re: I hate Thanksgiving

This tool is useful at this time of year. You need a wing man for this though. My brother in law is my wing man. If one of us sees the other “engaging” unnecessarily like arguing with a family member about whatever it may be, your wingman is supposed to either verbally or by signal tell you to “Disengage”. At this point you should disengage.

If you fail to “Disengage”, and choose to continue engaging, then your wingman goes to level 2 and signals to you “WHAT ARE YOU DOING???”.

At which point you collect yourself, realize that it doesn’t matter, and ask yourself, “What the hell am I doing???” and hopefully disengage resulting in life being easier for you and your wingman in the environment you find yourselves in.