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I believe, in my heart of hearts, that he was desperate to get that $ back and since he bought the 'close friend' line, thought she would listen to me not only bc of that, but bc he knew I would beat this bitch's arse like she has never been beaten before.

He KNOWS all of my friends, y'all. Isn't it odd that he actually believed (I think he is using that as a flimsy excuse) she was a 'close friend' yet he has NEVER ONCE heard me mention this chick in any way, shape, form or fashion.

Of course, I don't know either of you, so you know the situation much better than anyone here. The facts as you've related them are not enough to draw any firm conclusion. The one fact that you have clearly indicated that seems at odds with the theory that he is cheating is the fact that he told you about it and asked you to help him get the money back.

It seems to me that, if he were cheating on you, especially with someone you barely knew, the last thing he would want to do is anything that would put you on the scent. Your theory that he did it because he was desperate to get the money back is, of course, something only you can decide, but it would be surprising if $126 was enough to make anybody that desperate.

In any event, good luck to you and I hope it works out best for you, however that turns out to be.