reedus and yourself on the MU board was much better than what this thread went to. Interesting comments by both of you and well worth the read.

The tape that vanished is disturbing as it appears to validate the claim of the deceased and it was in the possession of someone who could have disclosed information that heath care providers could not. The only question I have is law enforcement and HIPPA. It was my understanding that law enforcement and insurance companies were exempt from HIPPA, or at least they were in the early drafts of the HIPPA documents.
Posted by Prof
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:04 pm to
Regarding the withdrawal papers - that didn't have to be done the way it was. You don't visit someone in a psych ward who feels like you've been trying to get rid of them with papers designed to get rid of them. The medical center shouldn't have allowed them in to see her. That was a failure on both the medical center AND the AD as well as her coach who was very likely in the loop on that one.

Given the time frame there was no need to push the withdrawal on her and she was certainly pushed. With 90 percent of work (grades) done by then professors can and do give incompletes which can be rectified when the person is well. THIS would've protected the work she'd put into courses by allowing her to finish the work and get the college credits she earned whether she decided to return to Mizzou or transfer. Withdrawals erase that.

Also, given the nature of the situation the deadline didn't matter. I know that as students most think it does but it only matters until situations like this come up. When situations like this happen the rulebook goes out the window - administrators, registrars, professors and all those fancy titled people can and will work to withdraw you, assign I's, and/or assign grades after deadlines pass. Of course, the AD thinking too much like an AD and too little with her actual brain probably didn't think about this before it was too late and obvious that another path might've been better.
Posted by Mizzeaux
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:11 pm to
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Regarding the withdrawal papers - that didn't have to be done the way it was. You don't visit someone in a psych ward who feels like you've been trying to get rid of them with papers designed to get rid of them. The medical center shouldn't have allowed them in to see her. That was a failure on both the medical center AND the AD as well as her coach who was very likely in the loop on that one.



I'm filing this under the No Good Deed Goes Unpunished header.

The assumption is that she was doing well in class prior to her treatment, which I haven't read anywhere (I may have missed it.) If she was doing marginally or otherwise withdrawal helps overcome the absence, but in addition to the grades there was apparently an athletic eligibility issue, and from what I've read, the withdrawal assisted her in not only maintaining eligibility but also assisted her in continuing with her education.

If this was a normal student and she was put into treatment, I could understand taking an imcomplete, but with my understanding of the eligibility rules the withdrawal preserved her eligibility and leaving her enrolled and incomplete in classes would not have done the same.

I could be wrong though.

I don't think the university was trying to be rid of her, as they had no reason to try to be rid of her by the time this issue came to pass. To be honest, I'd trust the university to not push her out the door even if what we know now was known then.
This post was edited on 1/24/14 at 8:14 pm
Posted by Prof
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:26 pm to
^^A professor of hers said she would've passed both his classes. As to preserving athletic eligibility... the NCAA allows waivers and petitions on anything and everything so pretty much whatever rule they have (and I'm pretty sure I've given an athlete an incomplete before) about withdrawals or incompletes is subject to an appeal of sorts. But again, you don't go to the hospital of a suicidal student with withdrawal papers. You can wait - the withdrawal can be done past the deadline.
Posted by reedus23
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:30 pm to
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I would like to sponsor cheese grits for access to the Mizzou board.

Quality poster.


It might get the trolling to stop actually. The trolling started when access was voted down.
Posted by MIZ_COU
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:33 pm to
So is all this over the speculation that they were trying to rid themselves of her?
Posted by TigerMattSTL
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:33 pm to
The night she signed the papers she was transported to KC, then to Boston. She wasn't back in Columbia, so when would she have signed? The school talked with her parents. They were involved in the decision. What more do you want?
Posted by TigerMattSTL
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:34 pm to
Also while the NCAA does allow waivers, they are slow as hell and the NCAA has a track record of shooting down Mizzou. They wanted to keep her eligible for the fall.
Posted by Cheese Grits
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:37 pm to
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So is all this over the speculation that they were trying to rid themselves of her?


I think that is one of the points. As Prof noted in the post above, not the best way to deal with the issue at hand. Especially if a person is in under an involuntary order. If you are involuntary you can not check yourself out, hence my point about locked wards in a general facility.
Posted by kilo
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:41 pm to
It seems the tone of this thread has shifted over he course from "ready to lynch the Missouri AD for covering up rape" to arguments of academic procedure surrounding the withdrawal of this poor young woman from the academic period.

Folks can keep making assumptions as to those issues. I hope that there is a lengthy internal investigation so that all the minor details are clear in so far as the University of Missouri is involved.

This is a tragically sad story. I'm not sure it's any kind of whitewash of events by the Missouri AD to the huge dismay of the usual suspects here hence the focus on withdrawal from school, a decision supported by her family.

Those that are focused on spinning and assumption making clearly with a bias to paint Missouri in bad light are fooling no one.

Oh and grits. You can frick off and grow up as well. What you are doing here, this pathetic attempt to ply some form of neutral insights while taking your terribly transparent shots at Mizzou while you go,
you know; your usual act when it comes to Missouri here, is fooling absolutely no one.

This post was edited on 1/24/14 at 8:43 pm
Posted by Prof
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:42 pm to
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So is all this over the speculation that they were trying to rid themselves of her?


What do you mean? The ESPN report? I think it's over the over all handling which could've gone a whole lot better than it did.
Posted by Mizzeaux
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:44 pm to
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What do you mean? The ESPN report? I think it's over the over all handling which could've gone a whole lot better than it did.



I'm trying to take an unbiased neutral view on the whole thing, which isn't really possible, but I don't see how things could have been handled much better then they were.

They probably should have looked further into the report, since as an educational institution they have a stronger responsibility to investigate and report crimes of this sort than the police do, but besides that...I don't know where else I find much fault.
Posted by MIZ_COU
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:46 pm to
Given my experiences with both the university and the AD I just can't imagine that's what happened. At MU if you leave in the middle of classes the best thing is a withdrawal. Otherwise you are going to get F's or possibly I's but that requires talking to each prof. And if the I's aren't completed within a certain amount of time they become F's. With a withdrawal the slate is wiped clean and all options are open when/if she come's back. I'm sure that's what they were thinking. Indeed a withdrawal that late requires special dispensation.
If they wanted to push her out all they had to do was ignore the whole thing. She would have flunked out - problem solved. I am nearly certain they thought they were helping, but they did it in an insensitive bureaucratic way.
Posted by reedus23
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:59 pm to
To be honest, I think the whole argument of whether or not MU should have taken withdrawal papers to her in a hospital is pathetic. No matter what the University did or didn't do, they were going to end up getting second guessed. There are other and far more serious issues that need to be addressed at the University beyond the legal efficacy of a document signed by one in a hospital.
Posted by semotruman
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 9:16 pm to
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The tape that vanished is disturbing as it appears to validate the claim of the deceased and it was in the possession of someone who could have disclosed information that heath care providers could not

But supposedly the tape was so dark he couldn't tell who was who. And the young lady said she had consensual sex with Moye, and someone else (who she didn't see) came in when they were sleeping and forced himself on her. Then she later claims she knew who this guy was, but never identified him in her journal or any report that has since come to light. Her friend Woodland, who had the tape, claims it was 3 guys taking turns and that she may not have remembered because she was so intoxicated. But he's "lost" the tape. And other than confronting one of the alleged rapists, he did nothing else because he thought she did not want to pursue it.

The whole thing is a cluster. Very sad.

And as I understand it, law enforcement has no access to medical records without consent of the patient.
Posted by Prof
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 9:18 pm to
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I'm trying to take an unbiased neutral view on the whole thing, which isn't really possible, but I don't see how things could have been handled much better then they were.

They probably should have looked further into the report, since as an educational institution they have a stronger responsibility to investigate and report crimes of this sort than the police do, but besides that...I don't know where else I find much fault.


Well we're talking about multiple things that went on here that may or may not add up to any fault beyond 'what the hell were you thinking doing this way instead of that way.' I think she felt shut out by the swim coach and AD early on and I think her parents came to feel that way too after the documents came out. Colleges and universities don't like dealing with mental health issues or rape. Administrators, from my experience, are particularly uncomfortable with students who need real help -- they'd rather you just go home so you're not their responsibility and tend to push students who are having problems out so there is cause for some concern whenever something like this occurs. Although I don't the AD was pushing her out the door over the rape since she was already in Boston before she told her, I am somewhat suspicious of the swim coach and AD just not wanting to deal with a student with mental health issues.

More than anything I think the report raises questions that need to be answered about how the whole situation - everything from the mental health care aspect to the rape - was handled but seeing only the short video and reading the article it's difficult to draw many conclusions beyond that.
Posted by MIZ_COU
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 9:19 pm to
Yes it really seems to be a side issue. For all we know she was cognizant of all this. When I was in school knowing these rules so you didn't flunk out was frequently in the conversation.
You certainly can't tell from the ESPN piece. It's actually pretty short on facts, doesn't include any interviews and the facts are ordered for maximum inuendo. It's simply a slam piece done for ratings,
based on a tragedy. Journalism at it's finest.
Posted by Cheese Grits
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 9:20 pm to
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It seems the tone of this thread has shifted over he course from "ready to lynch the Missouri AD for covering up rape" to arguments of academic procedure surrounding the withdrawal of this poor young woman from the academic period.


No, I think it has been pretty consistent in that how it was handled may be the touchstone for how not to handle a similar situation going forward. If there was a tape that showed 3 football players doing bad things that is a problem. Prof made the specific point that proceeding when they did about the academic situation was clearly ill advised for someone who - "She was hospitalized again and placed on a 96-hour involuntary commitment." - was clearly in a fragile enough state for a formal involuntary.

The article stated "Missouri athletic department staffer Meghan Anderson presented a University Withdrawal Form to Menu Courey, which Menu Courey signed despite a desire to continue with her schooling and the fact that she was legally incapacitated at the time." certain things as facts, and if those are correct facts shows flaws in how it was handled by the university. This is not just commentary on Mizzou, and had any other university done the same I would be raising the same talking points.

#1 Meghan was an AD staffer, not a staff member from the academic side of Missouri.
#2 Sasha was legally incapacitated at the time - and it sure sounds like she was in a locked facility, or at least a locked ward.
#3 No matter what the official policy timetable was, this was not the time or place to deal with it.
#4 Clearly there was a downward spiral, and seems to support a precipitating event - in this case a self reported sexual assault.

kilo, a person clearly died here and there appears to be a crime that caused this final event. If it was my daughter I would want some closure especially if the sexual assault was committed by multiple attackers. You are so blinded to see this as a trolling event that you have completely lost sight of the bigger issues.

From the article "Woodland said she was unaware, perhaps due to her intoxication, that multiple football players were taking turns having intercourse with her."

This was not Sasha stating this but a third party who was on the football team. Seems like a convincing "smoking gun" that something bad did indeed happen. The separation is wether Mizzou knew about it, but it does appear to have happened and the persons involved were Mizzou football players.

Deflect all you want if it makes you secure with yourself, but if there really was a gang rape then somebody needs to be brought to justice.
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