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He KNOWS all of my friends, y'all. Isn't it odd that he actually believed (I think he is using that as a flimsy excuse) she was a 'close friend' yet he has NEVER ONCE heard me mention this chick in any way, shape, form or fashion.

So, he knew she wasn't your friend?

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the excuse she gave for needing the money was something to do with taking a test and a train trip to a work seminar. This girl is supposed to be a hospice nurse.

News flash...I am an ER/Trauma nurse. You NEVER take the NCLEX again unless your license has been revoked or it has been over either 5 or 6 yrs since you last practiced as a nurse. So that was bullshite. And if it was a work related seminar, why the frick take a train? And every Hospice Agency that I have ever dealt with in 15 yrs of being a nurse covers the cost of transportation to and from work related events such as a seminar. Another line of bullshite.

So, he fell for her bullshite? Or did he know she was lying? Or did she not tell him any of that and he is just lying to you? I'm confused about what you're trying to say. First you think he believed she was your friend and then you say, essentially, that he couldn't possibly believe she was your friend. Then you say that she gave him a bullshite reason for needing the money, but you don't indicate whether you think he believed her.

Also, although you have been involved for 7 months, it seems unlikely that he knows ALL of your friends. There are bound to be people you consider friends but haven't seen or talked to in 7 months, or at least not while he happened to be present. I would be surprised if a couple actually knew all of each other's friends after just 7 months.