re: Weird Fetishes

Look man, you accept your friends as they are. He has done nothing to you or your family directly, and has never intended any harm towards you.

Is it gross? In my opinion yes, but you aren't doing it. He isn't doing it in front of you. Good friends are hard to find and keep. I'd just be honest with him that you are having a hard time dealing with the knowledge. Just tell him as a friend you still want to hang out with him but you don't want to hear any stories about it.

If he acts weird about it, just ask him if he'd have a problem if you all of a sudden told him you were gay and obsessed with giving dudes rim jobs and sucking cock and go I nto details about it. Or you could come up w some really gross images that he wouldn't enjoy.

Regardless, even if he is ok w hearing about it, you aren't. He should accept that and you can just get back to life.