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My son came to my room while I was asleep, lifted up the sheets and saw my butt this morni
Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:08 pm
Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:08 pm
I woke up because he and the youngest were giggling and whispering. Got a call from my lovely dear ex-wife saying she doesn't want my boys being allowed to stay at my place anymore on visitation because she fears the boys aren't safe around me any longer.
What the frick do I do right now after being semi-accused of whatever it is she's saying I did? Is there preemptive legal action I should take to better place myself in a court situation with her about this? She said I beat them during our divorce hearing but gave up on it after my lawyer did some very basic questioning.
She'll say anything. She tells the boys there new last name is whatever her new last name is. She's trying to completely eliminate me from their life.
What the frick do I do right now after being semi-accused of whatever it is she's saying I did? Is there preemptive legal action I should take to better place myself in a court situation with her about this? She said I beat them during our divorce hearing but gave up on it after my lawyer did some very basic questioning.
She'll say anything. She tells the boys there new last name is whatever her new last name is. She's trying to completely eliminate me from their life.
This post was edited on 7/26/15 at 5:14 pm
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Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:10 pm to Stacked
show your ex your but
Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:14 pm to Stacked
Wow, she sounds like she is gunning to get you out of their lives. Not a lawyer and usually hate to waste money on them...but this can not end well and I would get on the phone bright & early tomorrow and secure legal counsel.
***I have an ex who would like nothing better to get me out of the equation and all her efforts have completely back fired over the past 13 years. So much so, that my son, now 15 years old, has decided he wants to come live with me and we are starting the legal process, which she is fighting, to make it happen.
***I have an ex who would like nothing better to get me out of the equation and all her efforts have completely back fired over the past 13 years. So much so, that my son, now 15 years old, has decided he wants to come live with me and we are starting the legal process, which she is fighting, to make it happen.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:37 pm to Stacked
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She's trying to completely eliminate me from their life.
Everything except your money, no doubt.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:54 pm to Stacked
If you're the client of a good lawyer then you need to start accumulating evidence of her false incriminations now, including the divorce procedure. You are her target and she will stop at nothing short of alienating the boys to you.
Good luck, Dave.
Good luck, Dave.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 6:06 pm to Stacked
My brother is having similar problems with his ex right now. With the youngest being four, he's got 14 more years of this to put up with. I feel for both of you.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 7:28 pm to Stacked
Stay focused on the boys and just be the best dad you can while they are with you, and communicate with them as much as you can when they are not.
Follow others advice on getting a lawyer involved. When you have the kids don't speak ill of your ex. Don't even let her become a topic of discussion if at all possible. Your relationship is with the kids and not the ex.
That is a normal occurrence in the life of any kid at some point or another. I wouldn't stress too much over her ramblings, but I again would involve a lawyer and start wearing a go pro for the entire visitation period (just kidding).
Follow others advice on getting a lawyer involved. When you have the kids don't speak ill of your ex. Don't even let her become a topic of discussion if at all possible. Your relationship is with the kids and not the ex.
That is a normal occurrence in the life of any kid at some point or another. I wouldn't stress too much over her ramblings, but I again would involve a lawyer and start wearing a go pro for the entire visitation period (just kidding).
Posted on 7/26/15 at 7:38 pm to Stacked
I'm sure the warning signs were there before you got married.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 7:40 pm to Stacked
I would also lock the bedroom door if I was going to polish the family jewels. You should have learned this in your Masterbation 101 class.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 11:39 pm to Stacked
You're 32, still in school, have kids, a divorce, and drive a goddamn Camry?
Wow...
Wow...
Posted on 7/27/15 at 12:25 pm to Stacked
Posted on 7/27/15 at 12:46 pm to Stacked
No pants? You have children? Prayers sent to them. 
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